Anupama doesn’t deserve Anuj Kapadia! - Page 2

Anuj ne kabhi anupama roka nhi uski responsibility nibane ke liye

Mujhe ye samajh nhi aata why d hell anupama can't say no to bapuji once , she knew anuj is grieving still she went shah house to celebrate holi Cant she skip it & when anuj came he saw anupama enjoying with shah family he wiped his tears before his outburst

Jab kissi ke Ghar koi mar jaata hai to vo log upcoming festival ko skip kar dete hai, CA went away , anupama still went shah family, no u don't have to turn devdas to show ur grief but still anupama enjoying with shah family hinted anuj that he & CA dont matter him at all, my mother also said anupama should maintain a distance from shah family

Baggage hone ka matalab ye thodi hai ji apna present destroy kar lo , ye anupama ki responsibility thi uske past uske present ko destroy na kare but she failed miserably in it , she got many warning signals still she dint worked upon it.

Even barkha once said where is anuj in this relationship as it's all about shah family for anupama

Reminder

Anupama has given much time to Kapadia right after Maan marriage she does not visit shah house much after Maan marriage only she went to shah house during God bharai of kinjal

Anupama ka shah house after Maan marriage mein tub aana jaana tub shuru hua because of pakhi adhik relationship

Where vanraj was against pakhi adhik marriage so pakhi went to stay at Kapadia house as vanraj not allowing pakhi to meet adhik even stop pakhi going to college

Here anupama said to pakhi that u can't stay here at Kapadia house

Now anupama went to shah house pakhi ask anupama to get out and called her kalank in name of mother hood

Anupama said now she will not come here

Now after that what happen

Anupama Now focus on anuj and choti

During rakhi day it is choti told anupama will we not go to Nanu house to celebrate rakhi

It is anupama told no we will not go to shah house to celebrate rakhi we will celebrate at Kapadia house only

But anuj. See his foster daughter want to celebrate rakhi with shah so he very happily celebrate rakhi with shah

Just because choti said that she want to celebrate Rakhi with shsh so he has no problem shsh coming to his house and their house

Again during Havan in mandir anuj went to vanraj without telling anupama though anupama share her fear about dream to anuj But still he went to vanraj without telling anupama

And he has verbal fight with vanraj and both call down from cliff

Then after anupama serving anuj for 13 days in hospital and anupama even celebrate anuj birthday and anupama even kept nurse for anuj

So when anuj come out from coma

Then during Ganapati festival anuj himself telling choti anu that we should not keep grudges for long time .he was indirectly telling to choti anu that we should not keep grudges with shsh so we will celebrate Ganapati festival with shsh at Kapadia house

Again on Ganapati festival it was choti who want to celebrate Ganapati festival with shah and anuj happily say yes we should not keep grudges so anuj happily invite shah at Kapadia house to celebrate Ganapati, anupama did not invite shah to Kapadia nor she went to shah to celebrate Ganapati festival

On during Janmashtami also anupama did not invite shah to Kapadia nor she go to.shah

It was vanraj who shameless went to Kapadia during Janmashtami

During Navratri also anuj happily take choti anu to shah for Kanya bhoj

So on at least three festival be it rakhi Ganapati and durga ashtami anuj himself happily went to shah house and happily invite shah and happily went to shah house because. Choti anu want it

So how can anu blame. Anupama for not giving time to choti anuj

Don't anuj remember it was u told choti anu not keep grudges and u himself take happily anu to shah

Matalab anuj khud hi happily choti anu ko shah le kar gaye aur anupama pe blame lagaya thst u did not give time to choti.?????

Yeh to had ho gayi

Both are toxic and unbearable to watch and we dont deserve to tolerate this torture.

During midnight when anupama went to Pari

Anupama want to take to Pari to Kapadia house at midnight only But anuj ji Anupama ko.wahin shah house mein chod anupama ko liye Bina akele Kapadia house mein aa gaye

Originally posted by: YoungHeart

No no I am not kidding. Ppl said Anupama doesn’t deserve a man like Anuj Kapadia and I finally agree w them. She absolutely doesn’t deserve a weak, coward and a fake man like Anuj Kapadia.

No one deserves a weak and a coward man like Anuj Kapadia (except Maya cuz she’s desperate for him). Abandoning his wife at the first major roadblock in their life. Disgusting. Her personality, her life, her baggages, how she was wasn’t hidden from him. He has seen semi circle drama himself & been involved in it multiple times before he got married.. Anupama has been an open book to him. She didn’t lie to him about who she was, what her life has been, what her baggages were. Yet he chose to marry her knowing fully well what he’s getting into. Anupama didn’t want to get into a relationship or marry for that matter cuz she knew her trauma but this man showed her fairytale life, made fake promises, lied to her at every point when she doubted whether she’ll be able to keep him happy saying she’s enough for him. Forced her into believing she will be happy w him and he doesn’t want anything more than being with her. She never once said she’ll abandon shahs after marrying him. She infact always told him she can never be his fully and asked if he was okay w it.. she never gave him fake promises..

All she wanted was to GROW OLD WITH HIM.. little did she know that came w a condition.. he wanted her to be a mother again & forced more responsibilities on her.

Emotional blackmailed her for adoption knowing fully well she can’t say no (which was never discussed when he proposed marriage to her). Didn’t let her tell her kids about the adoption beforehand which created distance between her and her kids (Pakhi/Toshu/even Samar). As despicable as they were, they deserved to know if their mother was planning on adopting a kid. But he forced her to stay quiet and not tell them. And a fool that she is agreed. Took M to picnic… Lied to her about picnic debacle w Maya knowing fully well what Anu’s traumas were. Yet this fool defended him infront of everyone and called him her god 🥴

Since Maya is desperate to be w a weak, stupid man like Anuj Kapadia, she can have him and deal with his bullshit. So yeah pls get Anupama and Anuj divorced. Let him go w Maya to USA or Bermuda triangle for all I care. Such a weak, coward and a stupid man, always running and never able to make a decision … and end his character. He is anyway not important if he’s not connected w Anupama. Chhoti isn’t their bio kid and w M in picture still, there will be no connection between Anupama & Anuj unlike other itv shows like Rishta where a bio kid connects exes.. so yeah end his chr. He’s doomed. He turned out to be a typical toxic ML who can’t do shit himself but will blame him wife for everything…

If your spouse abandons you and spends 90% of time with their ex, any spouse will lose faith

Abandoning you own family and spending most time in your ex house is not a "small problem"

I am laughing out loud at how short term the viewers memories are. Which is why makers are able to fool gullible viewers with the stupidest whitewashing

The issue was not anuj leaving. The issue was not CA leaving. The issue was not Maya

The issue was a spouse constantly abandoning her spouse and kid in a new marriage and spending 90% time with her ex. That doesnt make the spouse leaving them toxic.

No amount of mental gymnastics or whitewash can change the actual reason for the break up

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

Aap mujhe ek baat bata sakte ho anupama ka kya contribution hai Maan ke relationship mein?

I agree anuj's current behaviour is pathetic, he should had not gone 4 adoption lekin still I don't see her contribution in this marriage if u can help me to see .

I agree anuj accepted anupama with her baggage but logically anupama's responsibility is only for her kids not 4 vanraj or shah family. Anuj never stopped anupama from fulfilling her responsibility in return he got insult from Leela & vanraj with babuji mute spectator. Anuj ne anupama se shaadi ki hai to insult uska gift hai or aap mujhe bata sakte ho why should anuj bear this

Anuj is 10000000000 % is right to ask anupama to draw line which anupama fails to draw ,

Agar aap anuj ke dialogue suno ge na jitni baar usne anupama se shah family ki nataunki se dur rehne ko kaha hai vo bahut sahi or logical dialogues hai vo khud ke liye nhi anuj ne anupama ki mental sanity ke liye kaha hai kyunki she get effected badly by shah family drama. Koi bhi sensible person yahi suggest karega .

In reality also divorced couple who r parents still fulfill their responsibility towards their kids but don't get into each other lives or family. Jin logo ki past ke baggage hote unki khud bhi responsibility hoti hai unka present disturb na ho unke past se , kya anupama ne responsibility nibhayi

Even kanta ben called it loud that 2 which level shah family is dependent on anupama which can irritate anyone , kanta ben know what triggered anuj, now kanta ben is also wrong.

if u see now anupama is maintaining a distance from shah family vo baat alag hai shah family khud uske ghar pahunch jaate hai nataunki karne , ab kaise distance maintain ho raha distance yahi kaam anuj se shaadi ke baad kar leti to ye sab nhi ho raha hota

To be very true anupama kabhi aage nhi bad sakti jabtak vo shah family or specially vanraj se dur nhi hoti as vanraj usse kabhi aage nhi badhne dega , she has to stop taking responsibility of shah family nataunki , her 3 idiots r not toddlers who want her full attention all the time.

Divorce ke baad anupama ko therapy ke liye Jana chahiye tha lekin vo therapy to uske mahan bapuji ne di usse shah family se na Jane deke. He is the biggest villain of this serial

Yes anuj is also wrong but anupama is 95% wrong in this relationship when u know u don't want to move forward coz of ur obsession towards shah family why to destroy anyone else life.

If Maan has to reunite which will happen for sure anyone like it or not then anupama needs solid changes in her character varna reunion ka kuch matlab nahi.

Its a clear example of how whitewashing works on the gullible audience and why these brain dead serials keep getting TRPs

People forget the real reason for the break up, they just remember what Anuj is doing now, not the reasons for everything happening before and how anupama neglected her marriage

I dont know how people can have such short term memories. Forget everything before and blame the reaction?

This will be like judging anupama on being cruel to vanraj while ignoring the years of abuse he put her through.

Its a baffling mentality. At least whitewashing is working with some andh bhakts so writers must he happy

U forgot anupama started visiting shah house soon after marriage, when shah family was insulted in house warming party after d day anupama went to dance academy with sara later to shah house with sara where sara & she invited shah kids to her house , during dance kinjal has accident, vanraj created a big tamasha in kapadia house after that first time anuj called it loud to anupama to maintain distance from shah family, anupama she is asking for first time I want my both families, uske baad baaki nataunki shuru Hui hai .

So anuj not only 4 CA but for anupama also he tolerate shah family a lot varna there is no one reason anuj will tolerate this family.

Anuj to kabki vanraj or Leela ko unki aukaat dekha deta but he know it will hurt anupama so he don't do it.

Anuj has no gone to shah house for sake of anupama but he himself always involved in shah family matter that too happily and also because of many .time due to choti request anuj and in order to male choti happy anuj always went to shah house

Anupama never told anuj and never force anuj to involve in shah family matter and also anupama never told anupama no to say anything to baa

Yeh anuj khud bol rahe ki baa ki daant ko Maine Prasad samajh ke graham kar liya when anupama calling out baa for behaving. Rudely with baa

So anuj stop anupama not to say anything to baa because baa ka daant mere liye Prasad hai

Aur Aisa bhi nahi tha ki agar anuj shah family ko Dhang se Sunata anupama anuj se complaint karne lagti ya anupama anuj chod ko deti

Anuj ne toshu ko thappad maara yahan tuk ki pakhi ko sunay toshu ko bhi sunaya baa ko bhi sunaya

Anupama ne kya anuj se complaint ki toshu ko thappad kyon maara

So anuj ne Jo khuch Kiya apni marji se Khushi se Kiya not because ki anupama ko Bura lagega,ya Acha lagega

Agar anuj ko anupama ke Bure lagne ki aisi hi chinta hoti Holi pe sabke saamne anupama pe nahi chillata

To anuj Jo khuch karta hai apni marji se karta hai aur Khushi se karta

Anuj ka man karta hai to anuj anupama ko shah house mein bhej deta hai

Aur man karta hai to anupama se kehta hai line draw Karo

Confused character mein anuj ka naam bhi Shaamil hai

Originally posted by: YoungHeart

No no I am not kidding. Ppl said Anupama doesn’t deserve a man like Anuj Kapadia and I finally agree w them. She absolutely doesn’t deserve a weak, coward and a fake man like Anuj Kapadia.

No one deserves a weak and a coward man like Anuj Kapadia (except Maya cuz she’s desperate for him). Abandoning his wife at the first major roadblock in their life. Disgusting. Her personality, her life, her baggages, how she was wasn’t hidden from him. He has seen semi circle drama himself & been involved in it multiple times before he got married.. Anupama has been an open book to him. She didn’t lie to him about who she was, what her life has been, what her baggages were. Yet he chose to marry her knowing fully well what he’s getting into. Anupama didn’t want to get into a relationship or marry for that matter cuz she knew her trauma but this man showed her fairytale life, made fake promises, lied to her at every point when she doubted whether she’ll be able to keep him happy saying she’s enough for him. Forced her into believing she will be happy w him and he doesn’t want anything more than being with her. She never once said she’ll abandon shahs after marrying him. She infact always told him she can never be his fully and asked if he was okay w it.. she never gave him fake promises..

All she wanted was to GROW OLD WITH HIM.. little did she know that came w a condition.. he wanted her to be a mother again & forced more responsibilities on her.

Emotional blackmailed her for adoption knowing fully well she can’t say no (which was never discussed when he proposed marriage to her). Didn’t let her tell her kids about the adoption beforehand which created distance between her and her kids (Pakhi/Toshu/even Samar). As despicable as they were, they deserved to know if their mother was planning on adopting a kid. But he forced her to stay quiet and not tell them. And a fool that she is agreed. Took M to picnic… Lied to her about picnic debacle w Maya knowing fully well what Anu’s traumas were. Yet this fool defended him infront of everyone and called him her god 🥴

Since Maya is desperate to be w a weak, stupid man like Anuj Kapadia, she can have him and deal with his bullshit. So yeah pls get Anupama and Anuj divorced. Let him go w Maya to USA or Bermuda triangle for all I care. Such a weak, coward and a stupid man, always running and never able to make a decision … and end his character. He is anyway not important if he’s not connected w Anupama. Chhoti isn’t their bio kid and w M in picture still, there will be no connection between Anupama & Anuj unlike other itv shows like Rishta where a bio kid connects exes.. so yeah end his chr. He’s doomed. He turned out to be a typical toxic ML who can’t do shit himself but will blame him wife for everything…

Agreed. Anupama has done a lot of questionable crap but this Anuj…or lets call him UnAnuj is the absolute WORST.

I have never seen such a coward. He thinks marriage is a joke. In this case especially since his so called love was TWENTY SIX YEARS OLD.

I mean, for the sake of drama they are pushing bullshit down the audiences throats. How can the ML take such a sharp U turn in behaviour for no significant reason.
Even CA is probably appalled at him. The guy deserves to stay alone and get a psychiatrist coz he ain’t right in the head.

Also, I hope Anupamaa catches him cheating on her with Mayaa, like actually doing the deed like she caught VanYa. Only then will she divorce him. The woman only considers EMA as grounds for divorce 😂😂

During pagphera ritual

Anuj himself happily inviting shah to house warming party