Kajol would have chosen Aman over Rahul in real life - Page 12

She would choose Tina over anyone else if she was alive😆

Originally posted by: Clochette

Are you trying to troll me, shubhshubh? Forget it. What I wanted to write, I wrote...nothing more is necessary (from my side).

All the interpretations are yours...and yes, rhetorical questions are senseless because the asking person can answer them him-/herself.

trolling you?

really?

If one don't have anything to write in defence then trying making it a personal attack... very convenient

so SRK and PeeCee's on the record world known affair is my INTERPRETATION and PeeCee's Wish and Ajay is getting blamed without any concrete reason

WOW!!!

I think Anjali ending up with Aman would've been a more realistic ending today. This is what happens all the time now... Anjali-Rahul being together is more of a dreamy fairytale ending that we only seem to see in films. 95% of fhe people don't actually marry our first love.. even in the cases it is reciprocated.

Any sane person would have, she was always the second choice. Anjali jr is a forever reminder of that.

She can say whatever she wants, it doesn't change the fact that Rahul was Anjali's first love. What was his fault if he only saw her as a friend and loved someone else? You cannot force yourself to fall in love with someone just because they love you. It comes naturally. Same logic applies to Aman and Anjali.

Most people would choose to marry the person they love over the one who loves them if given the choice, and that's a fact.

Every woman says they would not tolerate disrespect from their partner, but how many women actually leave abusive marriages?

Originally posted by: la_Reine

Most people would choose to marry the person they love over the one who loves them if given the choice, and that's a fact.

Definitely not a fact. Plenty of people choose to marry the one who loves them over the one they love... if given a choice. Especially women, as they naturally feel the need for reassurance, stability etc which is usually provided easily by the person who loves them.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Wrapping my head around sex and gender is something I have struggled with and continue to struggle with. However, I, too, have strong opinions about it, so I will engage. However, I understand it is a challenging topic. I understand if you do not wish to engage. And if it gets too contentious for this topic or forum, I will disengage.

Sex is a biological fact. It is something that exists in nature and cannot be denied. However, it is not a clear binary. When we look at the XY sex-determination system, XX is female, and XY is male. But then you have anomalies like XY chromosome individuals whose gonads develop into non-functional ovaries (Swyer syndrome) or XX chromosome individuals whose gonads develop into non-functional testes (XX male syndrome). There is a whole range of intersex syndromes.

There is also a range of secondary sex characteristics that can impact people. XX women can sometimes produce higher than normal testosterone leading to more muscle mass, more hairy face/body, male pattern baldness, etc. XY men can sometimes produce higher than normal estrogen, leading to gynecomastia, aka man boobs.

Now coming to gender. It is often used interchangeably with sex, where the distinction is not apparent at all. However, gender is a set of social roles and behaviors attributed to people based on their sex. This is a completely artificial man-made construct and has zero basis in nature. The proof of that is how varied these roles have been historically and culturally.

Makeup is considered by many to be a female activity, and men who wear makeup are teased or assumed gay. But throughout many periods of history, men have been expected to do makeup. In many Asian cultures, especially in Korea and Japan, men culturally do as much makeup as women.

Another one is men don't wear skirts or dresses or drapes. Scottish men wear kilts. The lungi is another nonbifurcated male attire. Tunics and togas of old worn by Greeks and Romans were literally dresses and drapes.

Similarly, once upon a time, women were expected to wear dresses. And while some people still cling to that, thousands of women worldwide wear jeans, pants, and suits, without anyone questioning their femininity.

In some cultures, women were expected to be quiet and stay at home and be the nurturers. But some cultures were matriarchal. Some cultures had a history of elite female warriors. Some cultures had a history of female elders and leaders making decisions equally with men.

We can clearly see, based on the variances in society, that gendered roles are completely arbitrary and an artificial construct of the society it exists in rather than actually going hand in hand with biological sex.

Certainly - I will come back to you on it. I am just catching up with messages and stuff. so If you grant me a couple of days I will get back to you on this. 😃

Originally posted by: DheeJattanDi

Definitely not a fact. Plenty of people choose to marry the one who loves them over the one they love... if given a choice. Especially women, as they naturally feel the need for reassurance, stability etc which is usually provided easily by the person who loves them.

Again it's easy to say, but you don't know until you face the situation. It's very difficult to leave someone who you are attached to even if that person doesn't deserve you.

Originally posted by: la_Reine

Again it's easy to say, but you don't know until you face the situation. It's very difficult to leave someone who you are attached to even if that person doesn't deserve you.

I have been in the situation, I had to leave someone I was still attached to and completely in love with. But it's the best thing you'll do for your mental health and in these times you have to choose whats best for you.

Originally posted by: DheeJattanDi

I have been in the situation, I had to leave someone I was still attached to and completely in love with. But it's the best thing you'll do for your mental health and in these times you have to choose whats best for you.

I am very proud of you because it takes guts and a lot of maturity. But not everyone is as wise and mature as you are.