Originally posted by: CheekuKaBeej
I know I troll her a lot. She makes me cringe so hard that I feel like banging my head against a wall. Her hypocrisy...
Okay, okay. Sorry, bhaavnao mein beh gayi. This is not a troll post😆 I keep forgetting. Jis tarah Shah House ki doormat hona Anupa ka first nature hai, uski doormat nature aur hypocrisy ki trolling karna Mera nature hai🤣
Anyways, Coming to the post😆
- Anupama is a kind soul. Not everyone is large hearted enough to forgive those who wrong them.
Kind soul my foot. Itni kind thi to iski kindness chhoti Anu ke time Kahan thi🤪aur forgiveness? Forgive karne wali banti hai to maafi mangni bhi aani chahiye use ki nahi? Lekin nahi, dance competition chhodkar khichdi mein busy thi aur maafi maangne ki bajay khud ko justify kar Rahi thi😡forgive karne chali hai, Anuj aur Anu ke alawa kisi ne dhang se mafi mangi hai isse Jo ye maaf karegi
- She has a fighting spirit. She may not be able to stand up for herself in supposedly small matters but she stands up for herself when she has the bigger picture before her e.g. when she had her whole life before her and she wanted to marry Anuj or when she wanted to bring justice to Dimpy even if that meant danger to herself and her family.
Shaadi karne ke liye fighting spirit thi usme to us shadi ko nibhane ke waqt wo fighting spirit Kahan thi? Uske samne aake koi bhi uske pati ka collar pakad leta hai, dhakka de deta hai, khari khoti suna deta hai. Us Dimpy ki help karne ke chakkar mein sab ko khatre mein daal diya. Ise bahaduri ya achchhai nai balki bewakoofi aur gair zimmedarana harqat kehte Hain🤪
- She knows how to get back up when life (or her loved ones) throw her to the ground. Every single time. She cries, wails and everything but in the end, she gets back up again. Instead of wallowing in self-pity, she decides to make a new beginning. Not everyone has this quality.
Yeah right. She gets back up and goes back at the same place, making the same mistakes, saying "Anupama ijj Beck" taki wo dobara dhakka dein aur dobara gira dein aur use nai udaan bharne ka mauka mile🤪
Instead of wallowing in self pity???? Usse zyada self pity mein hai koi is show mein
- She doesn't like creating drama. Whenever she sees unnecessary drama around, she tries to bring things back to normalcy e.g. making tea for everyone in the Shah House when she was brought for Toshu and Shahs were doing chillam chilli.
She doesn't like to create drama! Joke of the century🤪if she didn't like to create drama, then what about her never ending panick attacks, her forcing Anuj to speak up, calling him crazy and making it all about herself. Even if I try to consider your opinion, is that the way to bring things back to normalcy?? This is called temporary solution which ultimately leads to nowhere
- When Dimpy and Samar threw her out of her own dance academy, she could have fought but she didn't. Not because she couldn't but because she somehow knew they were right. They did have some share in the progress of the academy when she couldn't give her time to it. So, instead of creating a scene, she left the place and decided to create a place for herself with her own hands. Apni cheez ko apna kehne mein ek alag hi maza hai, not when someone can come and claim that you were absent. She perhaps felt she had lost that right in this academy.
Not because she couldn't, but because she didn't want to. I agree, but not with the reason that you've given. Apni cheez ko apna kehne mein maza hai, maanti hu. But this is Anupa we are talking about. Use apni hi nahi, doosron ki har cheez pe bhi haq jamane mein maza aata hai. Apni cheez pe focus Kiya hota to Aaj ye din na dekhna padtabut uski problem ye hai ki use apni cheez chhodkar har cheez ke liye ladna hota hai
- No matter what, it's not easy to make a new beginning at this stage of life. Many people decide to remain where they are instead of making a new beginning, because they don't want to leave their comfort zone.
You are talking as if she has actually moved on🤪her comfort zone, her ghosla, usse Aaj tak bhi chhoota hai Jo aage chhootega? Wo sirf naam badalti hai rishton ke, cheeze jaisi ki taisi rehti hain. Doormat thi aur doormat bankar rehti hai. What new beginning🤪
Baki yaad aaya to edit karti hu.
I know many of these points can be contradicted and contested. But I just wanted to appreciate her for once🤣
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