Abhira trust issues - Page 2

I am talking about the constant lying. Look, I understand her POV back then, and no one is saying that Abhi isn't wrong or he doesn't deserve this. It's more the lying about everything from day 1. And maybe Abhi deserves it, but does Abhir ? People have pointed out him losing out on Birla name and the associated wealth, but he is also losing out on Goenka's wealth and love. Again I understand the complications and how little people have supported her, but she has lied about everything, how is anyone supposed to trust her moving forward?

How will Akshara trust Abhimanyu to not divorce her for the 3rd/leave her for the 4th time?

Amd when has he ever trusted her? Neil's paternity/Kariav's innocence/Manjari's divorce/ Arohi's true intentions .. whe has he ever trusted her without her having to show him proofs for the same everytime?

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I am talking about the constant lying. Look, I understand her POV back then, and no one is saying that Abhi isn't wrong or he doesn't deserve this. It's more the lying about everything from day 1. And maybe Abhi deserves it, but does Abhir ? People have pointed out him losing out on Birla name and the associated wealth, but he is also losing out on Goenka's wealth and love. Again I understand the complications and how little people have supported her, but she has lied about everything, how is anyone supposed to trust her moving forward?

Abhir grew up in a peaceful environment. Away from the toxic home environment of Birla and Goenkas. His parents have always tried their best to provide him with everything. There is absolutely nothing wrong with growing up in the middle-class family. Wealth is nothing if is accompanied by mental abuse, gaslighting, and toxicity day in and day out.

Mental health is an important thing. I have suffered from Depression. So, trust me when I say that no amount of wealth can buy you mental peace

I was able to get through it because I had my parents and siblings support. Abhir has that. Abhinav and Akshara are his biggest cheerleaders

Honestly, Abhir got the best deal. He could not have asked for better six years of his life. Now after the truth reveals he will go to a house full of toxicity and gaslighting

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

How will Akshara trust Abhimanyu to not divorce her for the 3rd/leave her for the 4th time?

Wahi wahi both need realization and both should show trust and understand eo.

Exactly! Name one character is Birla house that is free from issues or unproblematic or isn't downright vile!

How is she supposed to trust them? If she can trust them after all this , then they need to work to earn her trust .. simple .. every person there has wronged her too .. and why is it wrong to choose not to express her connection with Sbhimanyu after the tilak fiadco ? She chose her relationship with her sister over a yet to develop relationship with a practical stranger .. and what was Abhimanyu doing ? Instead of trying to understand the situation and have patience he was constantly putting her in situations like asking her to declare in front of his family that she loves him .. I do not know in which world ut is okay to do such things without even discussing with each other .. and she chose an existing relationship over him.. and then he came and proposed marriage to her sister without any reason other than that his mother wanted him to get married .. he could have chosen anyone else .. why her sister? And he told every one he has only one face .. but wasn’t he double faced throughout that marriage track? When he said ge cannot live Arohi , it still didn’t mean that he would keep dore dalofying on Akshara .. but that is him having one face ? Kept continuing with every function while torturing Akshara on the side and then also he didn’t have the decency to break it off without dragging Akshara into the breaking and without making it a spectacle .. in spite of that she still trusted him with Kairav’s proof .. but what did he do ? Came eith media and police to her house and got her brother who was innocent and her bade papa arrested and made sure it was a public sidctacke .. still she did not decide to break her ties .. he did .. it is like GE is forever ready to throw her out .. let us not say anything about Neel truth , Manjari divorce etc .. and then the white day .. so if after each of these things she can trust him , why can’t he ? When GE knows what caused her to lie each time .. and if cannot then he should not be with her .. let him go marry newly white washed Arohi ..

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

Exactly! Name one character is Birla house that is free from issues or unproblematic or isn't downright vile!

Nishita?????🤡🤡🤡

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

true. Akshu needs a redemption track too. She literally lied to a kid. He deserves to know who is his father and abhi is from well to do family in future if abhir misses the chance of becoming a doctor due to financial issues( as many people in india sacrifices their desire to pursue a course due to financial issues) as bank also don't provide loan of college fees if family is not so well to do and if he realizes he belongs to birla family and his mother kept it hidden he will definitely going to hate her as he missed the chance of becoming a doctor even though he was from a doctor family.

Akshu lies were not small. She literally lied that she does not love abhi which would have ended up her sister marrying him and he would have been trapped in loveless marriage.

She lies without even thinking about future complications. Like first lie would have spoiled arohi and abhi's life even though arohi knew every damn truth but abhi was still kept under dark.

She lied about saving abhi from fire which made him to think arohi loves him.

Now she is lying about abhir. That also has its own complications as she is literally keeping him away from the life that he deserves being a birla son. He would have got good education. He would have got good treatement it need not be a charity treatment.

If abhir was son of middleclass man i would have not felt sad for that child but he is the son of birlas and he deserves to be a one. As many kids wishes for such life where they don't have to think about money and will get everything they desire to get including education health trainings etc.

Now she may be lying to abhinav too as she does not seem to be really moved on. But it's just my assumption if she is not lying to abhinav then good for abhinav.

First bold: Agreed, even though not in depth she should have not made Abhinav his father and that too this attached. But I also understand that people sometimes don't tell their adoptive child too and that' is okay. I have a few adoptive children in my family one during her marriage got to know the truth was hurt but still loves her parents like before nothing changed.

Second - Akshu too need redemption but i don't agree with that her not accepting Abhi's love led Aru to a marriage with him.

A)Aru knew and by hook crook wanted Abhi

B) Abhi could have gone and marry any one yet he is like tumhri behen se krleta hun no sane person does that

C) What if she actually just liked him was not ready for marriage,not sure of love would people still have blamed her. I would have choose my sis or friend over a guy only difference is other person is also choosing me so basically in situations like this we are saying tata bye bye to the guy

About Abhinav She is not lying consciously

More than any one it's like she is not sure herself. Definitely have soft corner for Nav. Doesn't want Abhi back so

And people talk about Kairav being useless .. tell me one sibling in Birla house that Abhimanyu actually helped .. Neel was closest .. but he was just roaming around like a no purpose person just being errand boy for everyone till harsh made him start going to work .. and he was constantly abused in that house, but except for shouting and breaking things was Abhimanyu really even aware of the rest of the abuse from Harsh ? Did he do something about it ? Take Nishta- it was shown that she does not do her projects and ways for Sbhimanyu to do them for her he seems to be very indulgent towards people he loves and that doesn’t help them to grow .. and then Snisha, supposedly closest to Abhimanyu but he did not even know what kind of vile plans she was making and it was never acknowledged either and by accusing Kairav of abetting suicide and not trusting Akshara he contributed to Kairav being a trauma patient .. and Parth - he just sits at home doing nothing , but he never made any contribution to making things better or talking to Parth .. every single person in that house is toxic .. except Nishta, Shefali and May be Anand .. although Anand does not make anything better either .. and how is she to trust all of them? If every single one of these actions can be understood and Abhi still considered as a great person all round , then why not Akshara?

Also, she is still kind and loving , just not bubbly and open because every relation she valued and treated well, treated her badly and let her down .. but she still has not lost her goodness , nor is she going around being vile to people .. if we can forget everything Birlas and Goenkas and Abhi has done and consider them trustworthy then Akshara can be trusted too .. to be honest if they don’t put her in dire situations where she feels threatened and abused