Abhira trust issues

With the premise that Abhira are endgame and they will get together after everything resolves, how is Abhi supposed ever to trust Akshu again? She has lied about pretty much everything from the beginning.

1. She lied about her feelings for him

2. She lied about choosing Abhi over Arohi

3. The whole year gap where she didn't lie but hid, which resulted in the same situation

4. Now lying about Abhir's paternity and hiding for essentially six years from EVERYBODY

I know that the first leap was about Abhi not trusting Ak, but it is really hard. Even when she is not actively hiding stuff, she is slow to communicate. If they do eventually get together, how can anyone trust her? How do they plan to bring about her redemption?

I understand that she lies because she doesn't feel safe sharing her feelings or, in this case, her son. But even if Abhi loves her and forgives her, won't he always wonder what else she has the capacity to lie about?

Originally posted by: lagjagale

With the premise that Abhira are endgame and they will get together after everything resolves, how is Abhi supposed ever to trust Akshu again? She has lied about pretty much everything from the beginning.

1. She lied about her feelings for him

2. She lied about choosing Abhi over Arohi

3. The whole year gap where she didn't lie but hid, which resulted in the same situation

4. Now lying about Abhir's paternity and hiding for essentially six years from EVERYBODY

I know that the first leap was about Abhi not trusting Ak, but it is really hard. Even when she is not actively hiding stuff, she is slow to communicate. If they do eventually get together, how can anyone trust her? How do they plan to bring about her redemption?

I understand that she lies because she doesn't feel safe sharing her feelings or, in this case, her son. But even if Abhi loves her and forgives her, won't he always wonder what else she has the capacity to lie about?

Akshu lies were not small. She literally lied that she does not love abhi which would have ended up her sister marrying him and he would have been trapped in loveless marriage.

She lies without even thinking about future complications. Like first lie would have spoiled arohi and abhi's life even though arohi knew every damn truth but abhi was still kept under dark.

She lied about saving abhi from fire which made him to think arohi loves him.

Now she is lying about abhir. That also has its own complications as she is literally keeping him away from the life that he deserves being a birla son. He would have got good education. He would have got good treatement it need not be a charity treatment.

If abhir was son of middleclass man i would have not felt sad for that child but he is the son of birlas and he deserves to be a one. As many kids wishes for such life where they don't have to think about money and will get everything they desire to get including education health trainings etc.

Now she may be lying to abhinav too as she does not seem to be really moved on. But it's just my assumption if she is not lying to abhinav then good for abhinav.

Yeah, she is definitely lying to Abhinav as well. I also never understood why Abhinav loves her. Just cause she handles the house and is a good mother? I know people will ask then why Abhi loved her, and I honestly feel like back then, she was very lovable despite all her faults. She was sweet, kind, and loving. Now she just gets angry or sad, sometimes there is happiness if Abhir does something cute and stuff, but she usually just reverts back to being distant and cold. Combine that with knowing that this woman had a complicated pregnancy and still refused to go to her family, hid her son from her family and from his father, and didn't want any relationship. And then, meeting Abhi and her family and realizing that Abhi is actually a good parent, whatever his equation with Ak and her family is actually supportive even if they support Arohi more. I know I am just listing Ak's negatives, but I just wish there was more of an explanation to why Abhinav loves her or how that developed.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Yeah, she is definitely lying to Abhinav as well. I also never understood why Abhinav loves her. Just cause she handles the house and is a good mother? I know people will ask then why Abhi loved her, and I honestly feel like back then, she was very lovable despite all her faults. She was sweet, kind, and loving. Now she just gets angry or sad, sometimes there is happiness if Abhir does something cute and stuff, but she usually just reverts back to being distant and cold. Combine that with knowing that this woman had a complicated pregnancy and still refused to go to her family, hid her son from her family and from his father, and didn't want any relationship. And then, meeting Abhi and her family and realizing that Abhi is actually a good parent, whatever his equation with Ak and her family is actually supportive even if they support Arohi more. I know I am just listing Ak's negatives, but I just wish there was more of an explanation to why Abhinav loves her or how that developed.

And the way she took decisions to move on just when she realized abrohi is getting married is more scary. Like she literally did not give a thought about it from past 6 years but seeing abrohi she decided to move on. Which shows she was never loved abhinav and never thought of giving him rights unless she saw that she is no chance of getting back to abhi.

Abhira was supportive and loving initially but itv tends to ruin ml for leap adds freshness and twists and turns. Akshu punishing abhi for that white day is okay. But he also deserves second chance how abhi gave her even after she supported arohi multiple times. Like she literally took the blame of killing manjari to save arohi so that she can emotionally manipulate abhi to take the case back.

Arohi deserves to go jail. She can't protect her baby sister everytime. When abhi can forgive and forget then akshu should also do that as he is treating his ex's kid. Who just rejected him on his face saying he did not give enough samman. No human on earth can tolerate insult even after doing so many things.

I really wished her to be single mom for the same reason as she seems to be using abhinav now and abhinav is really in love with her. And she is lying to him to keep him in his delusional world so that she can be safe from others.

I preferred akshu becoming famous singer and rejecting abhi on his face and abhi understanding what he did 6 years ago and trying to win her trust back which will add some phase where they understand each other.

Forgive Akshara for what exactly? Are we supposed to just forget that Akshara called Dr Birla several times to inform him about one of the twins surviving? It was Abhimanyu who refused to listen

Have you guys actually forgotten that Abhimanyu was downright abusive towards Akshara. He divorced her. He and his mother called her muderers.

If anyone needs "redemption" its Abhimanyu and his Manjari

Akshara should still not go back to him for her own sanity

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

true. Akshu needs a redemption track too. She literally lied to a kid. He deserves to know who is his father and abhi is from well to do family in future if abhir misses the chance of becoming a doctor due to financial issues( as many people in india sacrifices their desire to pursue a course due to financial issues) as bank also don't provide loan of college fees if family is not so well to do and if he realizes he belongs to birla family and his mother kept it hidden he will definitely going to hate her as he missed the chance of becoming a doctor even though he was from a doctor family.

Akshu lies were not small. She literally lied that she does not love abhi which would have ended up her sister marrying him and he would have been trapped in loveless marriage.

She lies without even thinking about future complications. Like first lie would have spoiled arohi and abhi's life even though arohi knew every damn truth but abhi was still kept under dark.

She lied about saving abhi from fire which made him to think arohi loves him.

Now she is lying about abhir. That also has its own complications as she is literally keeping him away from the life that he deserves being a birla son. He would have got good education. He would have got good treatement it need not be a charity treatment.

If abhir was son of middleclass man i would have not felt sad for that child but he is the son of birlas and he deserves to be a one. As many kids wishes for such life where they don't have to think about money and will get everything they desire to get including education health trainings etc.

Now she may be lying to abhinav too as she does not seem to be really moved on. But it's just my assumption if she is not lying to abhinav then good for abhinav.

Agree 💯 !!

One more important thing is because of her hiding the paternity, marriage is fixed ,otherwise Abhi and also Ar would not go further if they know it. She is making things more complicated just like initial episodes hiding her love towards Abhi,hiding fire accident truth of saving him,even though blackmailed by Ar ,it wasn't justified.

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Forgive Akshara for what exactly? Are we supposed to just forget that Akshara called Dr Birla several times to inform him about one of the twins surviving? It was Abhimanyu who refused to listen

Have you guys actually forgotten that Abhimanyu was downright abusive towards Akshara. He divorced her. He and his mother called her muderers.

If anyone needs "redemption" its Abhimanyu and his Manjari

Akshara should still not go back to him for her own sanity

Agree with you TM. Akshara bhi day 1 se kabhi juth bol kar kabhi sach chupa kar equally goal maar rahi hai.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Iss show mai day 1 se Abhimanyu-Akshara ki journey bahot eventful rahi hai so sirf ek he incident ko pura weightage de kar baki ka sab kuch jo day 1 se hi raha tha usko overlook kyun karna?!

Agree with you TM. Akshara bhi day 1 se kabhi juth bol kar kabhi sach chupa kar equally goal maar rahi hai.

Incident haa bhi toh bada. Kissi ko iss tarah se mentally abuse karna kabhi bhi sahi nahi. Uska miscarriage hua. Dono Maa-Bete ne muderer bolkar, divorce deke kar, ghar se nikal diya. Ek already traumatized person ke saamne jo thod phod ki haina Abhimanyu ne. Uska kya

Mental health is a big issue. Jab jante ho ki Akshara ko bachpan se hi Aarohi ne seerat ke death ke liye responsible samjha. Bas ussi zakhm ko phir se khuedne ki kya zaroorat

Chalo uss waqt Abhimanyu apne ape main nahi tha. paar phir bhi baate usne boli. Kaam usne kiya.Ab woh iss cheez ko kabhi wapas nahi le sakta. kabhi tikh nahi kar sakta

In sab ke baad bhi AKshara ne usko call kiya tha usko baby ke baare main batane ke liye .Toh janab ne phone nahi utaya.

In 6 salon main kabhi bhi usko nahi laga ki ek baar phone kare puch lo ki kya kehna chahahti thi? Ek anjaan aadmi uske baache ke baare main baat kar raha tha. Tab toh usko definitely sun lena chahiye tha ki Akshara ko kya ehna tha\

Usne khud manna kiya. Abhimanyu apne bete se apni hud ki galti ki wajah se dur hai .

Simple. Change the endgame.

Both equally need realization and redemption of their mistakes, Neil's death is the base of the consequential collateral damage.