Originally posted by: IWasHareeshFan
You know what I hate the most about anupama's character that she mocks our generation everytime.
I don't remember that I have ever seen anupama praising our generation ever, I have always heard her saying that this generation does not know how to value their parents, this generation does badtameezi, this generation is uncultured (in indirect manner), she always says that in her generation the things were better, people were so loving and all.
I am saying ki OK I agree that this is the worse generation ever, so please anupama maddam, go back to 1970's and dare marrying at the age of 46 and that too after giving birth to 3 kids who are grown up and when you are about to become a grandmother. Dare you leave an abusive husband who is having an extramarital affair and see the result. I am not saying that no one must have done this but in middle class family it was rare and when you have family like baa and husband like vanraj then toh it was almost impossible, at that time there was no social media jahan hashtag karke trend chala sako, in fact people hardly use to support such a women who left her husband, even in 1970's girls were married at the age of 13-14.
and madam anupama you are the product of that generation and if I am not wrong then you must have married to vanraj in 1986-1987 and you were loved by your family in that generation right? can you share your lovestory with our generation so that even we get some inspiration from your and vanraj's love story and even this generation will come to know that how a husband and wife should be. Can you share some stories of baa so that when this generation girls will become Mils then even they will learn something from mrs leela shah
Can you please share how you were forced to marry so that we may learn that after becoming mothers how should we force our girls to get married and can you please share your story with us so that we can learn that how to serve our mil and how to tolerate her taunts after people from our generation get married
Why people from earlier generation think that there is nothing good in our generation, they believe that everyone were so pure in that gen, but we are not fools, even we know what happened at that time even at that time girls were raped in facts the rates must be higher in number but the only thing was that it was never even considered important or the matters were hidden and it never came in front of people.
why they think that modernity leads to distruction, they don't want to talk to us, it is not that we don't respect our culture, it is just that we are inquisitive about somethings which are there in our culture, when we ask our elders that why this ritual is happening, what is the significance, they simply say that because our elders told us to do, arey when your elders told you then there must be some reason right? but you never even bothered to know about the reason and when we ask about that then you say that we are arguing and we don't know how to respect our elders, arey aapne kuch nahi poocha toh kya hum bhi nahi poochenge, whyyyyyy?
I am not saying that there was nothing good in that generation, but that generation discriminated boys and girls, now people are becoming aware, we are thinking instead of just following anything so what's wrong in that.
you know what, for all this reason I hate this character anupama.
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