Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 04 Apr 2023 - Page 3

Originally posted by: IWasHareeshFan

I might be wrong, but I feel that from here the downfall of this show starts if they will not change the track or if they will show this rona dhona for long, I don't think anyone will even watch, this track is going on and on and on for so long, anuj has been almost made a villain and audience will not accept this.

if this track continues then the TRP will decrease and it has already started decreasing, that's why I am saying that the downfall of this show starts from here.

don't get offended, it is just my assumption.

I feel the same. Villainizing Anuj is the biggest mistake made by the makers.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

I feel the same. Villainizing Anuj is the biggest mistake made by the makers.

But were they left with any better options considering the whole show is only about glorifying Anupamaa, rather than the initial promise of the journey of a homemaker (unlike other language versions)

The sequences show a sheer refusal on the part of Anupamaa to change or realise her flaws and work on them (keep aside the Tamashahs' tantrums where she got sucked in). Anujpama resembled immature teenagers more than a mature love story. Though there was understanding, there was certainly a lack of communication with the same scenes playing out in different ways, of her leaving him and the so called sacrifice to go to the self proclaimed maayka. At some point, separation was bound to happen but they conveniently used the issue of CA instead of the valid reasons which might lead to it.

Since Anupamaa as a character is only shown to be crying, taken advantage of, and making the same mistakes rather than self improvement, they would rather ruin a character which was taking the sheen off her. She has to always be a bechaari, dukhiyaari maa who is a tyaag ki devi and mahanta ki murat. She wasn't getting enough sympathy based on her own actions because there was someone in front of her whose cause seemed more genuine so they simply took him out of the equation.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

I feel the same. Villainizing Anuj is the biggest mistake made by the makers.

exactly and they are dragging the track, it has been more than a month, I don't know what are they thinking.

They are trying to glorify anupama but people are getting more and more irritated from her, many people have already started saying that vanraj was right in leaving anupama and this is wrong, were they trying to show this? no right? but constant glorification of anupama and her toxic attachment to her ex and his family+ her not willing to change herself is making/forcing people to believe in that way. In their attempt to glorify her they are making her even more disgusting, people have started saying that when a man like anuj could not live with her then no one can live with her, may be they are wrong, but her behavior is like that only that you cannot even justify her actions.

actually abhi bohot zyada hogaya hai, otherwise if you watch earlier episodes then what is happening right now it could happen long a go.

She was never willing to change herself, if you watch earlier episodes then also you will feel that what kind of women she is

in housewarming party she started arguing with barkha in front of everyone, even if something happens in our family we don't start doing tamasha in front of everyone, if you wanted to perform puja then you should have only invited your family members in the puja and after puja you could invite others, I mean different timings for different people, matlab guests ko thode baad kaa time diya hota, why would anyone come to your house to attend puja of your housewarming. I don't disagree that we should protect our culture, but for protecting our culture we cannot say that today's generation is bad, they don't know anything, and these modern people don't believe in culture and all. Even we believe in our culture but still everything has a limit, she could have told barkha to invite her friends and all the business associates after puja, it hardly takes 1 hour, they could have kept the party after the puja and invited the guests accordingly.

She says that she does not know English, fine I agree, but has she ever tried to join English classes, there are so many courses, has she ever asked anuj to help her, no, I am fine with that as well, but why she even say surry surry surry*100 and tankyou Thank you, actually I don't know the spelling of anupama version of thank you.)

OK just leave complicated English words, why is she not even learning simple words like sorry and thank you, no matter whatever we say, but when you are getting involved in international business matters then you need to no at least the basic words and you must no how to communicate yourself, no need to speak proper English or no need to look into proper grammar, vocab etc, but at least you should no that much that people understand what you are trying to say. No one speaks proper English, I myself write somethings wrong, even I make mistake in grammar because we live in India and we mostly speak in Hindi, but at least we are able to communicate with others, if she would have been dealing with the matters concerning to India then Hindi would have been fine, but she is even willing to look into the matters related to international business and still she is not learning English ,whyyyyyy?

Even my mom who has studied from Hindi medium says thank you and sorry properly and we have never forced her to speak in English but a person who says that he/she wants to do this, wants to do that and who wants to help his/her partner in international matters as well should know at least basic things.

She never changed herself, she has never changed herself and I don't know whether she will change herself in future or not.

According to one site, Advait is coming back? 🤣

You know what I hate the most about anupama's character that she mocks our generation everytime.

I don't remember that I have ever seen anupama praising our generation ever, I have always heard her saying that this generation does not know how to value their parents, this generation does badtameezi, this generation is uncultured (in indirect manner), she always says that in her generation the things were better, people were so loving and all.

I am saying ki OK I agree that this is the worse generation ever, so please anupama maddam, go back to 1970's and dare marrying at the age of 46 and that too after giving birth to 3 kids who are grown up and when you are about to become a grandmother. Dare you leave an abusive husband who is having an extramarital affair and see the result. I am not saying that no one must have done this but in middle class family it was rare and when you have family like baa and husband like vanraj then toh it was almost impossible, at that time there was no social media jahan hashtag karke trend chala sako, in fact people hardly use to support such a women who left her husband, even in 1970's girls were married at the age of 13-14.

and madam anupama you are the product of that generation and if I am not wrong then you must have married to vanraj in 1986-1987 and you were loved by your family in that generation right? can you share your lovestory with our generation so that even we get some inspiration from your and vanraj's love story and even this generation will come to know that how a husband and wife should be. Can you share some stories of baa so that when this generation girls will become Mils then even they will learn something from mrs leela shah

Can you please share how you were forced to marry so that we may learn that after becoming mothers how should we force our girls to get married and can you please share your story with us so that we can learn that how to serve our mil and how to tolerate her taunts after people from our generation get married

Why people from earlier generation think that there is nothing good in our generation, they believe that everyone were so pure in that gen, but we are not fools, even we know what happened at that time even at that time girls were raped in facts the rates must be higher in number but the only thing was that it was never even considered important or the matters were hidden and it never came in front of people.

why they think that modernity leads to distruction, they don't want to talk to us, it is not that we don't respect our culture, it is just that we are inquisitive about somethings which are there in our culture, when we ask our elders that why this ritual is happening, what is the significance, they simply say that because our elders told us to do, arey when your elders told you then there must be some reason right? but you never even bothered to know about the reason and when we ask about that then you say that we are arguing and we don't know how to respect our elders, arey aapne kuch nahi poocha toh kya hum bhi nahi poochenge, whyyyyyy?

I am not saying that there was nothing good in that generation, but that generation discriminated boys and girls, now people are becoming aware, we are thinking instead of just following anything so what's wrong in that.

you know what, for all this reason I hate this character anupama.

Originally posted by: Dee-Dee

Anuj and Anupama both have left Kapadia house, with what rights is Dimpy still living in that house and passing on all information from Ankush Barkha to Samar

Looks like entire Kapadia house has been taken over and soon we may see old Adhik back and Pakhi again having issues in her marriage

If Anupama still applies Sindoor and considers herself Anuj’s wife then what about his house and business that he has written off in her name, ex sasural is her jimmedari but current one and the business which she has the power of attorney for is not, there’s no logic to all this

Kanta wanted her to take a new udaan by starting dabba service and delivering it to people’s doorstep but the ever so intelligent financial literacy expert Anupama couldn’t take care of Anuj’s business and take it to new heights because that would not have been an Udaan apparently so she wanted to start from scratch, walk barefeet and faint in sunlight, only then audience would sympathise with her, and back to the same old dance academy adjacent to Shah house so that Shahs role is not cut off and Anupama can shine by fighting the evil people

As for Anuj, he doesn’t care what all he has got from his adoptive parents, and he has worked hard to take it to new heights altogether, he keeps doing charity, as if it’s a joke to keep transferring property and business from one person to another that he initially transferred it to Mukku which was taken over by Vanraj, then in Anupama’s name and now he made Ankush the decision maker along with Anupama, some people crave for this kind of success and fame but Anuj doesn’t care what he has got, if he thinks by roaming on streets barefeet and sleeping on pavements he will be able to give a good future to CA then he is mistaken

Later to show good win over evil they will butcher Ankush Barkha Adhik and make Anuj fight for his rights once again and Anupama will come as his saviour

I have 1 complaint from anuj, he never defended his family, he is not even bothered about his sister, I have hardly seen him even thinking about his sister muku

when shah family comes and abuses his bhaiya bhabhi he never said anything to them, he has so many things to his bhabhi, in fact he says anything to his bhabhi in front of everyone, in contrast no matter how wrong shah are anupama has never said anything to baa, in fact whoever dares to say anything to her she starts fighting to that person.

Originally posted by: imsoumyasrk06

According to one site, Advait is coming back? 🤣

Who is he?

Did Kanta Maa meet Anu's bebli before leaving ? 😕

Originally posted by: IWasHareeshFan

Who is he?

He was MAA's doctor during cancer treatment days