Anuj and Kavya should remain away from this Shahs and AnuRaj

Both Kavya and Anuj should remain away from this poisonous family and AnuRaj. AnuRaj are made for each other both are ache maata pita so should remain with each other instead of destroying Kavya and Anuj life. Anupama chahe ab Vanraaj ke pass jaaye ya kisi hill station i only care for Anuj now. Kavya agar aapko apni sanity pyaari hai to divorce Vanraaj let's duniya ki sabse achi Maa marry duniya ke ache Pita Vanraaj.

Originally posted by: magicalgirll

Both Kavya and Anuj should remain away from this poisonous family and AnuRaj. AnuRaj are made for each other both are ache maata pita so should remain with each other instead of destroying Kavya and Anuj life. Anupama chahe ab Vanraaj ke pass jaaye ya kisi hill station i only care for Anuj now. Kavya agar aapko apni sanity pyaari hai to divorce Vanraaj let's duniya ki sabse achi Maa marry duniya ke ache Pita Vanraaj.

Its so clear anuj and anupama are not compatible. Its also clear kavya and Vanraj are not either

Love and attraction is all good, but mentality is very important for relationship compatibility, particularly if you are middle aged.

Anupama's thinking and mentality matches vanraj more than anuj. She constantly forgives abusers, she believes in not questioning elders even if they are wrong, she believes in forgiving cheaters when they are men, she believes in still serving in other people's houses just because as a woman she is expected to.

This very much mirrors Vanraj's attitude where elders and males should rule any house and whatever they do should be forgiven while women should know their place

On the other hand, both Anuj and Kavya are more progressive. Neither of them can forgive cheaters or abusers and can call out elders when they are wrong. They don't believe women should always serve in kitchen and mothers should always be responsible for grown up kids

Its too late for any of these 4 people to change their thinking and mentality, they are middle aged

This is also why Anupama is most comfortable in Shah house as it has the atmosphere she genuinely believes a house should have, where elders and men can do no wrong and women should serve

She tried her hands at many things, business, dance, being independent, marrying again. But its clear her biggest desire is to serve in such a house where a woman knows her place but is needed for all domestic duties and can baby and pamper her grown up kids

Some women have this mentality and there is nothing wrong in wanting to be a serving house wife. But she will never get that in Anuj's house where he has no parents, no elders and Anuj himself is not a dominating male chauvinistic guy who orders her around or lets her do too much work to show how indispensable she is. So she craves that and can find that only in Shah house

All of them would do well to separate. Also Anupama and Vanraj seem the most compatible, she never minded the abuse or his chauvinistic behavior or his vile mom. It was him openly cheating which caused her problem, if he was having a secret affair which only she knew and was not public, she would have even forgiven that, i am sure. Vanraj's mistake was bringing Kavya into his house which challenged Anupama's domain and kitchen. This is what shocked her, not the affair itself. If Vanraj had been smarter and kept Kavya out of the house, he could still have both women (although Kavya wouldn't have settled) and Anupama would have never left him even if she knew of the affair. She felt betrayed only when she saw Kavya replacing her in Shah house and the duties there

I feel pity for anuj

Poor guy never had an own life lived in anupama love for 26 years

than lived to help her another 2 years

but anupama and co are abusing him slapping him treating him like garbage accusing him of affir with maya - such cheap low class people do not desrve a good human like anuj kapadiya

I know anuj did fault CA ka deewana hua but what can he do his wife is shah or vanraj deewani kya kare bicahra

Yeh sila mila 26 years tak pyar karke uske liye sab kushiyan zindagi bar ki kurbaan karke apni family chod di business chod diya sab uske naam kiya

Yet anupama destroyed him

koi anuj ki halat dekh ke bol saktha hai kabhi pyar mat karna that too saccha pyar

I know nowadays no one is emotional fool to keep loving one man or woman for 26 years constant

but ideally 2 years max anyone should wait for their love and move on with another

anuj ne anupama se jo kiya woh bewakoof savit hogaya

Imagine that guy so highly educated from UAa very rich if he married at 30 years of age to decent educated girl in USA abhi tak 2 kids hota. Kitna kush hota biwi bacchhe behen kaka ke saath USA ya india main ash kar raha hota. He would be going trips with his little kids and wife and sister or kaka and having a great time at home with them all kitna kush hota not trapped by anupama and shahs and abused by friends and relatives

Naki bikhari ki tara mara phirta gali gali aur dusron ki gali aur tapad katha

You must always marry a man or woman who loves you not the one you love

Beacuse person who loves you, you may not love them as much but they will treat you with respect ad care unlike anupama treats anuj kapadiya

Any other woman would be worshiping anuj kapadiya because runk se raja ban diya anupama ko anuj ne. Pathar se heera bana diya uske sangath ne phir bhi anupama teating him so badly

This is very bad bhagwan ki warth se daro anupama deviji - upar jake hisab dena padthe hai bhale hi duniya main hisab na do. How you have treated a great human who loved you unconditional for 26 years? You have destroyed his soul and heart and mind everything by your behaviours and treatment of him visa shahs in past 1 years of marraige.

I truly cannot understand does anupama not have conscience .......oh i forget alll shahs besharam hai unko kahan conscience hoga

This anupama has no values or morals - she thinks its ok if her hubby and son sleep wth other woman married to wives, she is ok with vanraj snatching kapadiya empire from anuj, shes ok vanraj affair with malvika, shes ok with baa abusing anuj and CA and barkha, shes ok with everything her clan does. She cannot find any fault in herself or shahs all fault anuj maya CA ankush adhik barkhas

anupama and shahs are saints

In between so many lives got destroyed by anupama - anuj, CA, Mukku, GK kaka an entire family she destroyed who would be happier without her or shahs in their life

I still remember how happy anuj used to be with mukku and GK kaka his eyes had sparkle kushi that comes with having a loving caring someone

After marrying anupama uski anhko ki woh kushi chali gayi hai - itna sata ke rakh diya hai bichare ko anupama aur shahs ne

Today anuj left everyone to be with anupama mukku, GK kaka, CA, kapadiya empire. Today no one with him all because he was mad in love with anupama. Jo kushiyan thi shaadi se pehle woh bhi chali gayi

If anyne like anuj in real life my advice - first divorce a woman like anupama and pack your bags and call mukku, GK kaka and run to USA or shift city in india. If maya agrees take CA too with you or co parent. Better to keep 2 dogs aur 2 cats as kids and company and loneliness than so much tension. Than after few years may be you can maarry someone as highly educated as you woh will treat you with care and respect. To hell with love, love is highly over rated. First comes respect that aupama and shahs never gave you than comes care that again anupama never gave you after marriage. Do not let anyone take advantage because you love them or are lonely. Like anupama and shahs did to anuj and mukku( kapadiyas in gen)

You know neighbours were more helpful during covid or problems than anupama was to anuj thats how bad shes been

Even strangers if they know you have stroke will watch over you not run off to functions - itna akal hai being humans hai toh

I want to know what Anupama does after divorce with Anuj.

Anupama wanted NOTHING but peace and chutkara from Vanraj.

What about now? Given that Shahs have nothing to do with Anuj (although Pakhi-Adhik are married), what happens to the various loans given to them?

Originally posted by: Harish111

Its so clear anuj and anupama are not compatible. Its also clear kavya and Vanraj are not either

Love and attraction is all good, but mentality is very important for relationship compatibility, particularly if you are middle aged.

Anupama's thinking and mentality matches vanraj more than anuj. She constantly forgives abusers, she believes in not questioning elders even if they are wrong, she believes in forgiving cheaters, still serving in other people's houses just because as a woman she is expected to.

This very much mirrors Vanraj's attitude where elders and males should rule any house and whatever they do should be forgiven

On the other hand, both Anuj and Kavya are more progressive. Neither of them can forgive cheaters or abusers and can call out elders even when wrong. They don't believe women should always serve in kitchen and always be responsible for grown up kids

Its too late for any of these 4 people to change their thinking and mentality, they are middle aged

This is also why Anupama is most comfortable in Shah house as it has the atmosphere she genuinely believes a house should have, where elders and men can do no wrong and women should serve

She tried her hands at many things, business, dance, being independent, marrying again. But its clear her biggest desire is to serve in such a house where a woman knows her place but is needed for all domestic duties and can baby and pamper her grown up kids

Some women have this mentality and there is nothing wrong in wanting to be a serving house wife. But she will never get that in Anuj's house where he has no parents, no elders and Anuj himself is not a dominating male chauvinistic guy who orders her around or lets her do too much work to show how indispensable she is

All of these would do well to seperate. Also Anupama and Vanraj seems the most compatible, she never minded the abuse or his chauvinistic behavior or his vile mom. It was him openly cheating which caused her problem, if he was having a secret affair which only she knew and was not public, she would have even forgiven that, i am sure. Vanraj's mistake was bringing Kavya into his house which challenged Anupama's domain and kitchen. This is what shocked her, not the affair itself. If Vanraj had been smarter and kept Kavya out of the house, he could still have both women (although Kavya wouldn't have settled) and Anupama would have never left him even if she knew of the affair. She felt betrayed only when she saw Kavya replacing her in Shah house and the duties there

True both Kavya and Anuj are smart they don't deserve such middle age purani soch wale partners. They both should divorce their partners if they want happiness and peace in life

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

I want to know what Anupama does after divorce with Anuj.

Anupama wanted NOTHING but peace and chutkara from Vanraj.

What about now? Given that Shahs have nothing to do with Anuj (although Pakhi-Adhik are married), what happens to the various loans given to them?

As per me anupama will never divorce anuj ATm machine jo hai

They will just live seperate wth anupama getting kapadiya empire dividends of her share in her bank account which will be diverted to shahs by her

Even if she divorce anuj will give her 50% kapadiya empire shares because he has not made pre nupital agreement

Yes anupama ne bahut badi galti ki sabko anupama ko yeh bolna chahiye ki tum agar shaadi bachana chahti ho to choti ki aaya bani raho .bhale anuj tumhe se jyaada choti se pyaar kare bhale hi anuj Har Time bus choti choti karta rahe bhale hi anuj tumhe ignore kare tumse baat na kare but tumhe anuj ki icha ka samman karna chahiye tha means choti ki aaya bane rehna. Choti ke liye bhool jaao ki tum anuj ki Patni bhi ho .bus tumhare ek hi.goal Hona chahiye ki choti ka khayal rakhna anuj ki iccha ka samman iske elawa khuch nahi

Muhe anuj Aur shah mein koi farak nahi lagta hai.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Yes anupama ne bahut badi galti ki sabko anupama ko yeh bolna chahiye ki tum agar shaadi bachana chahti ho to choti ki aaya bani raho .bhale anuj tumhe se jyaada choti se pyaar kare bhale hi anuj Har Time bus choti choti karta rahe bhale hi anuj tumhe ignore kare tumse baat na kare but tumhe anuj ki icha ka samman karna chahiye tha means choti ki aaya bane rehna. Choti ke liye bhool jaao ki tum anuj ki Patni bhi ho .bus tumhare ek hi.goal Hona chahiye ki choti ka khayal rakhna anuj ki iccha ka samman iske elawa khuch nahi

Muhe anuj Aur shah mein koi farak nahi lagta hai.

Come on mostly maids are taking care of CA always or barkha adik anuj etc

she was maid in shah home not at kapadiyas

shes hardly doing any house work at kapadiyas

here anuj, barkha,a nkush, adhik all are cooking in kitchen did you not see before

or maids and helpers in plenty

shes hardly there 10 mins a day in kapadiya kitchen all helpers or other kapadiyas doing

even a maid there to make CA sleep

anupama hradly doing 10% of work she did in shahs house at kapadiyas all maids and servants or other kapadiyas doing

Baa ke liye Khichdi Kisne bansyi Kapadia agar maid hai wajah

Moong ki daal ka halwa Kisne banaya

Anuj ko.roj Aloo ke parathey Kaun khilaata tha as it is anuj favourite break fast. It is anupama who use to cook aaloo ke parathey for anuj

If u remember In beginning of marriage they did show anupama serving to gk and preparing sooji ka halwa

In cvs ne Kapadia house ka, screen space Kam rakha hai to lagta hai anupama ne khuch kaam nahi Kiya but anupama ne kaam Kiya

Even anupama ne hi anuj ko seekhaya hai ki bache kaise paale jaate hai

Anupama ne hi anuj ko seekhaya hsi ki braid kaise nanate hai

She was telling anuj main aapko seekhaoongi ki bache kaise paale jaate ho.a

Anuj to choti ko sleeping Karte time utha bhi nahi paa raha tha it was anupama who pick sleeping choti from car

To isme saaf saaf Pata chta hai kyonki shuru Shuru mein anuj ko khuch aata nahi tha to anupama ne hi saara,khuch choti ke liye Kiya hoga

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Come on mostly maids are taking care of CA always or barkha adik anuj etc

she was maid in shah home not at kapadiyas

shes hardly doing any house work at kapadiyas

here anuj, barkha,a nkush, adhik all are cooking in kitchen did you not see before

or maids and helpers in plenty

shes hardly there 10 mins a day in kapadiya kitchen all helpers or other kapadiyas doing

even a maid there to make CA sleep

anupama hradly doing 10% of work she did in shahs house at kapadiyas all maids and servants or other kapadiyas doing

Kapadia house me kaam karne ke liye, Kapadia house me rehni bhi toh chahiye.

I seriously want to know what on earth is her contribution to the relationship?

Jaise Paritosh, even Kinjal, Samar, Pakhi ki Maa hain ne, Choti Anu ki bhi Maa hain ne? Anmol ratna jo itne bade adults hn, unka comparison 7-saal ki Choti Anu se karna kaha tak sahi hn?

Woh 7-saal ki bachchi khud se tayyar hi nhi hoti, apne badon ka tiffin bhi pack karti hn bolo.

Adults apna kaam khud nahin kar sakte nadaan-nasamajh hn but 7-saal ki bachchi ko samajhna chahiye. Waah!