Cried for AnupaMaa...

I had tears in my eyes after watching the precap. I don't blame Anuj for what he said or did. I completely understand his reactions as I too went through depression several times, but still, I felt sad seeing MAA begging him to reconsider the divorce. No marriage should ever come to this point, especially if this is a second marriage. I don't know how makers will make this right. I don't want Anuj to go on a guilt trip after seeing MAA risking her life to save CA. I don't want them to reconcile after CA comes back into their life. It would imply that Anuj only wants MAA as CA's mother. They should only reconcile only if they genuinely love each other, and not because of any kid. A marriage that needs a kid to survive should not survive at all.

P.S.: I know she reaped what she sowed, and I should not feel sorry for her, but I can't help it.

I too felt bad for her today. And Anuj is completely right in his place. It will be good if they reconcile without Anu in the picture but as you said, I also don't want Anuj to go on a guilt trip. Another thing that I don't want is for them to reconcile without Anupa first introspecting and realizing her own mistakes. ITV usually turns the table and makes it the other person's fault completely while the female lead gets a clean chit.

I know that's not going to happen but hope karne mein kya jata hai😆

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

I had tears in my eyes after watching the precap. I don't blame Anuj for what he said or did. I completely understand his reactions as I too went through depression several times, but still, I felt sad seeing MAA begging him to reconsider the divorce. No marriage should ever come to this point, especially if this is a second marriage. I don't know how makers will make this right. I don't want Anuj to go on a guilt trip after seeing MAA risking her life to save CA. I don't want them to reconcile after CA comes back into their life. It would imply that Anuj only wants MAA as CA's mother. They should only reconcile only if they genuinely love each other, and not because of any kid. A marriage that needs a kid to survive should not survive at all.

P.S.: I know she reaped what she sowed, and I should not feel sorry for her, but I can't help it.

You have a very caring nature and understandable that seeing a character going through pain, who we rooted for initially is difficult.

The makers are using emotional po*** to get sympathy for the character again. In a typical Anupamaa reaction, she is again not giving him space. She has not once apologized for the mistakes committed in the marriage.

I agree any reconciliation should because of them and not a child.

But currently they are both not good for each other. Anupamaa cannot help Anuj in his depression and He cannot have the patience to spell out things further, despite his tries in the past.

Originally posted by: DJ_3

You have a very caring nature and understandable that seeing a character going through pain, who we rooted for initially is difficult.

The makers are using emotional po*** to get sympathy for the character again. In a typical Anupamaa reaction, she is again not giving him space. She has not once apologized for the mistakes committed in the marriage.

I agree any reconciliation should because of them and not a child.

But currently they are both not good for each other. Anupamaa cannot help Anuj in his depression and He cannot have the patience to spell out things further, despite his tries in the past.

Nailed it. No sympathy at all for Anupa till she does not turn over a new leaf and prove it through consistent actions. She is simply not believable at the moment. And this is not a justification for Anuj's rude behaviour towards her. No particular simpathy for the simp either. He has to bear a share of the blame as well but much much lesser when compared to her. That's it. There's a nuance that exists if we look at it objectively and not just Anupamaa is wrong or Anuj is wrong. Then again does DKP understand what nuance is 🤣

Same. I saw this 😢https://twitter.com/niyatimandaliya/status/1638393541297868800?s=46&t=Iip_qAKKvX1x0vBPTtQzyQ

I never feel bad for this lady, as she is responsible for what has happened. You may call me insensitive.

Few of us went through depression and we know how one feels at that time; loses interest in everything- talking, eating, and going outside. even ignores kids, spouse or friends during that phase.

Here, instead of giving time, space, or consulting some psychologist, this lady apne aap hi treatment karne mei lagi hai.. When he is not in senses, what is the point of asking questions, aap mujh par vishwaas nahi karte, aap mujhe pyaar nahi karte, forcing unnecessarily, shoving, pushing him.

For once, if they did not celebrate holi, what would have happened? Shah house mei earth quake aa jaata.

Who talks to a depressed person as Devika did? Did Anu ask her once to shut up. In case of Vanraj, she was ready to raise her hand on Devika. Nobody likes devika in shah house . right?? but usse bhi anu ke ex ke yaahn holi khelni hai. What a friend jee? For once, cant they sit at KM

Anuj said, muje nahii pata pyaar karta hoon ya nahi. what if he says I love u 100 times a day but does not mean it. tab se stretch kiye jaa rahi hai kiye jaa rahi hai.. waise mahan devi hai toh thoda patience nahi rakh sakti.

She says, mei Anuj se bohat bohat bohat pyaar karti hoon.. that's enough to prove her love? She repeats this statement 10 times a day but Anuj comes last on her priority list. What's the point to say I love u .. I love u.. I love u.

PS: I never had sympathy for even Anuj but depression is a very serious issue. so if a spouse will not understand then who will? poora din gaana gaate raho, i love u, i love u.. kya logic hai.

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

I never feel bad for this lady, as she is responsible for what has happened. You may call me insensitive.

Few of us went through depression and we know how one feels at that time; loses interest in everything- talking, eating, and going outside. even ignores kids, spouse or friends during that phase.

Here, instead of giving time, space, or consulting some psychologist, this lady apne aap hi treatment karne mei lagi hai.. When he is not in senses, what is the point of asking questions, aap mujh par vishwaas nahi karte, aap mujhe pyaar nahi karte, forcing unnecessarily, shoving, pushing him.

For once, if they did not celebrate holi, what would have happened? Shah house mei earth quake aa jaata.

Who talks to a depressed person as Devika did? Did Anu ask her once to shut up. In case of Vanraj, she was ready to raise her hand on Devika. Nobody likes devika in shah house . right?? but usse bhi anu ke ex ke yaahn holi khelni hai. What a friend jee? For once, cant they sit at KM

Anuj said, muje nahii pata pyaar karta hoon ya nahi. what if he says I love u 100 times a day but does not mean it. tab se stretch kiye jaa rahi hai kiye jaa rahi hai.. waise mahan devi hai toh thoda patience nahi rakh sakti.

She says, mei Anuj se bohat bohat bohat pyaar karti hoon.. that's enough to prove her love? She repeats this statement 10 times a day but Anuj comes last on her priority list. What's the point to say I love u .. I love u.. I love u.

PS: I never had sympathy for even Anuj but depression is a very serious issue. so if a spouse will not understand then who will? poora din gaana gaate raho, i love u, i love u.. kya logic hai.

I feel the same way ...I feel bad but a little,have patience ..

When u feel guilty person becomes more impatient u have not told him the complete truth that will haunt you more. ...

Anuj is right but also neglecting the fact she loves him.....only him .

Don't know how will they end this track...

If Anuj neglects Anu completely ..how will they justify Anuj action .... anyway Dkp crossed the line by telling

I don't know...

She is always like this...deal with her or leave don't speak any of the words you can't forgive yourself...

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

I never feel bad for this lady, as she is responsible for what has happened. You may call me insensitive.

Few of us went through depression and we know how one feels at that time; loses interest in everything- talking, eating, and going outside. even ignores kids, spouse or friends during that phase.

Here, instead of giving time, space, or consulting some psychologist, this lady apne aap hi treatment karne mei lagi hai.. When he is not in senses, what is the point of asking questions, aap mujh par vishwaas nahi karte, aap mujhe pyaar nahi karte, forcing unnecessarily, shoving, pushing him.

For once, if they did not celebrate holi, what would have happened? Shah house mei earth quake aa jaata.

Who talks to a depressed person as Devika did? Did Anu ask her once to shut up. In case of Vanraj, she was ready to raise her hand on Devika. Nobody likes devika in shah house . right?? but usse bhi anu ke ex ke yaahn holi khelni hai. What a friend jee? For once, cant they sit at KM

Anuj said, muje nahii pata pyaar karta hoon ya nahi. what if he says I love u 100 times a day but does not mean it. tab se stretch kiye jaa rahi hai kiye jaa rahi hai.. waise mahan devi hai toh thoda patience nahi rakh sakti.

She says, mei Anuj se bohat bohat bohat pyaar karti hoon.. that's enough to prove her love? She repeats this statement 10 times a day but Anuj comes last on her priority list. What's the point to say I love u .. I love u.. I love u.

PS: I never had sympathy for even Anuj but depression is a very serious issue. so if a spouse will not understand then who will? poora din gaana gaate raho, i love u, i love u.. kya logic hai.

So well said, don’t feel bad for this woman either, she is a pro at acting like a victim but the whole situation has worsened because of her taking all decisions alone, not consulting anyone not even her husband

Giving no time to her own family and not setting the priorities right

In a marriage its not about saying love you 100 times a day which Anupama keeps saying but her words and actions don’t match, its about understanding the unspoken for which Anupama lacks the ability, she never had it in her first marriage too, never understood Vanraj’s disinterest in her, and was quick to shout at her best friend for speaking about Vanraj and Baa but today she didn’t utter a word, says a lot

And the precap drama even more annoying, if only holding ears and saying sorry or dancing could resolve the situation

I didnt, sorry not sorry.