Cried for AnupaMaa... - Page 5

Originally posted by: monikaseth

You all bashing anupama good your point of view its better anuj love maya why he want anupama. Should go with CA and her biological mom his caracter good for her … Anupama did not ask him to marry me hes the one who choose her with her all quqlitis ans diaqualitys then why now hes having issues bec he want his own baby disgusting toh should get marry a lady who can give him baby why anupama .

Now that he is saying that he doesn't wanna stay with her, why is she begging him after all those so-called baseless allegations? Let the man go then.

Also, Anuj never said he loves Maaya. (Although I wish he does, gadha kahin ka) . Also, did Anuj marry her at the gunpoint? If he asked, she said yes - both to marriage and adoption. I am not saying Anuj is blameless and I termed him a slave puppy because of that. People are asking why did Anuj listen to Anupama when she asked him to let go CA. She literally locked him up, Did Anuj lock her up and forced her to marry him or for that matter adopt CA? The way she locked him up, if that was done by Anuj to stop her from going to Shahs then?

Originally posted by: monikaseth

You all bashing anupama good your point of view its better anuj love maya why he want anupama. Should go with CA and her biological mom his caracter good for her … Anupama did not ask him to marry me hes the one who choose her with her all quqlitis ans diaqualitys then why now hes having issues bec he want his own baby disgusting toh should get marry a lady who can give him baby why anupama .

love is different marraige is different

boy friend is different husband is different

marraige is sanction by society

boy friend love is not truly officially sanctioned by society or family etc

boy friend girl friend have no responsibility towards each other actually or their families

hubby wife have responsibility as per law and society towards each other and their family

Here shah house is not anupama mayka its her ex sasural still anuj is expected to give them lakhs of money and help them always and bear with their misbehaviours and hungamas

in real life have you seen any woman in india go to her divorced hubby house every other day and laugh and dance jhoola jhul with him or cook in his wife kitchen

if anupama 3 kids loved her they would have left with her after divorce and vanraj second wedding. No child that too adults stay with father and step mother when mother lives in another house alone forget india even USA

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

I had tears in my eyes after watching the precap. I don't blame Anuj for what he said or did. I completely understand his reactions as I too went through depression several times, but still, I felt sad seeing MAA begging him to reconsider the divorce. No marriage should ever come to this point, especially if this is a second marriage. I don't know how makers will make this right. I don't want Anuj to go on a guilt trip after seeing MAA risking her life to save CA. I don't want them to reconcile after CA comes back into their life. It would imply that Anuj only wants MAA as CA's mother. They should only reconcile only if they genuinely love each other, and not because of any kid. A marriage that needs a kid to survive should not survive at all.

P.S.: I know she reaped what she sowed, and I should not feel sorry for her, but I can't help it.

First, why would world’s worst foster mother rescues CA? I know I have been In and out of this show last two days because of family visiting from out of State but did I miss something?

As for feeling sorry for this woman, my sympathy for her is dead.🤣 She was told over and over again to put their marriage and family first, she opted to put her family and their problems first. This is her own doing. 🤣 Karma looks wonderful on both of them.🤣

To all her devotees, my point was made, they didn’t even survive a week post Ca.🤣

Originally posted by: strancho

Now that he is saying that he doesn't wanna stay with her, why is she begging him after all those so-called baseless allegations? Let the man go then.

Also, Anuj never said he loves Maaya. (Although I wish he does, gadha kahin ka) . Also, did Anuj marry her at the gunpoint? If he asked, she said yes - both to marriage and adoption. I am not saying Anuj is blameless and I termed him a slave puppy because of that. People are asking why did Anuj listen to Anupama when she asked him to let go CA. She literally locked him up, Did Anuj lock her up and forced her to marry him or for that matter adopt CA? The way she locked him up, if that was done by Anuj to stop her from going to Shahs then?

Originally posted by: inlieu

One more thing, Vanraj NEVER loved Anu from day 1. Anuj has always loved her but says he doesn't know anymore what he feels. That's what happens to people who are traumatized and depressed. They feel numb and detached from their surroundings, even from themselves. They don't follow their normal routines, even the basics like sleeping or eating properly. It takes time, sometimes months or years, for them to come out of this, through counselling, therapy, and most importantly the constant support of loved ones. You cannot expect them to be proactive or contribute anything to any kind of relationship because they are just unable to connect with their surroundings during this period. If you push them too far, it makes things worse, and sometimes when these people come out of depression, they still retain the negative memories of feeling a lack of support from those who pushed them.

A marriage evolves with time, two people never stay the same. If things go well, they grow together, but if not, then they grow apart. This has been happening to MaAn for a while now. He told her a few months ago that he no longer thought of her as his best friend... That was a major red flag. Now he says that the marriage, at least in its current state, is something he can't deal with anymore or relate to. Another red flag.

People are conveniently saying that he used her and is now throwing her out but was he ever fully there in her life? Even now he's saying that he could never hate her, so it means she still has the chance to find her place in his heart again, but only if she truly understands what's really the problem. He knows she has to split her time between two families but her heart? At least she can give him that 100% but that's where she fell short and he's seen it over and over. Sigh... what a mess.

Originally posted by: viji2111

How conveniently everyone forgot that a 6 year old was having panic attacks because of her mother's absence...

Anuj was right at that time that a a child should not be this much understanding...

Anupma made everything about her and made herself a victim which she is not....Anuj has been complaining about her negligence from few months now....this outburst is not sudden but anupama could never understand him....