Cried for AnupaMaa... - Page 4

I never liked Anupama treating anuj like some sort of a god. First it was vanraj , next anuj. He is a human being just like everyone . He needs time.

as soon as someone becomes her husband she is like they are her bhagwan or something which is not the right message.

havibg 3 kids with an ex and a kid with the current husband is hella complicated. Anuj knew it before he entered this marriage, it’s been total of 6 months , both are at fault here, but I do feel sorry for Anupama, second time around, getting dumped is not gonna feel great.

also I hope dkp doesn’t give anuj an terminal illness so he is behaving this way, that will be stupid.

Originally posted by: naaznin

I feel more bad because it was her second time n she messed it and also her partner is being unreasonable.

If it was a big issue then I would have understand but a foster child choosing her biological mother is the most done thing.

Its not only about CA its about how misplaced her priorities were n how she has messed up things yet she doesn't realizes her fault in this whole fiasco.Anuj's frustration was building up for a long time n this outburst was bound to happen one day.CA leaving just triggered that n he spoke facts on her face which she didn't liked.Anuj was wrong but Anupamaa was more wrong in this fiasco.His problem is that she never treated CA like her bio kids which is true n we have seen that too n its ok if she wasn't attached to CA but then she shouldn't fake her love for CA n claim that she love CA like her bio kids.

Originally posted by: zohakhan7

Its not only about CA its about how misplaced her priorities were n how she has messed up things yet she doesn't realizes her fault in this whole fiasco.Anuj's frustration was building up for a long time n this outburst was bound to happen one day.CA leaving just triggered that n he spoke facts on her face which she didn't liked.Anuj was wrong but Anupamaa was more wrong in this fiasco.His problem is that she never treated CA like her bio kids which is true n we have seen that too n its ok if she wasn't attached to CA but then she shouldn't fake her love for CA n claim that she love CA like her bio kids.

This... perfectly summarized the situation.

That was the straw that broke the camel's back.

Originally posted by: inlieu

This... perfectly summarized the situation.

That was the straw that broke the camel's back.

This outburst was bound to happen one day.I mean come on in every situation anu expected anuj to be her saviour n to support her n he did that too but when was anu there for anuj as a wife or as a friend or as a partner.A couple definitely needs their personal space n time but in this 6-9 months of their marriage they have hardly spent time together as a couple leave alone as a parent to CA.The man cannot talk to his wife peacefully for even 5 mins because every 2 sec there is ca from shah house for some nonsense reasons n anu's mind gets diverted towards shah house.Any sane person would tolerate this shit for a while but will explode like Anuj did when there tolerance level will reach its peak.

Originally posted by: zohakhan7

This outburst was bound to happen one day.I mean come on in every situation anu expected anuj to be her saviour n to support her n he did that too but when was anu there for anuj as a wife or as a friend or as a partner.A couple definitely needs their personal space n time but in this 6-9 months of their marriage they have hardly spent time together as a couple leave alone as a parent to CA.The man cannot talk to his wife peacefully for even 5 mins because every 2 sec there is ca from shah house for some nonsense reasons n anu's mind gets diverted towards shah house.Any sane person would tolerate this shit for a while but will explode like Anuj did when there tolerance level will reach its peak.

He had the same reaction on NYE when he didn't feel like celebrating with CA not around and there was too much drama because of the Shahs. I see this as a natural continuation from those events that led to this.

Originally posted by: inlieu

He had the same reaction on NYE when he didn't feel like celebrating with CA not around and there was too much drama because of the Shahs. I see this as a natural continuation from those events that led to this.

True its all built up from then only or from before only.Even CA was sent from KH because such nonsense was going on n then only CA met Maya warna there was no indication of Maya.There was no need to bring whole shah family to kapadiya house without even consulting Anuj.That was the limit for Anuj.

Originally posted by: monikaseth

This time anuj only care about CA why did he marry with anupama should have adopt her before why this all emotional drama …..if you only want kid should not get in to this relationship you want everything according your happiness why dont you do anything with Maya or you want to be with her thats why this all disgusting ….. emotional breakdown understand but for what why you cant stop CA only anupama why to do everything .

and Anupama thinks of everyone else but Anuj ALL the time

Originally posted by: monikaseth

This time anuj only care about CA why did he marry with anupama should have adopt her before why this all emotional drama …..if you only want kid should not get in to this relationship you want everything according your happiness why dont you do anything with Maya or you want to be with her thats why this all disgusting ….. emotional breakdown understand but for what why you cant stop CA only anupama why to do everything .

Why is Anupama begging him to stay with her then? Let him go. The emotions that she is feeling now are the same that Anuj felt and is feeling for CA. Yes, Anuj knew she had baggage but even she knew that she can't cut the thread between her and shahs. Yes, Anuj shouldn't have married her, then why did she agree to marry him when she knew she can't prioritize him? If she only wanted his support for her and her good-for-nothing family then she should have not married. Anuj was anyway dancing to her tunes.