What upma supposed to teach us! (green) VS What upma is actually teaching us! (red)
1. Marry whenever you want with whomever you like. Live life carefree.
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1. Do not marry a married woman with kids. Do not marry after 40 as you may not be able to give birth to a child too.
2. Ignore Toxic people and Spend your time with whom you like
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2. Never forget your ex family they are god. Leave your family but don't leave them.
3. Relations need not have the same bloodline. Orphans can get a good family.
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3. Relations can be established only between ppl who share blood. Orphans would be treated like third-class members of a family.
4. Family functions are meant to bring ppl together
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4. Family functions are the best place to shout at each other. All grudges can be only vented out in a family function.
5. A girl should never look at toxic sasural post-marriage. Unless they are very cordial to her.
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5.A girl after marriage has to treat her sasural as her maaya and should forget her own real maayka even after divorce.Her ex maayka should never be invited to functions but her new Maayka is must for all functions.
6. Post marriage it's husbands responsibility to protect wife from unwanted traps from selfish ppl.
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6. Husband should be accommodative enough to let her wife go to baby sit, to clean potty, to cook because it's her maayka.
7. A bahu should treat her saas and husband like how her saas and husband treats her.
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7. Irrespective of how saas/husband treats they are your god.
8. Break all your ties with your ex as it can impact your future life.
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8. Keep ex in your thoughts kya patha when current will give hand and you have to go back to your ex.
9. Saas Should accept new bahu over old bahu
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9. Saas should see which bahu works more and serve her as a maid and choose that bahu try everything to bring their son closer to that bahu.
10. Marriage is a beautiful ritual every person should at least try it once.
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10. After seeing Anuj's one sided love or life without marriage is much better than life after marriage. Live in is better than marriage.
11. Go to court if you feel you are betrayed.
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11. Don't Visit court as Court is just there for namesake. Only normal ppl will go to court a kid can be judge of her own life.
The list goes on.
Jhanak
Shiv Shakti
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