Originally posted by: surabhi01
Anupama kyon kahe Choti anu rukne ko. jub chot anu khud jid kar rahi thi use maaya ke saath jaana
Aur aia nahi anupama ne choti ko rokne ka try nahi Kiya. Anupama ka jitna bis mein tha choti Anu ko rokemne ko.koshush ki
Anupama told .anu ur papa can't live without u but chot adamant To anupama kaise rotiti
Even anuj try to convince anu not to go but choti admanant to.go with maaya
To anupama isme kya kar sakte they
This is a point people have made many times before, but just reiterating:
When Choti said "I know because of me you both are having fights"
That's an absolutely, horrible, horrible way for any child to feel. It would be the first instinct of any parent to clear such misunderstandings of a child, and I don't understand why they showed Anupama not clearing the misunderstanding there.
The justification she gave was she didn't want negative impression of her own mother to be born in Choti's mind - but that sounded like such an...such an abnormal way of thinking. Surely there can be other ways this can be handled?
"My bebli, never ever think that the fights between me and Papa are because of you - never ever, okay? That is between us adults.
I understand, Maya told you that she's all alone and she has no one else except you, and that we have our whole family. But for Papa and me, our family is incomplete without you, we love you so much. So, so much.
You feel if you don't leave, Maya will create fights between us? I don't want to send you away forever with a person who makes you feel fear in this way, not without finding out more about Maya, okay?
I'm not saying she's a bad woman or mother, but we need to find out more and have more discussions here. You love being with us more, and you are both of our life-force, we won't let you go that easily.
Baccha, you're just a 7 year old kid, I don't want you to grow up so much at this age. I want you to have all your childhood.
You let us adults handle this, okay? You'll let us adults handle this? Good girl"
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