Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-
I have a slightly different take here.
No couple in this world is compatible from get go, neither is compatibility consistent. It needs working, from both ends, equally. Any healthy relationship requires consistent, continuous efforts. Letting go of certain things, forgiveness, mutual respect, communication, spending enough time with each other all of it is needed for a healthy survival.
There is no set criteria for certain kind of people deserving another certain kind of people. It is just the boxes we put them into depending on experiences and tales.
Murtasim and Meerab do complete what's missing in the other. While she has all the qualities for being the lady of their house, once she willingly takes charge, he can be the ground to her skies. He has that level of sensitivity and sense of protection when it comes to her.
I'vevery beautifully explained but many are not getting my point.
I think that 2 people who are going to spend their life together should have similar take on their future and if they don't than ome would have to let go of certain part of his/her future.
Tell me for being murtasim's wife doesn't mean,meerab wpuld have to handle tbat ghardari...she doesn't want that her expectations and dreams are entirely different
Doesn't being his wife,she would not have to under security 24 hrs,his other family members also do.
For that she can't go out as she used to be in karachi...
And next if she wantto do this all thanmurtasim will have to let go of his position as gadinashee...than who will take reaposibility of people dependant on him...
I am not talking compatibility,I am talking futute plans,atleast they should br same..
I marry a person who wanted to settle down and have kids but mein kahun mujhe to bhai bahar jake higher education leni hai...so ab kaise bnegi humari...
So this is something we both had to seebefore getting married as ome want a family one want to rise in career.
So they have to be sure atleast on this front that the person going to be their humsafar should be okay with it.
Taki kisi ek.par thopa na jaye decision.
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