Why so much hate for anupama - Page 2

Originally posted by: Swathiyaa

Not a regular viewer of show but i read updates then and there in this forum and whenever I visit this forum I see people being happy everytime anupama is put down and tarnished..

Her mistake is going to shah house and her connection with mil and ex I understand that but how come taking care of her children can become a mistake.. a son is paralyzed why wouldn't any mother want to take care of that child.. Even in reality if one child is sick maximum effort will be put on sick child.. Doesn't mean they ignore other child or want to ignore other child..they make other child understand the situation... Here the kid very well had other parent nearby all the time..

Anuj very well knew she has a baggage when he married her but then at this age he put extra pressure on her by fostering a child..she did try to fulfill all that she can do.. Maya did a clever thing by putting all the mistake on anupama to escape the focus on her.. She is very very clever.. She hit two mangoes in one stone.. Splitting them as well as child..

I feel like anupama was just being fair ..but everyone are being very very unfair to her doesn't wait for a chance to put her down..Be it anuj Or shah members.. For his obsession what can anybody do...he must have always been cautious that the kid is under foster care only and they have no legal rights...just because she understood reality he is accusing her all the time of not being obsessed like he is..

I'm just being neutral here.. I long had this doubt ..

Not a regular viewer that's why u are saying riz dekho show tab pata chalega why we hate her so much. Reading updates usse kuch pata nahi chalta ki Anupama kaise hai🤣🤣

1. Anuj was sick.

She went for Pari's homecoming ceremony.

2. Paritosh was sick.

She wanted to go on Anu's picnic. (Not because she liked picnics or preferred to be with Anu, but because she fell threatened by Maaya's existence.

She left sick Paritosh at home and went back only because of Maaya.

3. Anu's school function day. She was not a part of the audience, but a participant.

She CHOSE to stay at home for her Leela.

She didn't care whether Anu cried for her. When Anuj tried to make her understand, she was adamant on her being right.

4. She can't do everything but wants to do everything. And mostly Anu had to pay for Anupamaa's mahaanta. But who cares when she herself doesn't😆

Originally posted by: Swathiyaa

Not a regular viewer of show but i read updates then and there in this forum and whenever I visit this forum I see people being happy everytime anupama is put down and tarnished..

Her mistake is going to shah house and her connection with mil and ex I understand that but how come taking care of her children can become a mistake.. a son is paralyzed why wouldn't any mother want to take care of that child.. Even in reality if one child is sick maximum effort will be put on sick child.. Doesn't mean they ignore other child or want to ignore other child..they make other child understand the situation... Here the kid very well had other parent nearby all the time..

Anuj very well knew she has a baggage when he married her but then at this age he put extra pressure on her by fostering a child..she did try to fulfill all that she can do.. Maya did a clever thing by putting all the mistake on anupama to escape the focus on her.. She is very very clever.. She hit two mangoes in one stone.. Splitting them as well as child..

I feel like anupama was just being fair ..but everyone are being very very unfair to her doesn't wait for a chance to put her down..Be it anuj Or shah members.. For his obsession what can anybody do...he must have always been cautious that the kid is under foster care only and they have no legal rights...just because she understood reality he is accusing her all the time of not being obsessed like he is..

I'm just being neutral here.. I long had this doubt ..

She didn't go to shah house to be with her children. 90% of the time she went to serve Baa, emotionally cheat with her ex and sing and dance in festivals

Are people even watching the show? She tried her best? How? By abandoing a little kid again and again and again? By abandoning her paralyzed husband? By spending over 90% tike in shah house?

Just because someone has baggage doesnt mean they have an excuse to pay zero attention to their responsibilities in a new relationship

Nor does she have an excuse to constantly abandon a young foster child, its illegal and one can be jailed if reported

And i am sick of callling a kid an "obsession". Do you know women can have PTSD if they miscarry even afrwr 2-3 months? This is an unborn child who they dont even see

Do you believe a father cannot get attached to a child who he looks at as his own child in a few montah? Why is a fathers love called obsession? Just because he is a guy?

Yes yes anupama went to look after her paralyzed son. Thats why she was serving tea to her abusers and spending close time with her ex husband instead of even being in her son's room

Yes it's clear you are not a regular watcher because clearly there is no ideaa whats actually happening in the show

I will repeat, she spends 90% of her time in her exes house and not to be with her kid but to chat with her ex and serve her abusive ex mil and sing and dance. And anyone who watched the show regularly will know this. Making conjectures without watching the show regularly is hilarious

We never said her going to SH for toshu was wrong,in fact we bashed her when she was ignoring toshu's health over something as trivial as a picnic and birthday, and we did call out Anuj too for his hypocrisy of wanting anupama all to himself and CA when her son is paralyzed, taking care of her kids is not wrong, but for running to solve their every small issue while ignoring ur 7y/o is wrong,and Anuj was wrong too,into emotionally blackmailing her to adopt CA,but at the end of the day,she was the one who agreed for it,so she had fulfill the responsibility.

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

We never said her going to SH for toshu was wrong,in fact we bashed her when she was ignoring toshu's health over something as trivial as a picnic and birthday, and we did call out Anuj too for his hypocrisy of wanting anupama all to himself and CA when her son is paralyzed, taking care of her kids is not wrong, but for running to solve their every small issue while ignoring ur 7y/o is wrong,and Anuj was wrong too,into emotionally blackmailing her to adopt CA,but at the end of the day,she was the one who agreed for it,so she had fulfill the responsibility.

Sorry but i have no sympathy and hope for Anupama she will remain in gutter always her choice

Originally posted by: shriz

@bold- this exactly is the reason we hate anupama

She left choti anu's school function to make khichdi for baa as she thought that's more important.

But when her paralysed son toshu actually needed her to take care of him then she decided to go on a picnic with ca as she was insecure of maaya 😕

Matlab baa ka khichdi also was more important to her than her paralysed son🤡

Khichdi k liye ca ka important function chod sakte hai but paralysed bete k liye nahi!!

What does this show?

She neither loves toshu nor ca but only herself..prioritises whoever she wants according to her own convenience.

And this is just one example i gave of her hypocrisy 😆

Tera bas chale toh Tum toh biography likh degi

Originally posted by: Swathiyaa

Not a regular viewer of show but i read updates then and there in this forum and whenever I visit this forum I see people being happy everytime anupama is put down and tarnished..

Her mistake is going to shah house and her connection with mil and ex I understand that but how come taking care of her children can become a mistake.. a son is paralyzed why wouldn't any mother want to take care of that child.. Even in reality if one child is sick maximum effort will be put on sick child.. Doesn't mean they ignore other child or want to ignore other child..they make other child understand the situation... Here the kid very well had other parent nearby all the time..

Anuj very well knew she has a baggage when he married her but then at this age he put extra pressure on her by fostering a child..she did try to fulfill all that she can do.. Maya did a clever thing by putting all the mistake on anupama to escape the focus on her.. She is very very clever.. She hit two mangoes in one stone.. Splitting them as well as child..

I feel like anupama was just being fair ..but everyone are being very very unfair to her doesn't wait for a chance to put her down..Be it anuj Or shah members.. For his obsession what can anybody do...he must have always been cautious that the kid is under foster care only and they have no legal rights...just because she understood reality he is accusing her all the time of not being obsessed like he is..

I'm just being neutral here.. I long had this doubt ..

Absolutely right..well said

Originally posted by: Swathiyaa

Not a regular viewer of show but i read updates then and there in this forum and whenever I visit this forum I see people being happy everytime anupama is put down and tarnished..

Her mistake is going to shah house and her connection with mil and ex I understand that but how come taking care of her children can become a mistake.. a son is paralyzed why wouldn't any mother want to take care of that child.. Even in reality if one child is sick maximum effort will be put on sick child.. Doesn't mean they ignore other child or want to ignore other child..they make other child understand the situation... Here the kid very well had other parent nearby all the time..

Anuj very well knew she has a baggage when he married her but then at this age he put extra pressure on her by fostering a child..she did try to fulfill all that she can do.. Maya did a clever thing by putting all the mistake on anupama to escape the focus on her.. She is very very clever.. She hit two mangoes in one stone.. Splitting them as well as child..

I feel like anupama was just being fair ..but everyone are being very very unfair to her doesn't wait for a chance to put her down..Be it anuj Or shah members.. For his obsession what can anybody do...he must have always been cautious that the kid is under foster care only and they have no legal rights...just because she understood reality he is accusing her all the time of not being obsessed like he is..

I'm just being neutral here.. I long had this doubt ..

Personally, I agree with the part about Anuj having full knowledge of her background and the baggage from her past. Others may criticise but it can't be ignored that his stances have changed massively and they have written his character without consistency.

However, that being said, Anupamaa is the one who has constantly taken a series of incorrect decisions. She was only being reasonable in this scenario but in everything else prior to this she made a complete mess while Anuj was patiently by her side, to the point where he did not voice out concerns which should ideally have been communicated. Even today she just wanted to force her decision of letting CA go rather than discuss

If Anuj cannot accept the reality about CA, then Anupamaa has not been able to do so about Tamashahs as well. The same folks who have abused and manipulated her at will. She only has herself to blame for her self inflicted suffering when she always had a better option available. With each error and each opportunity where she refuses to correct herself, people naturally lose sympathy with the character

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

Many of us who continue to hang around the forum, have watched the show from the get-go. We were the ones who smiled at her innocence; cried with her when she was abused, cheated & taken for a ride; cheered for her to break the shackles and be a free bird. We all hoped and willed for her to create an identity in a male dominated world and show her abusers what she is capable of.

Alas, the person we cheered for does not want to move on, does not want to be free. Refuses to rectify her mistakes and revive her life. Instead chooses to return to her comfort zone to get abused while rejecting the person who offered her limitless love and affection.

She will not get any sympathy for self-inflicted wounds. Our energy seems to have been wasted cheering for her, so we choose laugh when she cries.

^this!

🎶

Humein toh loot liya milke

DKP waalon ne

Bohot (bohot, bohot) hi tang kiya ab tak

Inn production house waalon ne

Para chadha jo, maryada ki

chaadar uttar phenka hai

Besharam rang ab hai dekhna

DKP waalon ko

😆

Originally posted by: Arshi67

^this!

🎶

Humein toh loot liya milke

DKP waalon ne

Bohot (bohot, bohot) hi tang kiya ab tak

Inn production house waalon ne

Para chadha jo, maryada ki

chaadar uttar phenka hai

Besharam rang ab hai dekhna

DKP waalon ko

😆

Though my wish of AnuRaj dance performance on this song will probably never come true but show ke koi toh context mein ye kaam aaya 😆