Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 08 Mar 2023 - Page 5

Originally posted by: Koms9

Seems Mr. Kapadia finally found the right buttons to push

Hoping he does that carefully and not push too many lest it leads to the system crashing 😆

Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

All maa needs to do is take these little sensible steps and her life will be going smoothly.

But nahi, maa needs to machao rona dhona on petty little things about her "batna" between two families.

Like today she just needs to set her priorities right.

@bold, Aptly summed up but even asking for something so basic seems too much in the current state of this show. Still, one can enjoy these rare moments whenever they appear......

Baa ne sahi kaha tha is aurat Mein maa ka dil hi nahi ha

How should anupama manage chidren problem at a time

If anupama go to toshu to look after him even for 1 days then she is neglecting choti

If anupama take choti to shah house then anupama get blame thst anupama taking choti to toxic environment

If anupama taking toshu to her house then kinjal Pari will also go there If kinjal toshu Pari go there then how can baa leave behind she will say main Pari ko apne se door nahi reh doongi main bhi aaongi to baa bhi rehne aa jayegi Kapadia house mein phir baad log bhi kyon peeche rehne woh bhi aa jaayenge aa jaayege Kapadia house mein

So how should anupama manage kyonki agar anupama ek ke liye karti hai To doosre ke liye buri banti hai aur doosri ke liye Acha karti hai To ek ke liye buri banti

Yeh baat to certain hai anupama ko kis na kisi ke nazar mein bura banna hi hai because sub ek saath khush rakhna anupama ke liye practical possible nahi hai

Anupama ko Kaun si priority set Karni chahiye yeh baat I baat hai but kya anupama ko kabhi life mein kabhi enjoy karne ka mauka nahi milega .hamesha kya parivar ke problem hi ghiri rahegi aaj usko chot lag gayi aaj woh bhaag gaya aaj isne shaadi kar liya aa usne ema kar Liya aaj usne paisa chu ra liya

Yeh cvs hsr time anupama ko dharma Sankat mein daale rehte hain

Cvs are very very very cruel to anupama

I can’t wait to see SuperMaa save CA when she gets kidnapped by Maaya. Deviji will save the day 🦸‍♀️

Originally posted by: surabhi01

How should anupama manage chidren problem at a time

If anupama go to toshu to look after him even for 1 days then she is neglecting choti

If anupama take choti to shah house then anupama get blame thst anupama taking choti to toxic environment

If anupama taking toshu to her house then kinjal Pari will also go there If kinjal toshu Pari go there then how can baa leave behind she will say main Pari ko apne se door nahi reh doongi main bhi aaongi to baa bhi rehne aa jayegi Kapadia house mein phir baad log bhi kyon peeche rehne woh bhi aa jaayenge aa jaayege Kapadia house mein

So how should anupama manage kyonki agar anupama ek ke liye karti hai To doosre ke liye buri banti hai aur doosri ke liye Acha karti hai To ek ke liye buri banti

Yeh baat to certain hai anupama ko kis na kisi ke nazar mein bura banna hi hai because sub ek saath khush rakhna anupama ke liye practical possible nahi hai

Anupama ko Kaun si priority set Karni chahiye yeh baat I baat hai but kya anupama ko kabhi life mein kabhi enjoy karne ka mauka nahi milega .hamesha kya parivar ke problem hi ghiri rahegi aaj usko chot lag gayi aaj woh bhaag gaya aaj isne shaadi kar liya aa usne ema kar Liya aaj usne paisa chu ra liya

Yeh cvs hsr time anupama ko dharma Sankat mein daale rehte hain

Cvs are very very very cruel to anupama

Once she agreed to foster a child, she should put effort into it. I don’t think Anuj forced her to agree to foster. But irrespective of how they came about to being foster parents, she (& Anuj) must put the effort in providing a safe and secure environment for the foster child. When she knows that Baa has an acid tongue, why should she take her there? The least she can do is protect the child from baa’s hurtful words. But, she chooses to remain a mute witness. That is plain wrong and completely unacceptable, IMO

Moving to SH because kinjal needed her!? She left CA and Anuj to visit Pari’s celebration, another example misplaced priorities. Now, Whatever happened to her taking care of Toshu and going to SH, now her focus has shifted to CA and most importantly her birthday celebrations. What are we to make out of this? Many many such examples of misplaced priorities.

Just wanted to add a general observation about parenting.

We cannot quantify an abstract entity like love. Every child is different, every family is different. Based on the situation it might sometimes seem that the parent/mother is partial one child over the other. In reality, any mother/parent will have absolutely equal love for their children no matter how their children’s behavior is towards them. I strongly believe that every parent will learn this innate art to perfectly balance, extend equal love, affection and care towards their children. ❤️

The show is the last guide to parenting. Infact the last guide to anything sane.

My question is not about what anupama should make priority first

My question is why CVS always create tough situation for anupama that she never get chance to happy .

Bus ab saari zindagi anupama teen bache aur anuj aur choti ke bache ke beech priority set karne mein lagi rahegi kyon problem to Kab hi nahi khatm hogi kabhi na kabhi kisi na kisi ko problem lagi rahegi

Phir anupama ko life enjoy karne ka mauka kub milega

Matlab ki ab zindagi bhar anupama ko logon ke problem ke liye bus Har time apne aap sacrifice karte rehna Hoga

Means CVS want to say ab anupama had no right to live happily think about herself enjoy herself

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

good question. There is no straightforward answer. Because it really depends on the situation. Plus we cannot forget that she is divorced, which means that her time with her grownup children is shared with her ex-spouse. That is an important element in the equation. In this case, they have shown Anupama to be tending to her grown up children for petty reasons. Moving to SH to take care of Toshu when there is a whole army to take care of him. She is his mother and certainly her heart feels the pain he is going through. But she must remember that she cannot pack her bags and move in to their house. So, now that clearly shows she is prioritizing Shah’s demands not Toshu’s over CA. Now, immediately after that she wanted to go on a picnic with CA. This to me, is very confusing and thoroughly juxtaposed.

Once she agreed to foster a child, she should put effort into it. I don’t think Anuj forced her to agree to foster. But irrespective of how they came about to being foster parents, she (& Anuj) must put the effort in providing a safe and secure environment for the foster child. When she knows that Baa has an acid tongue, why should she take her there? The least she can do is protect the child from baa’s hurtful words. But, she chooses to remain a mute witness. That is plain wrong and completely unacceptable, IMO

Moving to SH because kinjal needed her!? She left CA and Anuj to visit Pari’s celebration, another example misplaced priorities. Now, Whatever happened to her taking care of Toshu and going to SH, now her focus has shifted to CA and most importantly her birthday celebrations. What are we to make out of this? Many many such examples of misplaced priorities.

So very well put. CVs are trying to show, a woman in Anupamas situation will never be happy if she decides to get out of an abusive marriage. Her baggage of grown up children and ex family is too much to carry forward in her next marriage. So, it's best to remain with abusive husband and her abusive in laws under the pretext of children that she bore from her womb.

Now, what people would love to see is completely different but that will not guarantee drama and screen space to all the self proclaimed hero of the show. Also, what sane people want to see will not guarantee these many episodes too and that is very much necessary - drag the show for n number of years.

So, yes - Anupama will be happy if makers want her to be like they celebrated her birthday when her young and jawan child is confined to a wheelchair while her foster child whom she loves soo much is pretty much on the verge of going away from her for good.