Anupama kinjal convo

Credit has to be given where it's due.. ❤️

I really loved what Anupama said to kinjal during morning prayer ki duniya apne hisaab se aurat ko rakhna chahti hai ( which is true even in case of men ) .

Agar koi mard rasoi mein kam Karen , Ghar sambhale , bacchon ko dekhen , apni patni ki koi madad kar de to us par joru ke gulam ka stamp lag jata hai.

I actually have in my relatives , a working couple both as teachers in school. However the Mil is completely disapproving of dil when she makes her son do the household chores. Once we went to a wedding and the husband was holding his wife's purse and the ladies made joke out of this.

He helps her in every chore and everyone calls him a BECHARA when both of them are equally contributing . Kya galat ho gaya agar biwi ki madad kar di to...

Coming back to the show , both kinjal and Anupama know how wrong baa is but still adamant on giving her the respect instead of taking a strict action against her.

Anupama's love for Leela and Kinjal's love for Anupama is beyond logic and human understanding.

Love is blind, Pyaar me logon ka dimag kharab hota hain, here is why!

It's not that they know things are wrong, it is that they choose to accept abuse which is beyond reason.

If anything, after ALL that occurred, Kinjal should have first stopped Leela from calling Rakhi names and given her a respectfully earful.

I feel these occasionally good dialogues are mere lollipops as they don't lead to any actual progress or learning for the characters and they fall back into their vicious cycles at the first possible instance.

Anupamaa can never set boundaries, Kinjal/Kavya can call out their husbands and in-laws but the situation stays the same, mawaali jhuli has been shown to repent but starts abusing in the next scene, spineless dukhmukh keeps pretending to be supportive but never takes a stand. I could go on and on but you get the gist......

Originally posted by: Musketeer_95

Credit has to be given where it's due.. ❤️

I really loved what Anupama said to kinjal during morning prayer ki duniya apne hisaab se aurat ko rakhna chahti hai ( which is true even in case of men ) .

Agar koi mard rasoi mein kam Karen , Ghar sambhale , bacchon ko dekhen , apni patni ki koi madad kar de to us par joru ke gulam ka stamp lag jata hai.

I actually have in my relatives , a working couple both as teachers in school. However the Mil is completely disapproving of dil when she makes her son do the household chores. Once we went to a wedding and the husband was holding his wife's purse and the ladies made joke out of this.

He helps her in every chore and everyone calls him a BECHARA when both of them are equally contributing . Kya galat ho gaya agar biwi ki madad kar di to...

Coming back to the show , both kinjal and Anupama know how wrong baa is but still adamant on giving her the respect instead of taking a strict action against her.

From the beginning of time, gender-based roles have been in practice. So, anything that is out of the conventional norm is looked down upon. For ex –stay at home dads aren’t that many compared to stay-at-home moms.Similarly men doing household chores. It will take several generations to change this mindset.

The problem with this show is that good/meaningful dialogues(which are very less of late!) get lost due to the contradictory nature of the chars. Anupama, who has a strong fan following does not walk the talk. Nothing she does matches with what she says. Making us all go bonkers

Originally posted by: Musketeer_95

Credit has to be given where it's due.. ❤️

I really loved what Anupama said to kinjal during morning prayer ki duniya apne hisaab se aurat ko rakhna chahti hai ( which is true even in case of men ) .

Agar koi mard rasoi mein kam Karen , Ghar sambhale , bacchon ko dekhen , apni patni ki koi madad kar de to us par joru ke gulam ka stamp lag jata hai.

I actually have in my relatives , a working couple both as teachers in school. However the Mil is completely disapproving of dil when she makes her son do the household chores. Once we went to a wedding and the husband was holding his wife's purse and the ladies made joke out of this.

He helps her in every chore and everyone calls him a BECHARA when both of them are equally contributing . Kya galat ho gaya agar biwi ki madad kar di to...

I think I mentioned it before, being raised In USA, you don’t get the luxury of having maids and nanny's when you both start out as a married couple first. When my mother-in-law moved in and lived with us for one year, she had a hard time, seeing her son helping with the kids, house chores, and cooking.

We split everything evenly and she was very upset and told my husband, we educated you, send you here with two degrees, and you have a great job, why must bahu work and make you change dipers and clean the house?
It is her job, not yours. She pointed out to my parents. They didn’t say much, my own husband ignored her, and my father-in-law who would live ten more year's with us after her death said to me, have patience. She isn’t used to seeing her sons helping around the house.

I put up with her complaints for six weeks more before I told her in front of her son one day, I think she needs to go back home now. I don’t need all this stress, nor headache. As soon as I said to her let's send you back home, she stopped complaining. You have to stand up for yourself in order to get respect.

Coming back to the show , both kinjal and Anupama know how wrong baa is but still adamant on giving her the respect instead of takingstrict action again them.

If you can’t stand up for yourself and demand respect who will? Neither bahu know how or want to.

Anuj does it, he gets disrespected so he stopped trying now. Rakhi still does it but look where it is getting her.

Originally posted by: Snowstorm22

If you can’t stand up for yourself and demand respect who will? Neither bahu know how or want to.

Anuj does it, he gets disrespected so he stopped trying now. Rakhi still does it but look where it is getting her.

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Absolutely right. But i have less self control. As I said earlier , I am very rude to people I don't like. I often cross my line with them 🤣. It often goes to a baddtameez side which I need to control...

Originally posted by: Musketeer_95

❤️🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

Absolutely right. But i have less self control. As I said earlier , I am very rude to people I don't like. I often cross my line with them 🤣. It often goes to a baddtameez side which I need to control...