Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD
I know none of us will ever be in MAA's place as none of us are blessed with so many Matkas, but if by some divine intervention you land in her place, what would you do?
Though it is very hard to believe that MAA came to KM leaving Toshu at SH, and was having a peaceful time with her family before BAA Dua Ki Rani fell at her feet, according to the BTS it will indeed happen. MAA after getting a call from her God will again her husband and kid to stay at her temple. What would you have done? Would you have left the only opportunity to win your adopted daughter's heart to take care of your paralyzed son or would you have stayed with your daughter ignoring Baa's demands to ensure you get the custody of your daughter? Twitter is divided on this issue and is currently a war zone.
First, oh…really, it has come to a war zone on Twitter?.😂🤣…damn🤣. I need someone here to send me a link so I can catch up on this madness too?!😂😂 I hate being left behind.😂
2nd, I am shocked to hear Baa even allowed her to leave in the first place,😳 shocked, I am telling you😳.😂😂. How did she leave her paralyzed, just out of the hospital son behind to come home to her family?😳 I am surprised she remembered the way.😂
I am surprised with all that kissing, falling onto Baa, to on the ground crying, that she even remembered she has one, just across town.🤦🏻♀️🤣.
So for those of you who have info, what is the reason behind, Baa running to maa, getting on her feet crying, and begging her to take care of her responsibility? Did Kayva leave? Did Rakhi, come and take her child away? Did a box of pari’s diapers fall on her mother’s head and she finally came to her senses and walk out that door?! Inquiring mind wants to know.🤔
As for what I would do. I would for one never step into my ex-in-laws house after suffering all that abuse and humiliation over the years, again. This is their problem, not mine. I also wouldn’t have raised pathetic excuses for kids like Toshu and Pakhi either that I have to run after them every day to babysit or knock sense into. That is just too exhausting.
I also wouldn’t lose my marriage, my new family, and my career over them. They are grown kids and not my head ache anymore. They should know better. Thankfully mine do.
I would however pay to hire a good nurse 24/7 to help take care of my grown child. I will call to check up on my kid but I will not set back into that horrible place where I was abused daily by my husband and his maa. The trauma itself would keep me away.
I for sure would never allow this woman in my house near my family either. I would have a restraining order in place to keep her, and her son away from me and my family.
Also, I would be knocking some sense into my stupid current husband about keeping someone’s child away from them.
I would however ask, the mother kindly if she would allow my husband not me to have joint custody as not to confuse the child of who to pick as her mother. Have an arraignment like any other divorced parents do.
I would feel the bio-mother has more right to be called mom than me. I would be ok with just being called by my name.
I would take my husband and me on long over do vacation to sort things out and spend quality time. Since he wants a child badly, I would have us check out surrogacy center while we are on vacation and see if we possibly can go down this route.
Oh…while at it, I would tell my brother in-law and his wife to please find a place and move out too since they both love to tell me who I can’t have in my own home.
Thankfully, I will never have to go through this in reality.
Edited by Snowstorm22 - 2 years ago
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