Originally posted by: firsttimehere
The way Raavi is done with pandyas now is a classic example of what damage being ridiculed, taken for granted does, on a long run in any family .
This was the girl who used to worship dhara, loved the family like crazy .
See what has happened now .
Never valued in the family
Not included in important things
Even her life decisions were imposed
Was not cared for when she needed all the most .
Ridiculed by each and every one
That's how a dhara or a suman breaks a Raavi and then cry that the Raavi broke the family .
Thoda Pyar and izzat dete toh raavi apni jaan bhi de sakti thi..
And here raavi's husband almost gave him life for the family but still that was not valued and in return even a basic like getting medical help was ignored.
I am not absolving of how Shiva was inconsiderate of the facts that his health could be in danger and what will happen of his and raavi's life if it comes to that . He was equally being an idiot. I understand he did what he felt is right for the little girl chutki but refusing medical help on time and focussing on dramas for getting back store is one thing that all of the family excluding raavi failed big time at .
And I really want to see how they take Shiva ka character once he regains is mental capabilities in whatever the atrangi way the creatives plan to .
If he starts dissing raavi again imho he doesn't deserve raavi and mithoo both .