1) High sense of importance - As per anupama she acts like she knows more than US educated and returned 22 years exp anuj the business tycoon whose an MBA or even akush whose also had 25 plus years exp or Barkha whose married before here and also had to mother a small child adhik as a young girl
2) Never the persons fault - when it comes to kapadiyas anupama has all sort of excuses to prove why she did not and cannot
3) Take advantage of ppl: Like anupama has done of anuj and allowed vanraj to take advantage of malvika or
4) You Know How To Turn on the Charm: definitely all think anupama is innocent soft lady which shes not really. If she wants she can go against baa, bapuji, vanraj anyone as per her convince
5) Lack emapthy: Little anu crying so much but anupama only bothered about what anuj thinks what world thinks of her maa status
6) Sense of entitlement: Anu wants anuj to acknowledge shes great always or she starts maa bashan aurat bashan matka bashan
7) Always right: Can anupama ever be wrong? Never
8) Know better than others: Of course anupama knows better han doctors scientist business tycoons lecturers of finance etc
9) Gaslighting:
10) Partners as trophy: A naricissit treats an hubby or wife as a trophy(like anupama is) and wants spouse to show reverence and never say no to what they say (like anupama is shocked that anuj got angry with her? how dare he?)
11) Making others feel guilty even if they are right: Like anupama did in school stage making all feel guilty she has so many matkas, or anuj feel guilty by crying or teary eyed etc all drama to make him bend to her
12) Cannot set boundary: Like anuj has no right to set boundary to anupama how dare he?
13) Not many friends n long term: Anupama hsa no real friends only devika from school college days
14): Inability to take criticism - like international law incident of anuj anupama
15) Low self esteem: If others are praised insecure, if others given attention angry, they feel very insecure especially in a marriage etc and hence want to control everything
16) Need for approval : Of shahs and now anuj
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