Domestic abuse on men

I know this serial has made mockery of domestic abuse on women, marital rape, Extra marital affairs and even gang rape

But domestic abuse and violence on men is a fact may be in less nos but it exists

And sadly since its a patriarchal society majority men will not even accept the abuse or violence in public in fear of disgrace

Adhik pakhi case was one which if handled well can highlight suffering of men in abusive marraiges

And it will send a message to the world too through adhik that domestic abuse of male or female is wrong

Making only one spouse do house work like pakhi expect of adhik is wrong but this happens in cities some woman make hubby do house work too and keep sitting at home

Also wife stopping hubby from interacting with his family his parents and sibling and wanting to keep relation only with her family is wrong (like anupama doing indirectly to anuj or vanraj did on anupama)

Or wife not allowing grandkids to interact with hubby parents or hubby not allowing kids to interact with wife parent or mayka like vanraj did is wrong

Also wife wasting hard earned money of hubby like pakhi do is wrong - waste your hard earned money not hubbys

Also wife not allowing cousins to intercat like huby sblings kids to interact with her kids also is abuse only (or vice versa)

Vanraj has done all f this but is praised sky high in serial by anupam awhy i cannot fathom

Pakhi is doing same with adhik whta vanraj did with anupama or anupama doing to anuj

This could be shown thru adhik but writer and director have no sensitivity to writ or direct properly so it will also be made a mockery now

When toshu ema is anger management than adhik abuse with become pakhi bachpana

Because anupama kids can do no wrong in life or world will know shes a bad mom

So others kids(adhik, kinjal, nandini, dimple) have to bear anupama's kids abuse in name of family and worship anupamaa and her kids all life for doing error of marrying in shah home

I have seen many cases where girl has filed false case of domestic abuse against in laws and husband and it has totally destroyed their life. Because laws against domestic abuse of women are so strong and there are many privileges given to women in them that it can be easily concluded that once a woman decide to file such case then conviction is almost guaranteed.

And its absolutely necessary for protection of women but girls like pakhi take advantage of such laws and ruin the life of innocent man and in laws.

This is such an important topic and also sensitive one that men are always not wrong. Sometimes women should be called out for their treachery and punished according to the law.

But will this be happen? NO. AnupaMaa will give long bhashan and then everyone including Adhik will forgive Pakhi and everyone will dance on upcoming festival.

And the thing that is more annoying is everyone always forgive and forget mistakes of shahs and anupama's children. There is no such courtesy extended to any other character.

Anupamaa says paisa to hath ka mel hai. Its least important in comparison to other things in life. Yet she hasnt forgiven extra kapadias. They only tried to usurp the empire which anyways going in losses. And they were bankrupt. They had strong reason for doing so and they have asked for forgiveness multiple times for it but yet deviji and pallu pati wants them to throw out of house. But atrocities of elder shahs and deviji's children including mental physical emotional financial abuses are easily forgiven. Why auch double standards?

If Anupama doesn't handle this the right way, Anuj isn't going to tolerate it this time, I think. First of all because Adhik is the victim here and also because despite all the conspiracies, he's still family. Anuj has every right to fight for them the way Anupama does for hers. Let's see if her sense of justice lets her truly become mother India, except it's her daughter not son who is wrong here.

Also loved what Kinjal said about Toshu condoning such things and that she wouldn't allow Pari to be spoiled like Pakhi. Not sure if Toshu will default to his usual MCP behavior but for now the mention of Pari made him stop and think. I liked this angle that someone has to break the cycle of abuse or bad upbringing, otherwise the same bad things repeat generation after generation in a family. Toshu is so much like his father that he is like to spoil Pari and turn her into a brat if Kinjal isn't firm.

Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

I have seen many cases where girl has filed false case of domestic abuse against in laws and husband and it has totally destroyed their life. Because laws against domestic abuse of women are so strong and there are many privileges given to women in them that it can be easily concluded that once a woman decide to file such case then conviction is almost guaranteed.

And its absolutely necessary for protection of women but girls like pakhi take advantage of such laws and ruin the life of innocent man and in laws.

This is such an important topic and also sensitive one that men are always not wrong. Sometimes women should be called out for their treachery and punished according to the law.

But will this be happen? NO. AnupaMaa will give long bhashan and then everyone including Adhik will forgive Pakhi and everyone will dance on upcoming festival.

And the thing that is more annoying is everyone always forgive and forget mistakes of shahs and anupama's children. There is no such courtesy extended to any other character.

Anupamaa says paisa to hath ka mel hai. Its least important in comparison to other things in life. Yet she hasnt forgiven extra kapadias. They only tried to usurp the empire which anyways going in losses. And they were bankrupt. They had strong reason for doing so and they have asked for forgiveness multiple times for it but yet deviji and pallu pati wants them to throw out of house. But atrocities of elder shahs and deviji's children including mental physical emotional financial abuses are easily forgiven. Why auch double standards?

That is problem you see of show

anything big crime shahs do is always forgiven

anupama never feels vanraj her 3 kids her in laws are bad or wrong

only wrong is malvika, kapadiyas, adhik etc

how they were suspecting adhik of tying to trap pakhi before wedding

it was actually reverse

same with kinjal or samar how nandini was accused of trying to split shahs or kinjal mom accused of interfering in kinjal toshu life

by same definition anupama or vanraj has no right to interfere i pakhi adhik life simple