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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Sab07

Agree with everything you said. I have gone through I fertility my self. And I know few others who also had their shares of trouble n were shocked at how show handled it.


Yes there are men like Virat but they are not hailed as sensitive father n loving husband. There is so much a woman goes through physically emotionally after miscarriage n infertility diagnosis.


As you rightfully said, so much plays in your mind. There is self doubt, question on self worth because society n family’s constant pressure for babies.

And loosing husband’s support in that time is worst thing to happen. Plus here Sai has no family of hers. I am till date pissed on how they ignored a woman’s trauma and showed it as if she is just baby making machine- this way or that.

How can a baby mean more to family than a loving mother like Sai, how they all still casually blame her of loosing Vinu n no one, including Virat thinks it can hurt her as well. So triggering

I think this show will go down as one of the worst on SP.

They claim they are showing reality etc

This is the reality of SP so-called new thinking.

When they brought the show Maryada about 12 years ago, that was reality but after that they kept

losing the plot show after show.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Olive_Rose

I think this show will go down as one of the worst on SP.

They claim they are showing reality etc

This is the reality of SP so-called new thinking.

When they brought the show Maryada about 12 years ago, that was reality but after that they kept

losing the plot show after show.

this is no wat real..The story is kind of KJK1..That show dealt with human emotionsa...All four key characters had too fight with their own demons and had their own fair share of obstacles...

Only Komo was totally black...

both lovers dies in each arms in the end..Ekta made sure showing they love each other and justifies why prerna gives up her life to save anurag

overhere even if virat takes the bullet for sai no one would be convinced or i dont think he would take the bullet for her rather throw her at the front to save himself or pakho

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: focus7

I am sorry to hear you guys go through this. I was in an abusive relationship, and my in laws don’t even want to talk about it. I got divorced, it all happened very early and very soon in my life. I am glad I didn’t get pregnant otherwise leavibg would have been harder and the constant connection with the fam will be hard. I was able to get through all of it, cos of my parents and no one else.

Everyone has some past which gets triggered by such idiotic handling of the plot. ofc it’s ITV, I don’t expect anything revolutionary, but ghum lacks the very basics of what is morally right and wrong.



I come for Sai, and do MIA for sometime and keep oscialltiing . Just want ghanja addiction to leave cos it doesn’t look like it’s getting better.

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As women we are quite strong and because we know how to hide things well people around us tend to think all is well.

Sai is being portrayed as such, tough on the outside but she has been so broken. Her situation does not allow her to breakdown , she has no other choice than being strong.


Having support is always great, sometimes you don't need anyone to do or say anything.

Just knowing that you have someone in your corner is all that matters.

Here Sai has no one not even Usha mausi as she keeps blaming Sai for her decisions.

Imagine Kamal Joshi claimed this woman as his sister and Sai considers her a mother.

Usha have not said one word to V to this day and she was part of the Gadchiroli people who orchestrated the marriage. She calls V damadji yet never exercises her right as an in-law.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Shaome

this is no wat real..The story is kind of KJK1..That show dealt with human emotionsa...All four key characters had too fight with their own demons and had their own fair share of obstacles...

Only Komo was totally black...

both lovers dies in each arms in the end..Ekta made sure showing they love each other and justifies why prerna gives up her life to save anurag

overhere even if virat takes the bullet for sai no one would be convinced or i dont think he would take the bullet for her rather throw her at the front to save himself or pakho

True, V has become like the boy who cried wolf🤣

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: focus7

I am sorry to hear you guys go through this. I was in an abusive relationship, and my in laws don’t even want to talk about it. I got divorced, it all happened very early and very soon in my life. I am glad I didn’t get pregnant otherwise leavibg would have been harder and the constant connection with the fam will be hard. I was able to get through all of it, cos of my parents and no one else.

Everyone has some past which gets triggered by such idiotic handling of the plot. ofc it’s ITV, I don’t expect anything revolutionary, but ghum lacks the very basics of what is morally right and wrong.



I come for Sai, and do MIA for sometime and keep oscialltiing . Just want ghanja addiction to leave cos it doesn’t look like it’s getting better.

Oh Dear! I am so sorry to hear that. I am glad you are out of the mess and found peace. Family support matters the most in such times.

Thats what Sai lacks.

But thats the thing I always say. What they have shown Sai go through are situations that many woman in society go through, n no one needs message but this show is literally showing that behavior is ok.
That is definitely wrong.


Actually if they choose to focus on her Sai’s character n story has so much potential! Many woman can relate to her-not just her struggles but her attitude (old Sai) is also very much aligned with modern day women. I wish they focused on her more than using her to whitewash and show Virakhi.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Olive_Rose

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As women we are quite strong and because we know how to hide things well people around us tend to think all is well.

Sai is being portrayed as such, tough on the outside but she has been so broken. Her situation does not allow her to breakdown , she has no other choice than being strong.


Having support is always great, sometimes you don't need anyone to do or say anything.

Just knowing that you have someone in your corner is all that matters.

Here Sai has no one not even Usha mausi as she keeps blaming Sai for her decisions.

Imagine Kamal Joshi claimed this woman as his sister and Sai considers her a mother.

Usha have not said one word to V to this day and she was part of the Gadchiroli people who orchestrated the marriage. She calls V damadji yet never exercises her right as an in-law.



I heard there are women writers in the show. Laugh worthy. I don’t expect much from ITV soap but never did I see shit like this.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Sab07

Oh Dear! I am so sorry to hear that. I am glad you are out of the mess and found peace. Family support matters the most in such times.

Thats what Sai lacks.

But thats the thing I always say. What they have shown Sai go through are situations that many woman in society go through, n no one needs message but this show is literally showing that behavior is ok.
That is definitely wrong.


Actually if they choose to focus on her Sai’s character n story has so much potential! Many woman can relate to her-not just her struggles but her attitude (old Sai) is also very much aligned with modern day women. I wish they focused on her more than using her to whitewash and show Virakhi.

We need to see show from Sai’s eyes. That we are doing, as in she has accepted her fate and not expecting anything else. She is confident about what her reality is. I think one thing that’s holding her together is savi.


This show is worse than the worst parody

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: focus7

We need to see show from Sai’s eyes. That we are doing, as in she has accepted her fate and not expecting anything else. She is confident about what her reality is. I think one thing that’s holding her together is savi.


This show is worse than the worst parody

agree

I really wanted savi to be her adopted child rather her own..because this way no strings would be tied to that jerk...And no injustice would be done to the kid...right now vanker showed a evil has won against an innocent child,,Same repeat telecast of surrogacy..He has a daughter hope he knows what he is showing..Surrogacy was traumatic and this one is another level..

So his agenda is wrong doers get justice instead the innocent ones..I dont mind v and p but i dont want them to lead a happy life or virat should not enjoy fatherhood and a peaceful family life..Most importantly some progress in sai's life and she should remarry at least for the sake of her daughter...

Savi kisika khilona nehi hai...She is not a doll to virat whom he can play and then throw

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: focus7



I heard there are women writers in the show. Laugh worthy. I don’t expect much from ITV soap but never did I see shit like this.

Yes the show was developed by a woman who also sits as the chairperson of West Bengal Commission for Women🤔

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Olive_Rose

Yes the show was developed by a woman who also sits as the chairperson of West Bengal Commission for Women🤔

leena has done better justice to her writings,,Her writing reflacted human emotions and basically was to show how two people faild in resolving marital discord..

There are many women like sai out who get no justice because they dont have anyone to support..over here sai is extremely independent and spunk hard to believe she still pins for virat..

i know someone like her who remarried for the sake of her daughter and now happily living withh her new husband..Even in real god finally has showered his mercy to this lady

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