Originally posted by: Supari_khala
Does that make sense though? The bold is true of America, too. But I literally speak fluent Nepali at home with parents and relatives and switch to English no problem if I have to speak to an English speaker? Other people of my generation who live abroad do the same. They understand English just fine but it’s about respect when you’re at home and not surrounded by non-Nepali speakers. Maybe it’s just different for us ABCD kids
I'm one of those who grew up multilingual, with 3 languages.
After a while, your reading is mostly English. I read plenty of Malayalam, but while there's great literature, most of it just didn't fit the rapidly modernizing world around me.
TV shows were/are nausea-inducing. So my watching habits also turned American while I was still a child in India. Can you imagine you turn on the screen, and there's nothing besides Ekta-type shows? I was watching reruns of American shows because there was nothing else I related to.
Besides, a lot of my friends in school were not Malayalis. They did learn the language since they were living in the state, but we found it easier to converse in English.
By the time I was in my teens, I was thinking in English.
Then, I moved to the U.S. and found American Malayalis speaking exclusively in Malayalam at home😆
I still speak Malayalam fluently and Hindi is something I can understand. But my default setting is English.
I've come to regard English as much an Indian language now, TBH. I mean, a few million Americans created their version of English. So if 10% of India speaks English, that's still 140 million people. That's our version of English. 😆
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