Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD
Anupama always chanting about Maryada between her and Anuj is so cringe... We know they are still in Maryada and will be till their last breath but that does not mean every other couple has to remain celibate.
Maryada means not only sex but, no meeting alone a boy like this. First time she went on a coffee date where her mother caught her, then during Navratri, Adhik and Pakhi go into a corner to kiss...festivals are meant to celebrate with the family not to do romance. She is an 18 year old college going girl, who needs to focus on her studies rather than sometimes skipping classes to go to cafes to meet this boy and today she took the biggest risk of going into a hotel room with a boy alone...If they had crossed her limits today, and tomorrow Adhik refuses to marry Pakhi, what will she do? What if he had hidden a camera in the room and recorded them of crossing their Maryada? What Anupama is saying that if you have the guts to love someone, there's nothing wrong in loving someone but lying to your family and meeting a boy like this is not ok....and if the family is stopping her, there is a reason.
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