Arylie Discussion Thread 65 🧿 - Page 78

Originally posted by: screen22

Did she lose the first baby or just a cover up by the DR that she lost the baby and she can never become a mother.

When the older woman said she is pregnant, is it not the same baby that she never lost?

Originally posted by: KambakthIshq

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https://twitter.com/brishtart/status/1560118270048358400?s=20&t=ItyD_GE4mSbKeuNnSRShjw

Aru, Arpi and Narmada beautiful family, they look so real 😘 hope their bond always protected 🧿🧿🧿

Wish CVS never made narmada as flipper 😡

Originally posted by: gaya84

Aru, Arpi and Narmada beautiful family, they look so real 😘 hope their bond always protected 🧿🧿🧿

Wish CVS never made narmada as flipper 😡

She did own her mistakes today and stood for her. But then, I am still not able to trust her

Kahin phir se backseat na le le

Originally posted by: Sunshine_nino

She did own her mistakes today and stood for her. But then, I am still not able to trust her

Kahin phir se backseat na le le

I know dear 👍 that's why I said Wish CVS never made a flipper because we couldn't able to trust her 🤔

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Originally posted by: Aarthi_01

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Originally posted by: super_boy

Aru's behaviour n his record of wat he lost is really frustrating as he is shown in d show ...... wanna bang his head 😡😡😡😡 ..... he needs 2 remember his words .... sayng she left him but YYYYYYYY , then may be he wud understand ...... idiot not 2 see u in pain as u had said 😡😡😡😡 ...... iska RECORD band karo koi ...... expert in khud ke pair par kulhadi marne mein 😡😡😡

Arpi needs to talk sense into his brains of its NOT ONLY HIS LOSS BUT HERS ALSO, n its more for her also ..... he even thought baby is Madhav's ( thanks 2 jo 😡😡😡😡)..... she fought him to make him see d baby is his .... he was attached for few days but she was since d start ......

He needs to know n shown how ppl point out at d girl being married but stayng at her parents house n not qs d boy , hw she is humiliated / taunted/ blamed/ point at her character / call her names, etc. ...... his so cald pain wud be nothing in frnt of wat she had 2 go through

They wasted so much time .... they cud hv had more Cheeku's n still can ....... he needs to remember his words , women r not baby making machines

Agree that Aru needs to realise that Imlie has also suffered a loss and has been hurting because of it.

But I do not think that Aru sees women as baby making machines. NEVER. No way. The first time when they thought they suffered a miscarriage, Aru constantly stood by Imlie. When Narmada and Badi Ma took her to that jhaad-fook vale baba ji, Aru came there and stopped them from hurting Imlie. He even went ahead and told them that if blood is what they need, he is ready to shed his own blood. When people were name calling her about never being able to be a mother, he was the one who stood against all of them and declared that Imlie was PERFECT the way she is. If he saw women as baby making machines, he would never have supported her when the doctor told them that Imlie could never get pregnant. When Imlie blamed herself and said that she was a thief who stole the joy of having children from him, he reassured her that she hadn't done any such thing. When they came home from the hospital, he hid his tears and tried to cheer her up. He became her strength and wiped her tears. He was also the one who suggested adoption as an option if they could never have children. When Narmada brought half a dozen women before him who could give him a child, he told them that he was already married and politely told them to leave. He didn't care if Imlie actually was infertile, he loved her nonetheless.

The reason he is NOW so upset with Imlie is because of the way they lost their Cheeku. The first time around (when the doctor lied about the miscarriage), Imlie had no part in what happened. And so he didn't blame her. But this time around, he feels Imlie should've been more careful. To him, she promised to take care of their baby and she didn't. He told her not to run, that he will save Gudiya but she still did and as a result their baby died. I do see why Imlie ran on the stairs that day, because she wanted to protect Gudiya and it is a natural instict to save a child. So I'm not blaming her entirely, please don't misunderstand me. I'm just giving Aru's point of view. From his side, Cheeku died because of her carelessness. From her side, Cheeku died because of Aru. Both of them are right and wrong in their own ways. And both of them are dealing with it the best they know how.💔

Originally posted by: BreezyMeadows

Agree that Aru needs to realise that Imlie has also suffered a loss and has been hurting because of it.

But I do not think that Aru sees women as baby making machines. NEVER. No way. The first time when they thought they suffered a miscarriage, Aru constantly stood by Imlie. When Narmada and Badi Ma took her to that jhaad-fook vale baba ji, Aru came there and stopped them from hurting Imlie. He even went ahead and told them that if blood is what they need, he is ready to shed his own blood. When people were name calling her about never being able to be a mother, he was the one who stood against all of them and declared that Imlie was PERFECT the way she is. If he saw women as baby making machines, he would never have supported her when the doctor told them that Imlie could never get pregnant. He was also the one who suggested adoption as an option if they could never have children. He didn't care if Imlie actually was infertile. The reason he is now so upset with Imlie is because of the way they lost their Cheeku. The first time around (when the doctor lied about the miscarriage), Imlie had no part in what happened. And so he didn't blame her. But this time around, he feels Imlie should've been more careful. To him, she promised to take care of their baby and she didn't. He told her not to run, that he will save Gudiya but she still did and as a result their baby died. I do see why Imlie ran on the stairs that day, because she wanted to protect Gudiya and it is a natural instict to save a child. So I'm not blaming her entirely, please don't misunderstand me. I'm just giving Aru's point of view. From his side, Cheeku died because of her carelessness. From her side, Cheeku died because of Aru. Both of them are right and wrong in their own ways. And both of them are dealing with it the best they know how.💔

Originally posted by: BreezyMeadows

Agree that Aru needs to realise that Imlie has also suffered a loss and has been hurting because of it.

But I do not think that Aru sees women as baby making machines. NEVER. No way. The first time when they thought they suffered a miscarriage, Aru constantly stood by Imlie. When Narmada and Badi Ma took her to that jhaad-fook vale baba ji, Aru came there and stopped them from hurting Imlie. He even went ahead and told them that if blood is what they need, he is ready to shed his own blood. When people were name calling her about never being able to be a mother, he was the one who stood against all of them and declared that Imlie was PERFECT the way she is. If he saw women as baby making machines, he would never have supported her when the doctor told them that Imlie could never get pregnant. When Imlie blamed herself and said that she was a thief who stole the joy of having children from him, he reassured her that she hadn't done any such thing. When they came home from the hospital, he hid his tears and tried to cheer her up. He became her strength and wiped her tears. He was also the one who suggested adoption as an option if they could never have children. When Narmada brought half a dozen women before him who could give him a child, he told them that he was already married and politely told them to leave. He didn't care if Imlie actually was infertile, he loved her nonetheless.

The reason he is NOW so upset with Imlie is because of the way they lost their Cheeku. The first time around (when the doctor lied about the miscarriage), Imlie had no part in what happened. And so he didn't blame her. But this time around, he feels Imlie should've been more careful. To him, she promised to take care of their baby and she didn't. He told her not to run, that he will save Gudiya but she still did and as a result their baby died. I do see why Imlie ran on the stairs that day, because she wanted to protect Gudiya and it is a natural instict to save a child. So I'm not blaming her entirely, please don't misunderstand me. I'm just giving Aru's point of view. From his side, Cheeku died because of her carelessness. From her side, Cheeku died because of Aru. Both of them are right and wrong in their own ways. And both of them are dealing with it the best they know how.💔

I would also like to add that we know how Aru deals with loss. Last time when his jiju died, he shut himself up completely and made it his mission to exact revenge on AKT. This time, he blames Imlie for the loss. So he has just distanced himself from her because she is the reason for his pain. But in doing so, he has also distanced himself from the cure to his pain. Here lies the paradox: Imlie uske dard ki wajah bhi hai aur uske dard ki dava bhi hai. He is neither able to hold on to her nor able to let her go. But both of them desperately need each other. Once they start the process of forgiving each other, then they can start healing together and only then will they have peace. When they are one again.