Originally posted by: super_boy
Aru's behaviour n his record of wat he lost is really frustrating as he is shown in d show ...... wanna bang his head 😡😡😡😡 ..... he needs 2 remember his words .... sayng she left him but YYYYYYYY , then may be he wud understand ...... idiot not 2 see u in pain as u had said 😡😡😡😡 ...... iska RECORD band karo koi ...... expert in khud ke pair par kulhadi marne mein 😡😡😡
Arpi needs to talk sense into his brains of its NOT ONLY HIS LOSS BUT HERS ALSO, n its more for her also ..... he even thought baby is Madhav's ( thanks 2 jo 😡😡😡😡)..... she fought him to make him see d baby is his .... he was attached for few days but she was since d start ......
He needs to know n shown how ppl point out at d girl being married but stayng at her parents house n not qs d boy , hw she is humiliated / taunted/ blamed/ point at her character / call her names, etc. ...... his so cald pain wud be nothing in frnt of wat she had 2 go through
They wasted so much time .... they cud hv had more Cheeku's n still can ....... he needs to remember his words , women r not baby making machines
Its not about the loss of the baby , but clearly about how the loss happened.. what led to it eventually..
Why do we conveniently forget that this wasn’t the first time , supposedly, both of them lost a baby .. It happened to them earlier too ..it was devastating then too .. for both of them .. did he blame her then .. was he angry at her .. No .. bcz that was clearly an unfortunate accident .. she wasnt accountable at all then … Infact , Aryan was Imlie’s unwavering support then , stood by her like a rock , against his own family ..
Have we thought about what was different this time around .. why was this loss so devastatingly heart shattering for him as opposed to the first one .. because he saw it coming .. because he was scared this might happen .. he warned her , requested her , pleaded with her constantly to not get involved impulsively, to slow down , to take care of herself….
It is grossly unfair to , by default , make a father’s pain take a back seat bcz they do not physically grow a baby.. its still a part of them .. it s a part of both the parents .. as it the pain of losing it ..
the pain of the loss is equal .. the way to cope with the loss could be different .. as is clearly evident with them .. Aryan went on a path of visible emotional and physical destruction.. Imlie took a path of quiet withdrawal..
Aryan kept the pain fresh and thinks about it constantly.. just like his jeeju’s death .. hence he is very vocal about it .. Imlie on the other hand is better equipped with dealing with pain .. she has buried it deep within her bcz thinking about it makes the pain overwhelming.. she doesn’t talk about it ..
the point being they are dealing with it in their own different ways , none of which is wrong or right ..
Edited by novice1 - 3 years ago