Rakhi is the best mother in Anupama - Page 2

Agree with the other member. All vamps are also good moms to their daughters. They turned out better than her highness Paakhiji.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I don't think rakhi is best mother she is over protective for her daughter . She always to keep daughter In cocoon only and don't teach agar musibat aaye to jska samna kaise karna hai

Let's compare their kids

Vanraj: Egoistic, MCP, player, full of himself, dog, fox, never accepted his mistakes, blames others, etc etc

His sister is much better

Pakhi: highly egoistic, status centric, never respected her elders, same goes for toshu

Samar: didn't respect his father (which he deserves btw) respects everyone especially women

Kinjal: educated, wants to bind the family together, respects everyone, handles everything, matured understanding, etc etc

Rakhi is only protective for her daughter ki meri beti ko yeh problem nahi honi chahiye meri beti ko yeh suvidha honi chahiye

But rakhi certainly not give sanskar to kinjal

Rakhi is against baghwan ki pooja and an no festival and no pooja is done at Rakhi house. She never allow kinjal to do pooja.

But phir bhi kinjal is interested in bhagwan ki pooja and festivals

Kinjal ne kahin se bhi sansaksr liya ho but Rakhi ne to sanskar hi nahi diya

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Rakhi is only protective for her daughter ki meri beti ko yeh problem nahi honi chahiye meri beti ko yeh suvidha honi chahiye

But rakhi certainly not give sanskar to kinjal

Rakhi is against baghwan ki pooja and an no festival and no pooja is done at Rakhi house. She never allow kinjal to do pooja.

But phir bhi kinjal is interested in bhagwan ki pooja and festivals

Kinjal ne kahin se bhi sansaksr liya ho but Rakhi ne to sanskar hi nahi diya

I think its not what you think actually rakhi is religious but she never do grand show off like Shahs in festivals or functions about her bakthi. Kinjal said in our house like this puja not done it does not mean no one prays to God in house they do not show off calling neighbours friends on festivals etc thats what she meant like Shahs wearing grand dresses and food dances etc Kinjal herself said thanks to Rakhi for taking care of her so nicely and bringing up so nicely. Bringing upyour child to be good human itself is biggest puja to God. Which rakhi has succeeded in doing and anupam afailed badly with all 3 kids. God also loves those kids who never harm, jealus, snobbish, narcissit, cunning manipulative kids like anupamas. But he will bless kinjal thats thanks to Rakhi and her hubby upbringing.

Many people do not do show off of their belief in God in front of world and even God likes such people. Lord Krishna said your work is prayer and you should not show off your faith in public like show off but through your work like doing your work properly without expecting rewards, respecting parents and being kind to poor or people lesser than you etc

Rakhi may be doing prayer but in secrecy in front of God not doing grand puja and functions on festivals and calling many and doing drama like Shahs. Many people do simple puja in their rooms but donate to orphanages or old age homes on birthdays and festival thats better than adambar puja that Shahs do . Many people work 12 hours day but get up and pray to God in their room only morning and night. They do not do show off like Shahs thats also prayer. Prayaer is between a person and God you need not show off in front of others even family members actually. The private person talk between God and human is what is pure puja like saints do. Do they gather thousands no they sit in forest alone and do that is true puja to God. Not all this grand festivals and puja with grand dresses and jewels God never impress with all that.

Even God likes such puja only where you do not call 100s and wear grand dresses and show off like Shahs

Anuj himself never has done big grand pujas like Shahs but he believes and prays to God in private not show off like Shahs in public calling 100s to impress them

Have we seen narayan murthy going to temple or US president or Bill gates going to church in festivals wearing grand dresses etc not really they keep it personal between God and them

Whats use Shahs do prayer daily or grand functions on festival and very kapati and cruel to others like anupama, kavya, nandini, malvika

They say woman is Devi is this how Shahs treat devi goddess women of others family and their own wifes or kids

How they are misbehaving even with 6 year old little anu first day even God will not bless them?

They are misbehaving with woman and trying to steal anuj kapadia and mukku property or live in Rakhis property will God be happy no matter how much puja they do?

Instead anuj donates to orphanage and does puja in private same as bill gates donates billions or azim premji donates billions but never do grand pujas for God. Thats better help lesser people than doing grand dressing and pujas.

Rakhi has given lot of sanskar to kinjal shes not misbehaving with in laws and want to keep family together. Nowadyas bahu want to live away from in laws but kinjal wants to keep toshu family together. She loves samar and pakhi helps them which bhabhi nowadays loves devar and devrani like sibling none. She neer shows off shes multi millionaire very humble girl. She cooks for family does house work while in her mom house she lived luxury life. All this Rakhi and her hubby only teach her from childhood. Shes sanskari girl who cares for all treats all with love and respect. Getting such a daghter in law in 21st century is 1 in 1 crore. Shes very good grl. Onlything i do not like her treating her mom dad badly and blaming them for being alone in childhood. Her parents worked a lot to give her luxury life for 21 years shes lucky girl lucky daughter to get such good parents. Otherwise ppl do not care much for daughters in india 90% of time over sons.

Mukku never prays to God ever shes good girl, Rakhi does show off bakthi but is good mother. Anuj himself not so much prayers etc till he met anupama. Hes good human better than all Shahs. Rakhi given money to Shahs in tough time when vanraj have no job for house if shes so bad she refuse. anuj gives lakhs to shahs and anupam abut they never respect or love him. Hes always second class for anupama and shahs

What is use if all Shahs pray no one likes them as they have no sanskaar and are after others wealth and women

Rakhi herself told she only intersesed in independence day and she is not interested in any festival pooja

Kinjal herself told ki uske घर में aaj tuk janamati vrat pooja nahi rakhi gayi

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Rakhi is only protective for her daughter ki meri beti ko yeh problem nahi honi chahiye meri beti ko yeh suvidha honi chahiye

But rakhi certainly not give sanskar to kinjal

Rakhi is against baghwan ki pooja and an no festival and no pooja is done at Rakhi house. She never allow kinjal to do pooja.

But phir bhi kinjal is interested in bhagwan ki pooja and festivals

Kinjal ne kahin se bhi sansaksr liya ho but Rakhi ne to sanskar hi nahi diya

So in India, the level of sanskar is measured by how many poojas are held in the house?

Yes doing pooja is considered as sanskar . Pooja means the person giving thanks to God because he give life to us

We able to see sun every day because of God grace only . In Hindu script it is said we have debt for these

Dev debt rishi debt and pitra debt in sub ka debt chukana consider as sanskar

Bhagwan ki pooja, guru ki seva and offering water to pitra, is considered as sanskar

And where i told sanskar is determined by number of pooja

Where did mentions about number of pooja I only said rakhi is not interested in pooja be it regular pooja aur festival pooja

Originally posted by: surabhi01

And where i told sanskar is determined by number of pooja

Where did mentions about number of pooja I only said rakhi is not interested in pooja be it regular pooja aur festival pooja

I am not sure why you are so bothered about rakhi not doing puja. Who does puja in city nowadays? They do but not in grand ways like Shah family wearing lots of gold lakhs of saree calling guests to show off to world that they are sanskari which they are not.

i do not know why you are taking literal sense of what kinjal told she never said there is no puja in house she said like shahs do like that grand festivals are not celebrated or everyday puja not done with family etc. In city no one does puja in morning all get up diff times and run to school college so all are bad is it? Because of modern work people cannot do puja everyday that does not mean all those who do not do puja everyday or fasting etc are bad. They say work is worship god is omnipresent everywhere. Please think like this in mumbai, bangalore, new york, london no one gets up does puja with family everyday one gets up 5am goes off another at 7am another at 9am etc there is no time all work 12 hours a day. Are all those people bad? Nooo

If there was no puja in kinjal house how she know to do arthi take prasad etc when she came to anupama house or how she ran off to marry in temple with toshu? I mean you are disecting one small line of kinjal too deeply and writing it again and again in every post that rakhi did not teach sanskar to kinjal. See our parents also went to work 8am to 7pm does that mean they never taught us anything no. Most of us also brought up in creche and maids only not by mother like anupama but we know puja, holy book etc thats because when free even if one day in year mother father teaches values and about God what is good bad etc unlike anupama whose there everyday with kids but failed to teach anything to her kids. Parents, all teach you values and about god etc may be not always by words but by actions.

in bhagvad gita chapter 2 it says good deeds are good works determine your karma not rituals (like puja, fasting)

ultimately when you are in front of God he will not ask how much puja you did he judge based on how you behaved with fellow humans your family friends neighbours colleagues that matter not how much fasting you did how much puja etc

so by your definition person can kill and do puja and is great and get away like ravan used to do puja of god so hes good or what? Nooo

If you do not do too much puja or rituals or fasting its ok but what truly matters to God most is to be good human respect other humans treat all equally do not snatch others wealth and property or job do not misbehave with those lessser than us do not treat women and kids badly etc thats what matters when you finally stand before God after death

Every pravachan and holy person etc say same thing you must first treat all humans nicely not snatch their property or business or job like vanraj, toshu doing or ill treat woman play games with them like vanraj did to malvika, anupama, kavya etc only than your puja is of value

Forget human you must not hurt animals or birds too treat them nicely because they are also created by God only

Do Shahs do all this? No they misbeahve with anupama, anuj, kavya, nandini, malvika, little anu , mamaji you name it with all

In school home seed of sanskar always first implanted through pooja and reading sacred book like ramayan only unless child earm from Lord rama how that how Lord ram use to treat people then child cannot learn sanskar

Ages to ages sanskar abd good values are transfer through reading sacred book only.

So many vedas sacred book are written only so that people read them and implants good sanskar on next generation

If vedas nahi lkhe hote और sacred book nahi likhe hote then we would have never know what is right and wrong what is paap and punya

And God never consider that pooja as pooja which is for to do harm others. If anyone is true worship of God that person will not certainly harm others

If that person is doing harm to other that means that person has no respect for God.

In uttar kand ramayan there was devotee of Lord shiv but that devotee has no respect for his guru so inspute of being devotee Lord shiv curse his devotee to become crow as that devotee did not respect his guru

Amd log pooja karte even if they go to for office they will sure at least clight lamp in front of God