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Yes..even though therr are secrets there,,,husband could sit her down,,even kuki gang can explain it ke,,there is a reason why we just cant share this with you and when time is right we will explain you .. for now this will bring more drama to the family and hurt them …..she would have understood if someone explained it to her in her own ways……they cant just ask her to leave it - that creat more curiosity..,

Also, I feel like she does find out since in the precap Khadus refers to her as Avantika Tai...so Appu (and us) will probably find out tomorrow.

And I totally understand her emotions. She deserves to know and the family is wrong for hiding it from her when they consider her a part of their family but she needs to be understanding too. I sincerely hope she doesn't create a mess, because I will feel upset with her for it but I will also be upset that she is going to get yelled at by DK and probably Khadus too...maybe even Sua Aai depending on how bad situation gets.

Khadus better not yell at her, he is changing and showing some what growth…we cant be going in reverse any more..….i have a feeling even if he yells at her it will be out of his concern ke family me se koi usse gussa na ho or who family ki wajah se trouble me na aye or hurt ho….but i could be wrong…

Originally posted by: ishqi

Gonna be an unpopular opinion probably but this time I feel like I'm not going to like Appu's tactics for a bit.

I understand that she has a right to know about Avantika and I do support that she should know about it definitely. But her stubbornness is not right. Sometimes, families have secrets that can't be easily revealed esp when they open big wounds. It takes time to tell them and since we all always consider Appu as someone who understands feelings the best, I would expect her to understand that it is a sensitive topic and deal with it carefully instead of just being stubborn.

Especially when both BS told her calmly and even if she would ignore him like she does most of the time, even Kukki was hesitant to say something and that should have clued her in that it is a very sensitive topic and to deal with it patiently instead of her usual stubbornness. I just hope that she doesn't create a big chaos because of this!

Ok so Ishqi when she was becoming insistent with DK and Mai, I was annoyed with her because it’s their personal matter in their room that Apu just barged into. They both asked her to stop and leave but she wouldn’t. Mai had to put her hands together and practically beg her to leave. This was annoying and I didn’t like this part.

I do agree though that once she asked her husband about it, he should have sat her down and told her. Kukki could have too because her and Kukki have that relationship. So these 2 people should have just told her or at the moment said, we will tell you but for now let’s go back into the family room.
I do think she has a right to know. It may be a secret or a dark past and that’s ok but her husband should Involve and ask her to not mention it. She has the right to know from him especially. She’s a member of the family who loves and adores them so they should just make her feel included. I understand it’s hard for Mai and DK, which is totally fine but Khadus should (I think he’s protecting her but because shes Apu, he’s no protecting her, just fueling her curiosity.

This: Ok so Ishqi when she was becoming insistent with DK and Mai, I was annoyed with her because it’s their personal matter in their room that Apu just barged into. They both asked her to stop and leave but she wouldn’t. Mai had to put her hands together and practically beg her to leave. This was annoying and I didn’t like this part.

200% agree with you…when they asked her, she should have just dropped the topic then only….i dont like that stubbornness from her,..this is why khadus gets angry at her at times…..and that was a discussion between a couple…it was their personal matter.,,,,leave it….

Yea I agree that they should tell her and that sounds like a perfect idea to tell her just that she's their daughter and she left for so and so reason but bringing her up will hurt everyone so please don't.

But to do even that is going to take them time. For a family that is as close as them, losing one person like that was probably traumatic, and since it suddenly came out in the open, it's gonna take them a bit to collect themselves before they can talk about it. Going by precap convo between Shappu, I'm sure Appu finds out about it tomorrow.

But the thing is, everyone knows how stubborn and honestly immature/childish she can be, so they can also be apprehensive about telling her something like this. Doesn't make it right still and they should still try to explain it all to her but because she has a right to know not because of her curiosity to know everything or her stubborn behavior.

Originally posted by: ishqi

Also, I feel like she does find out since in the precap Khadus refers to her as Avantika Tai...so Appu (and us) will probably find out tomorrow.

And I totally understand her emotions. She deserves to know and the family is wrong for hiding it from her when they consider her a part of their family but she needs to be understanding too. I sincerely hope she doesn't create a mess, because I will feel upset with her for it but I will also be upset that she is going to get yelled at by DK and probably Khadus too...maybe even Sua Aai depending on how bad situation gets.

Yea I think DK will blow once the precap scene happens and that how Khadus will have her promise.

I think Mai will tell her so that’s why she was comforting Mai.

Another scenario:

Khadus and Kukki do even end up telling her and then she feels bad and goes to Mai to comfort her. The end of the episode was Apu telling Khadus that she will not rest until she finds out so maybe after this they just tell her.

So do your think this will creat more MU between shappu or will they be together and work as a team?

Yes, BS def knows her curiosity and that's what he tries to tell her at the end that it's not necessary to know everything all the time. But Appu says shes not going to listen to him this time (honestly, when has she ever listened to any of his warning before? ) I agree with you Arshi that he might be doing it to protect her from what chaos he know she can bring but this is having the opposite effect.

I didn't like her stubborn interference between DK/Mai either but psychologically speaking, K family marriages are a dream for Appu. Once she saw DK and Mai fighting like that, it probably gave her a flashback to her own parents fighting all the time, and her own trauma got triggered from it so she got scared about why DK is so angry. Trauma understood but stubbornness still wrong.

I promise not to bring up Avantika Tai's topic in front of you. So it will be the topic of discussion with someone else. I wonder who.