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Posted: 4 years ago

Today’s episode reminded me of the saying “All well that ends well “ . Though I was unhappy with Virat’s approach but now I feel he did the right thing . One he didn’t do any tamasha in the wedding hall and second if he hadn’t done that he would have lost Sai . Virat was very convincing with his justification and I am glad he was given some powerful dialogues. I hope they don’t drag this drama further and end it on good note .


Virat looked hurt when Sai said he is not her dream . Poor guy felt bad for him . I guess he has to live with the fact that she can walk away from him easily and won’t fight for their relationship . It’s sad reality and maybe in future if Virat puts something above her she will not be able to complain . I hope his insecurities doesn’t crop up again .


Sai cannot be diplomatic which makes her incapable of handling certain scenarios in life . If Virat hadn’t taken charge she would have scummed to BK’s pressure and would have lost her martial happiness. Patience and diplomacy are very important in today’s world and I hope Sai learns that . Virat is patient and diplomatic but at times he needs be firm and upfront which he needs to learn .


I feel Sai still has the tendency to walk away at the drop of the hat . I thought she has learnt to fight for her relationship but alas she is where she is . No progress

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Posted: 4 years ago

Look at my review . You might get a different perspective. Sais words should be looked in totality. She cannot chose between water and air! She will live a half life without either of them. And it is correct. Your career can be as important as your partner in my opinion. It is such in sais case. 😊


Yeah sais ways are different from virat’s. Inside a family setup virat’s ways will work. He will bring change and sais will give rise to conflict.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Look at my review . You might get a different perspective. Sais words should be looked in totality. She cannot chose between water and air! She will live a half life without either of them. And it is correct. Your career can be as important as your partner in my opinion. It is such in sais case. 😊


Yeah sais ways are different from virat’s. Inside a family setup virat’s ways will work. He will bring change and sais will give rise to conflict.

I am not expecting her to choose Virat over career or vice versa . Why should she choose in the first place is in question . By saying she would choose career she is giving up on her husband instead I she should have fought for their relationship by saying she won’t give up on either of them .
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I am not expecting her to choose Virat over career or vice versa . Why should she choose in the first place is in question . By saying she would choose career she is giving up on her husband instead I she should have fought for their relationship by saying she won’t give up on either of them .

I think she meant that only when she said air and water analogy. She might have chosen career because that is the living memory (her dream) that tied to her father. So she would have chosen to fulfill it. But by doing so she would have created scope for misunderstandings obviously. That’s what virat avoided by lying and buying time

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Posted: 4 years ago

Came across this article and instantly got reminded of BK Do you think one day BK will sue Virat and Sai 😆https://www.yahoo.com/news/couple-suing-son-daughter-law-043241675.html

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That was my reaction too after the article
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Originally posted by: sadiltl

I think she meant that only when she said air and water analogy. She might have chosen career because that is the living memory (her dream) that tied to her father. So she would have chosen to fulfill it. But by doing so she would have created scope for misunderstandings obviously. That’s what virat avoided by lying and buying time

isn’t it strange that society feels women choosing career over relationship as sign of empowerment but if there is a role reversal where a man gives importance to his career over wife then he is termed as selfish .

I feel history is repeating . Virat is back to his selfless mode where he will place Sai’s feelings , dreams and desires above his . In MiMo track he gave importance to Sai’s wishes over his desires . Sai is back to her original self where Virat has to put extra efforts in their relationship . . He accepted wholeheartedly that her career will be her first priority . I wonder what’s his first priority? His career or his wife ?

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Today’s episode reminded me of the saying “All well that ends well “ . Though I was unhappy with Virat’s approach but now I feel he did the right thing . One he didn’t do any tamasha in the wedding hall and second if he hadn’t done that he would have lost Sai . Virat was very convincing with his justification and I am glad he was given some powerful dialogues. I hope they don’t drag this drama further and end it on good note .


Virat looked hurt when Sai said he is not her dream . Poor guy felt bad for him . I guess he has to live with the fact that she can walk away from him easily and won’t fight for their relationship . It’s sad reality and maybe in future if Virat puts something above her she will not be able to complain . I hope his insecurities doesn’t crop up again .


Sai cannot be diplomatic which makes her incapable of handling certain scenarios in life . If Virat hadn’t taken charge she would have scummed to BK’s pressure and would have lost her martial happiness. Patience and diplomacy are very important in today’s world and I hope Sai learns that . Virat is patient and diplomatic but at times he needs be firm and upfront which he needs to learn .


I feel Sai still has the tendency to walk away at the drop of the hat . I thought she has learnt to fight for her relationship but alas she is where she is . No progress

I agree. Sai never thinks twice before saying anything. She doesn't realise that her words hurt Virat so much. She simply blurts out whatever comes to her mind. Sometimes I feel does she have feelings? Specially when it comes to Virat she keeps on ranting nonsense. I too felt bad for him. There's no progress from Sai's side. Ans Sai's impulsiveness is her biggest enemy.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Yeh kya naya natak hai?😆

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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

isn’t it strange that society feels women choosing career over relationship as sign of empowerment but if there is a role reversal where a man gives importance to his career over wife then he is termed as selfish .

I feel history is repeating . Virat is back to his selfless mode where he will place Sai’s feelings , dreams and desires above his . In MiMo track he gave importance to Sai’s wishes over his desires . Sai is back to her original self where Virat has to put extra efforts in their relationship . . He accepted wholeheartedly that her career will be her first priority . I wonder what’s his first priority? His career or his wife ?

Nitu, you echo my thoughts. I was going to write the same thing. I too feel why does a man have to suffer in order to glorify a woman? They have shown this so well in Ghum. When Virat hides the truth people feel he should be punished,but when Sai does the same thing she's given a clean chit. When Virat is slapped it's called as a punishment and people celebrate but when Sai is slapped it's called abuse. If Virat chooses his career above his relation then he's selfish but when Sai chooses her career above her relation it's woman empowerment. When the whole family supported Sai during Shruthi fiasco and he wasn't ready to forgive them he was being stubborn but if Sai had done the same thing the very same people would have applauded her. When Virat used to run behind Sai he was called desperate, when he wanted to give her space after anniversary drama he was called rude and heartless but when Sai started running behind him they called her a doormat. And, the list goes on. On one hand they say a man and a woman are equal but when it comes to Virat and Sai equality goes to hell.

Yes, Virat is back to being selfless and Sai has come back to square one where she's started taking Virat for granted.

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