BALH 2 EDT #21 - Page 90

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

If couples ever understood each other with out communication like Priya and Ram there would never be any separation and divorce would be wiped out of our society. This portrayal will work in such shows but never in real life. If any of them are silently accepting the other's flaw then its out of fear or that they do not have a support system to rely on.

His justification about the type of hug is not right. It doesnt help to understand why he hugged her that too when he cant even accept her ex talking to her. He hugged Vedika after knowing what she had done.

I just hope that he accepts her silence on he accident just like how she accepted the hug.

Again I am just not convinced on the hype that is always created around Priya's mistake .

I agree with you.

The simple fact is, it's fiction and what they show is rarely the reality of life. They have to get trps and for that they will do whatever will get them trps.

Kachori, auto, kangan, chooha.

Every thing is fair in fiction.

But here,

They are trying to portray a relationship that our grandparents share after 40-50 yrs of marriage together. They don't need words to know what the other is thinking or feeling. The trust, faith, bond, friendship, love and co-dependency they have on each other is beautiful in itself.

They are trying to take RaYa to that level of intimacy which is not connected to physical intimacy but is emotional one, that's why all this subtle symbolisms and psychological tricks.

RaYa is not digestable to that kind of understanding between them bcz they are not together for that long.

If you see a show, where the couple is the parent of hero/heroine and share this level of trust it's digestable bcz they have had their share of ups and downs and are now the parents.

But with ram and priya it's about their own individual intelligence and maturity that is asking them to show this trust in each other.

See the thing is ram has been trusting priya in everything and supporting her every time any one from his family put questions on her character or loyalty towards ram in respect to neeraj.

It was the first time someone from her family put questions on his character or loyalty to Priya, and she did what ram has been doing for her. She decided to put her trust in him. Bcz she doesn't have a solid reason to not trust him.

She asked him clearly if he wants to end the marriage without any conditions and he refused that. He has maintained his stance on vedika being his past and priya being the only present and future. Unless until she has more solid ground to doubt his loyalty, she has decided to burry it and move forward.

She sees how good he is to everyone in her family. She sees he is not fake, or trying too hard just bcz he is doing something wrong. But his actions are genuine and from his heart.

Originally posted by: Usg95

You cracked me up at 'me to ram' 🤣

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

What I am not happy with is , they always make things very loud when Priya makes a mistake. We do not get to see it with Ram. I would have accepted today's episode with ease if the precap did not show Nandini shouting at Priya.

Why is Priya's family not questioning Ram and his relationship with Vedika. Did they not feel what Priya was going through. Why always show that a girl's family trying to convince her about the good side of a man even when he is flawed. They literally worship Ram. They do not see any flaws in him at all.

Both Priya and Ram are flawed . So why hype Priya's flaws more than Ram's. I do not see that balance .

That is something i completely feel disgusted with myself.

Especially sara being this weird sister to Priya and always taking Ram's side.

Meera ka i understand she doesn't know anything but sara!!🤷🤦

Originally posted by: Hero_Coconut

Shouldn't we give Priya the benefit of the doubt to still question Ram? Just because she's behaving 'normal' this doesn't mean she's letting things be brushed under the carpet.

Maybe the kiss was out of character but it was Ram who kissed her spontaneously. Ram's actions are bigger than his words which is the way Priya understands.

We can still have a mature conversation. Instead of talking about the Ex it could be they'll disclose along MS.

I know my girl will NOT brush it under the carpet. She will always keep him on tenterhooks.

Originally posted by: Doodle

Ek baat bata - "woh sab hone ke baad, biwi ke samne phone uthane mein kya problem?" 😆😆😆😆

Thank you for asking this question🤣🤣

Ye vaha se aisa bhaga jese iske pant me chooha guss gya🤣🤣

I think he wanted to tell adi to not come as he is having sexy times with Priya and uske samne kese bolta 😆☺️

Liked today's episode... somehow they are foreshadowing consummation and way Nandini shouted Ram will mediate it this time around he will stand up for Priya as Priya was collecting evidence Priya will come clean from her end. I guess Priya is wearing that Yellow dress we saw in the authorised signatory dress she was about to tell Ram of Mahendra Sood's involvement in the accident but got interrupted...that is why perhaps the accident case is about to be reopened and will eventually lead to Shashi as well as what plot CVs are conjuring up currently regarding who elsebis culprit in Ram's Dad's accident. There might be hints of separation but they will stick around hope they don't give us same old rehash of separation track perhaps Priya gone to Meera Ma 's place...

Originally posted by: Zanutix

Hated when during Priya's drunk monologue at the bakery, 🐦 fans were like, NM is spectacular uwu 🥺🥺

My girl Disha putting her heart and soul in the scene and all you could take in from the scene was 'yeah NM was SO GOOD'

😤😤😤😤

PS - no offense to NM fans!!!! I like his acting skills too. He's great at emoting angst heavy scenes and his comic timing is perfect. I just don't like blind hero worshipping 😅 and want to see credit given where it's due.

No offense taken dude.😆

I don't like blind worshipping as well!!

DP has done phenomenal job as Priya. Honestly in the starting i was sceptical with the choice but i cannot imagine another priya now.👍🏼

Originally posted by: Zanutix

Hated when during Priya's drunk monologue at the bakery, 🐦 fans were like, NM is spectacular uwu 🥺🥺

My girl Disha putting her heart and soul in the scene and all you could take in from the scene was 'yeah NM was SO GOOD'

😤😤😤😤

PS - no offense to NM fans!!!! I like his acting skills too. He's great at emoting angst heavy scenes and his comic timing is perfect. I just don't like blind hero worshipping 😅 and want to see credit given where it's due.

Or if they wanted to show that silent understanding between Ram and Priya , then they should not have hyped up the accident issue and Nandini shouting at Priya. Rather it should be handled in the same subtle way.

In almost all shows they , love to portray suffering of women and them tolerating it silently. It is seen as a positive attribute to silently go through such abuses. The worst part is that the girls family itself encourages her to do that. The concept of respect is never associated with the term wife. They treat her husband as god but not her. In spite of all the education , professional growth , our thoughts are still lacking behind.

Sometimes words are not needed to start or develop something. At the same time, I am glad that, being such, Ram and Priya do not deny the need for communication by their example.

Alas, in life and all sorts of works, including serials, there are frightening examples of couples screaming about love, but not communicating, not knowing, they have only something erotic and eternal claims, which leads to breaks and pain. Ram and Priya are not like that, they know and feel each other, silence does not deny their communication, on the contrary, makes it more complete

When Ram turns the navigation on, the voice says that he is lucky that the road is clear and he'll reach his destination soon.

This is how RaYa's path is going to be.

Not showing angst doesn't necessarily mean nothing will be questioned but like in life, everything needs to be done in the right time.