BALH 2 EDT #21 - Page 89

Originally posted by: Doodle

You are right. The reason may be Twitter and IG fans. Nakuul has more crazy fans that Disha has. Hence, we don't see equal treatment of characters.

My beloved big minds, as always, you notice everything very subtly, the fact is that everything that we see and notice is connected with one complex, but simple thing, when we come to it - meaningful silence.

Ram and Priya had enough steps that they announced and took (protection from the police, bought a rickshaw, etc.) to move on, because they brought the most important thing to each other in complete silence, in those hugs that were on Holi , and then at the hotel, there were earlier ones when Priya gave Ram lilies, showing that she is there and his desires are paramount to her, and Ram showing that he is not ready to let her go even if the world explodes.

Two people who reach a special level of mutuality, maturity and understanding do not need words to say something to their loved one. When we have achieved this with someone, we may remain silent forever, but our bond will not weaken because the silence contains our conversation.

Ram and Priya achieved this:

"I will be silent with you until the end of days, I know that you hear me, your eyes speak to me more than the screaming crowd of this world, I will always understand your silence, you can not waste yourself screaming, I will be your cry, whisper , voice, because I know you will do the same for me."

Originally posted by: TheCoolDocSid

Completed dinner… Ab khunnas nikalhi hu😆

P.S.: was watching zgh, isn’t the text and Bajji scene similar to kabab and sms there?😆

Also, no… no answers, no angst, no analogy, no analysis…

nada… indifference from my side on that pre cap…that will be next Tuesday shayad🤷‍♀️

P.P.S: when sandy says I love you di to pri, ram thinks me too…

(me to ram : u definitely mean I love u biwi and not di, but say something about what all happened you idiot goofball industrialist from Bandra 🙈)

Ek baat bata - "woh sab hone ke baad, biwi ke samne phone uthane mein kya problem?" 😆😆😆😆

Originally posted by: Doodle

I think he was about to talk but Adi interrupted. Cinematic liberty at its best! Things are so subtle here that sometimes I feel it requires a lot of understanding from viewers.

The problem here is they cater to a range of audiences - some are teenagers; some are young adults; some are educated; some are not so educated; some are mature; some are not so mature; some can read between the lines; some needs to listen explicitly.

I am NOT defending today's episode; everyone knows here that I wanted Pri to be her usual self. But, we also need to understand that Pri is NOT Kashaf though they keep showing us parallels like today, Pri admiring how Ram takes care of her family the same way Kashaf acknowledged.

I agree with Ritika that they are trying to show trust and faith through parallels of each harboring a secret in their hearts expecting the other to understand.

1. Ram kept the V secret in fear of losing Pri forever.

2. Pri kept the secret of the MS accident in fear of losing Ram forever.

For example, there was this scene today where Ram made sure Pri shouted from the top of her lungs and she did that which actually calmed her down. I witnessed the same scene in House when Dr. House took Dr. Jessica Adams to a room full of junk and gave her a baseball bat and told her to break everything in that room. After she acted upon that advice, she cooled down.

So, with the police, Pri justified what Ram was trying to do all along. He forgets everything if she is angry and tries to clear the misunderstandings. That is Pri's maturity like Ram showed during the kangan kaand. He will also reciprocate when MS thing will be revealed.

P.S. I actually loved the way Ram showed the difference between a hug with a lover and a hug that is consoling a friend.

The episode was kept light, because high drama is coming up with the MS kaand.

The only thing is, it was too much in between the lines... If that was supposed to happen why hype so much showing Priya misunderstanding Ram. I mean Ram has not done or gone to any length which he does not do normally.

I am happy that this ex card is now over once for all (fingers crossed) but agar yahi Krna tha then it was hyped toooo much. 😅

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

What I am not happy with is , they always make things very loud when Priya makes a mistake. We do not get to see it with Ram. I would have accepted today's episode with ease if the precap did not show Nandini shouting at Priya.

Why is Priya's family not questioning Ram and his relationship with Vedika. Did they not feel what Priya was going through. Why always show that a girl's family trying to convince her about the good side of a man even when he is flawed. They literally worship Ram. They do not see any flaws in him at all.

Both Priya and Ram are flawed . So why hype Priya's flaws more than Ram's. I do not see that balance .

I understand what you are saying, the only explanation I think of is that Priya’s mistakes are highlighted because Ram’s family are villains/vamp , hence jump at any opportunity to insult Priya..

Originally posted by: RandomWaliLadki

i see some balance on IG though some are NM fans some r DP fans but yeah mostly NM fans. idc what twitter fans think 🤣

Hated when during Priya's drunk monologue at the bakery, 🐦 fans were like, NM is spectacular uwu 🥺🥺

My girl Disha putting her heart and soul in the scene and all you could take in from the scene was 'yeah NM was SO GOOD'

😤😤😤😤

PS - no offense to NM fans!!!! I like his acting skills too. He's great at emoting angst heavy scenes and his comic timing is perfect. I just don't like blind hero worshipping 😅 and want to see credit given where it's due.

Originally posted by: Doodle

You are right. The reason may be Twitter and IG fans. Nakuul has more crazy fans than Disha has. Hence, we don't see equal treatment of characters.

Originally posted by: Yashpa54

Saw the episode today. I liked it though I was surprised at Priya accepting the kiss😃. Perhaps this is logical because ever since she came into her senses after knowing the truth, she was not into all self pity mode.

She trusted Ram deep inside but it was more of an anger which was leading to her reaction.

as much as I wanted pri to not give any chillar worth Bhav in terms of v and her pulling strings to v or the rest of the world…🤣

I wanted her to be upfront and also maybe little irrational with ram… since he did promise that her every tunakbaazi ,jhagda sara ankhon par…

Bade acche ban ne me aur bade bewakoof ban ne me farak hota hai…

I wanted her to draw that line , hold or even twist his wrist in those terms… taane baarish is what we were expecting, I hope we get it tomorrow 😆

Maternal love deprivation can lead to loss of boundaries, it can be corrected by spousal support of being direct and decisive…yahan subtle nahi chalta😆, logon keliye what they show or not show is different… but between them, Ram’s allowing repeated stepping on boundaries needs to be handled better, he should be atleast honest that it happens with him to his biwi… and sherni can handle it from there😆

Since, these days, main talks come on tuesdays… will wait for tomorrow for ram’s phone to work properly 😆

Originally posted by: SEA05

My beloved big minds, as always, you notice everything very subtly, the fact is that everything that we see and notice is connected with one complex, but simple thing, when we come to it - meaningful silence.

Ram and Priya had enough steps that they announced and took (protection from the police, bought a rickshaw, etc.) to move on, because they brought the most important thing to each other in complete silence, in those hugs that were on Holi , and then at the hotel, there were earlier ones when Priya gave Ram lilies, showing that she is there and his desires are paramount to her, and Ram showing that he is not ready to let her go even if the world explodes.

Two people who reach a special level of mutuality, maturity and understanding do not need words to say something to their loved one. When we have achieved this with someone, we may remain silent forever, but our bond will not weaken because the silence contains our conversation.

Ram and Priya achieved this:

"I will be silent with you until the end of days, I know that you hear me, your eyes speak to me more than the screaming crowd of this world, I will always understand your silence, you can not waste yourself screaming, I will be your cry, whisper , voice, because I know you will do the same for me."

Thank you! We are trying to help. I am NOT happy with the episode either, but, didn't dislike it also.

I will tag @Thecooldoc here.

If you have read Middlemarch you would know how the love between Dorothea and Ladislaw evolved. I have not seen they talked too much; in fact when Dorothea would come to Rosamond's, he would leave from there. You ask - "how did they even start their love story?" Well, for that read the book.

Shouldn't we give Priya the benefit of the doubt to still question Ram? Just because she's behaving 'normal' this doesn't mean she's letting things be brushed under the carpet.

Maybe the kiss was out of character but it was Ram who kissed her spontaneously. Ram's actions are bigger than his words which is the way Priya understands.

We can still have a mature conversation. Instead of talking about the Ex it could be they'll disclose along MS.