I don't get this ITV concept - Page 2

Originally posted by: pbv3434

bold:- beautiful described..👍🏼you are right tht abhi is enjoying this rasam a lot so for his happiness they should give importance to all this rituals..😃

Originally posted by: tptwi

I think it just calls attention to how Mahima has selfish reasons for supporting and loving Abhi, and Harsh does not respect his happiness. The rest of the family members genuinely love him and care for him, which is why they are so happy to be participating. Anand is an extremely busy doctor too, but he isn't complaining and rolling his eyes every 2 seconds!

See 2 individuals can never be same. Not everyone can give that selfless kind of love. If she has own reasons of loving him it's fine. Even in real life relationships are flawed. We somewhat love people for our own reasons but we do care for them deeply which was visible when abhi could have been allergic. There, i agree her shouting at Ak was totally unreasonable.

As far as harsh is concerned about not respecting his son, i disagree as he is all praises about his son. His son is his pride and he cares for his son's love. In real life too, father son relationships are like that where father is not so expressive.

Originally posted by: borntorule12

See 2 individuals can never be same. Not everyone can give that selfless kind of love. If she has own reasons of loving him it's fine. Even in real life relationships are flawed. We somewhat love people for our own reasons but we do care for them deeply which was visible when abhi could have been allergic. There, i agree her shouting at Ak was totally unreasonable.

As far as harsh is concerned about not respecting his son, i disagree as he is all praises about his son. His son is his pride and he cares for his son's love. In real life too, father son relationships are like that where father is not so expressive.

As for Harsh, I have never doubted that his pride and joy is Abhi. It is visible even though he is not expressive, and he is yearning for Abhi's love. But, the way he treats Manjari (and whatever the backstory is there) and Akshu, the people he knows are most important to Abhi, has ruined his relationship with his son. By not respecting these women, he is disrespecting Abhi too in my point of view! And besides, he should respect these women because they deserve respect on a more human level first, irrespective of what they mean to Abhi!

Originally posted by: tptwi

I think it just calls attention to how Mahima has selfish reasons for supporting and loving Abhi, and Harsh does not respect his happiness. The rest of the family members genuinely love him and care for him, which is why they are so happy to be participating. Anand is an extremely busy doctor too, but he isn't complaining and rolling his eyes every 2 seconds!

Originally posted by: borntorule12

Till date, what I have seen in yrrkh season 3- birlas indeed are a loving family. When it comes to functions everyone does get together but if there are some stupid rasams they don't believe in what's wrong with that? They are a family of professional doctors who don't believe much in this ..is it necessary to like everything ? They are an educated, classy family.. yes there are issues in the family just like any other family... Not every family wants to be extremely lovey dovey ..

From what I have seen Anand and mahima have supported abhimanyu in his medical career

Harsh loves abhimanyu a lot and he loves manjari too in his on way

All the siblings share a good bond and rapport .. Neil and abhimanyu are like best Bros..

I've also seen everyone appreciate manjari for holding the family together and for her cooking skills.. i didn't see much issues or cracks...

So why would akshara make changes ? Will she make birlas another goenkas who want to dance at every function as if it's necessary or without that you cant be a loving family... Yes akshara sorting harsh and abhi's difference is okay but i don't get when people say birlas are a toxic family, akshara will come and make the family okay as if this same family wasn't functioning well all these years.. or akshara is blessed with superpowers to solve the deep issues of birla household

And in real life too doctors families are like that only - sophisticated people who don't get much time for each other due to long working hours .. to me birlas appear like a good family.. there toxicity is way less than suhasini dadi used to do with naira in season 2 and all those proud people of goenkas

In fact, i don't like third person interfering in someone's matters.. akshara meddling between mahima and Anisha is not right.. yes she has right on abhimnayu and has a right to improve harsh and Abhimanyu's relation but to interfere in every other relation is not right.. even if things are not okay I don't think anyone likes a new person suddenly coming and giving gyaan ...that is weird in my opinion 😆 and yes akshara making manjari stand up and bold is another joke as she herself can't stand upto her bully of a sister and is so gullible.. so this new bahu akshara will give gyaan to manjari who has been doing all this since 25+ years on how to run household..maybe she can teach manjari how to romance harsh like she romances abhimanyu 😆

👌 Well said.

Originally posted by: borntorule12

Till date, what I have seen in yrrkh season 3- birlas indeed are a loving family. When it comes to functions everyone does get together but if there are some stupid rasams they don't believe in what's wrong with that? They are a family of professional doctors who don't believe much in this ..is it necessary to like everything ? They are an educated, classy family.. yes there are issues in the family just like any other family... Not every family wants to be extremely lovey dovey ..

From what I have seen Anand and mahima have supported abhimanyu in his medical career

Harsh loves abhimanyu a lot and he loves manjari too in his on way

All the siblings share a good bond and rapport .. Neil and abhimanyu are like best Bros..

I've also seen everyone appreciate manjari for holding the family together and for her cooking skills.. i didn't see much issues or cracks...

So why would akshara make changes ? Will she make birlas another goenkas who want to dance at every function as if it's necessary or without that you cant be a loving family... Yes akshara sorting harsh and abhi's difference is okay but i don't get when people say birlas are a toxic family, akshara will come and make the family okay as if this same family wasn't functioning well all these years.. or akshara is blessed with superpowers to solve the deep issues of birla household

And in real life too doctors families are like that only - sophisticated people who don't get much time for each other due to long working hours .. to me birlas appear like a good family.. there toxicity is way less than suhasini dadi used to do with naira in season 2 and all those proud people of goenkas

In fact, i don't like third person interfering in someone's matters.. akshara meddling between mahima and Anisha is not right.. yes she has right on abhimnayu and has a right to improve harsh and Abhimanyu's relation but to interfere in every other relation is not right.. even if things are not okay I don't think anyone likes a new person suddenly coming and giving gyaan ...that is weird in my opinion 😆 and yes akshara making manjari stand up and bold is another joke as she herself can't stand upto her bully of a sister and is so gullible.. so this new bahu akshara will give gyaan to manjari who has been doing all this since 25+ years on how to run household..maybe she can teach manjari how to romance harsh like she romances abhimanyu 😆

Goenkas look more stupid to me..they are always ready for ghoomar dance and celebrations no matter what the situation is..akshara had a fatal accident and these goenkas started celebrating aarohi's marriage..manjari was in hospital and goenkas wanted to do abhira's engagement..they never care about any serious situation..its very odd..and mimi is always ready with her stupid rasams that are unwanted 😒..goenkas never focused on their upbringing that's the reason they were not concerned about akshara's feelings and pain when they were happily celebrating arohi and abhimanyu's marriage and now they are not concerned about aarohi's insecurities and busy celebrating abhira's marriage..they are very careless..

And I don't want akshara to start fixing birlas family relationships..because that's not her job..akshara has a right on abhimanyu's life so she can try to fix his relationship with his father harsh or she can try to fix manjari and harshvardhan Birla’s relationship as they are abhimanyu's parents..but akshara has no right to interfere between mahima and Anisha or parth and shefali..she should rather focus on her own marriage with abhimanyu..

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

I completely agree..birlas are just like normal real life families..we don't usually celebrate each and every rasam...infact marriage only include engagement , mehendi, haldi and wedding..any oyher ritual other than this is just a waste of time specially for career oriented families like birlas..they don't have time for all this.

Goenkas look more stupid to me..they are always ready for ghoomar dance and celebrations no matter what the situation is..akshara had a fatal accident and these goenkas started celebrating aarohi's marriage..manjari was in hospital and goenkas wanted to do abhira's engagement..they never care about any serious situation..its very odd..and mimi is always ready with her stupid rasams that are unwanted 😒..goenkas never focused on their upbringing that's the reason they were not concerned about akshara's feelings and pain when they were happily celebrating arohi and abhimanyu's marriage and now they are not concerned about aarohi's insecurities and busy celebrating abhira's marriage..they are very careless..

And I don't want akshara to start fixing birlas family relationships..because that's not her job..akshara has a right on abhimanyu's life so she can try to fix his relationship with his father harsh or she can try to fix manjari and harshvardhan Birla’s relationship as they are abhimanyu's parents..but akshara has no right to interfere between mahima and Anisha or parth and shefali..she should rather focus on her own marriage with abhimanyu..

@bold: totally true...

@red: we all know whats gonna happen..she will interfere in every relation and fix them...remember how she advised anisha about mahima and asked her to reconcile with mahima without knowing the reason behind differences between them? she is already very irritating with her family jaap