I don't get this ITV concept

Till date, what I have seen in yrrkh season 3- birlas indeed are a loving family. When it comes to functions everyone does get together but if there are some stupid rasams they don't believe in what's wrong with that? They are a family of professional doctors who don't believe much in this ..is it necessary to like everything ? They are an educated, classy family.. yes there are issues in the family just like any other family... Not every family wants to be extremely lovey dovey ..

From what I have seen Anand and mahima have supported abhimanyu in his medical career

Harsh loves abhimanyu a lot and he loves manjari too in his on way

All the siblings share a good bond and rapport .. Neil and abhimanyu are like best Bros..

I've also seen everyone appreciate manjari for holding the family together and for her cooking skills.. i didn't see much issues or cracks...

So why would akshara make changes ? Will she make birlas another goenkas who want to dance at every function as if it's necessary or without that you cant be a loving family... Yes akshara sorting harsh and abhi's difference is okay but i don't get when people say birlas are a toxic family, akshara will come and make the family okay as if this same family wasn't functioning well all these years.. or akshara is blessed with superpowers to solve the deep issues of birla household

And in real life too doctors families are like that only - sophisticated people who don't get much time for each other due to long working hours .. to me birlas appear like a good family.. there toxicity is way less than suhasini dadi used to do with naira in season 2 and all those proud people of goenkas

In fact, i don't like third person interfering in someone's matters.. akshara meddling between mahima and Anisha is not right.. yes she has right on abhimnayu and has a right to improve harsh and Abhimanyu's relation but to interfere in every other relation is not right.. even if things are not okay I don't think anyone likes a new person suddenly coming and giving gyaan ...that is weird in my opinion 😆 and yes akshara making manjari stand up and bold is another joke as she herself can't stand upto her bully of a sister and is so gullible.. so this new bahu akshara will give gyaan to manjari who has been doing all this since 25+ years on how to run household..maybe she can teach manjari how to romance harsh like she romances abhimanyu 😆

So true lol there's nothing wrong if Birlas don't believe in each and every custom and ritual. After all we're living in 21st century and these rituals look outdated and waste of time. Probably the makers want to say that Birlas don't enjoy small moments of happiness etc but I don't get it, how can someone enjoy these outdated rituals? 🤪🤣

I totally agree that Akshara herself has lot of problems within herself that she has to solve first. Thank God they ended the Aneesha track otherwise she would have literally forced Anand and Mahima to accept Kairav-Anisha wedding. The reason Anand and Mahima are angry with their daughter was she eloped with someone before also so they mostly don't trust their daughter and it's understandable. A gal runs away with one guy, comes back and tells I am in love with another guy is something that's hard to digest. Akshara's interference would have spoiled the situation more.

With regards to Manjiri, whatever Akshara would do would again look weird. Maybe she'll try to make Harsh and Mahima realize Manjiri's importance in their lives but then I guess they already kinda realized it when Manjiri was in hospital. Maybe this serial will show through Akshara and Manjiri that homemakers have also value and importance in their homes and other people's lives. As u said, it will be funny to see Akshara advising Manjiri to open her mouth against her sister and husband when she herself can't open jet own mouth against her own step sister. 🤣

Birlas don’t have an elder in their house who is religious that’s why they’re like this they focus on their own life and careers at least they’re not useless like Goenkas. Na Kaam Ke Na Kaaj Ke

Originally posted by: Life_Is_Dutiful

So true lol there's nothing wrong if Birlas don't believe in each and every custom and ritual. After all we're living in 21st century and these rituals look outdated and waste of time. Probably the makers want to say that Birlas don't enjoy small moments of happiness etc but I don't get it, how can someone enjoy these outdated rituals? 🤪🤣

I totally agree that Akshara herself has lot of problems within herself that she has to solve first. Thank God they ended the Aneesha track otherwise she would have literally forced Anand and Mahima to accept Kairav-Anisha wedding. The reason Anand and Mahima are angry with their daughter was she eloped with someone before also so they mostly don't trust their daughter and it's understandable. A gal runs away with one guy, comes back and tells I am in love with another guy is something that's hard to digest. Akshara's interference would have spoiled the situation more.

With regards to Manjiri, whatever Akshara would do would again look weird. Maybe she'll try to make Harsh and Mahima realize Manjiri's importance in their lives but then I guess they already kinda realized it when Manjiri was in hospital. Maybe this serial will show through Akshara and Manjiri that homemakers have also value and importance in their homes and other people's lives. As u said, it will be funny to see Akshara advising Manjiri to open her mouth against her sister and husband when she herself can't open jet own mouth against her own step sister. 🤣

Birlas find their happiness in their professional space, what's wrong in that?

When akshara and all were doing those 56 bhog thali thing, even I was like so much waste of food for one person unless everyone was going to eat it .. mimi said that akshara will go and change birlas and make them like these things 😆 I was like what the f**k ?? Why to impose your choices on someone? 🤷‍♀️

If they want to show homemakers are also important they already have a show for that called anupama in which this thing is very realistically shown. There is no need to make it a copycat version.

And how can akshara advice manjari who has been literally doing all these so many years.

This serial is all about unnecessary praise for the main lead ...even naira used to do something stupid all the time but yet she looked victim and was made to look mahan... There was a whole post in this forum about how naira kept on doing kaands like she stayed away from akshara by eloping to rishikesh, running away with her child for 5 years in Goa, blaming own kid for pushing someone, her other sister gayu was made to look evil even tho she was right in her place as there was a lot of discrimination between gayu and naira and even their kids.. k dadi always wanted kairav to win...yet naira became the victim always and it was always about unnecessary praise for naira...even tho she was just a stupid lady who kept on eloping from home at every other problem instead of finding a solution

Like just an eg- kartik blamed naira for having extra marital affair( he had doubts so he asked naira politely) and naira discovered she was pregnant at that time.. because of Kartik's blame she ran away from goenkas making entire goenkas and singhania's believe she is dead and returns after 5 years expecting her place to be the same and returns with the same notion that she is right... Tell me how is this right? I get kartik and she had issues but she could have sorted them or divorced him ..what was the need to make her own family singhanias suffer for all these years?? How can a mother keep her child away from father and father's love just because of differences between her and his father?? All these years kairav believed his father was on a secret mission...

All these FLs are highly dumb and irritating.

I agree even I found it strange when Mimi said that Akshu would change everyone. It’s itv I bet couples can never stay happy. Harsh may have a sister or relative who’ll probably enter after Birlas turn more positive. Akshara will probably have to change her It’s better if she adjusts instead like Og Akshara had to and can try to win their hearts instead

Originally posted by: Moonlight493

I agree even I found it strange when Mimi said that Akshu would change everyone. It’s itv I bet couples can never stay happy. Harsh may have a sister or relative who’ll probably enter after Birlas turn more positive. Akshara will probably have to change her It’s better if she adjusts instead like Og Akshara had to and can try to win their hearts instead

Yes akshara needs to adjust in the family of doctors instead of trying to make them like to do ghoomar but I'm sure they are going to show the second thing- akshara Bahu made everyone like ghoomar 💃 she has made birlas loving family my making them like ghoomar in every function 💃😂 even tho they clearly don't have a problem with dancing - I saw in tilak birlas were happily dancing.

It's nice if they show akshara trying to adjust in the family by accepting things their way instead of making birlas another goenkas

Originally posted by: Life_Is_Dutiful

So true lol there's nothing wrong if Birlas don't believe in each and every custom and ritual. After all we're living in 21st century and these rituals look outdated and waste of time. Probably the makers want to say that Birlas don't enjoy small moments of happiness etc but I don't get it, how can someone enjoy these outdated rituals? 🤪🤣

I totally agree that Akshara herself has lot of problems within herself that she has to solve first. Thank God they ended the Aneesha track otherwise she would have literally forced Anand and Mahima to accept Kairav-Anisha wedding. The reason Anand and Mahima are angry with their daughter was she eloped with someone before also so they mostly don't trust their daughter and it's understandable. A gal runs away with one guy, comes back and tells I am in love with another guy is something that's hard to digest. Akshara's interference would have spoiled the situation more.

With regards to Manjiri, whatever Akshara would do would again look weird. Maybe she'll try to make Harsh and Mahima realize Manjiri's importance in their lives but then I guess they already kinda realized it when Manjiri was in hospital. Maybe this serial will show through Akshara and Manjiri that homemakers have also value and importance in their homes and other people's lives. As u said, it will be funny to see Akshara advising Manjiri to open her mouth against her sister and husband when she herself can't open jet own mouth against her own step sister. 🤣

Bold:-I knw ak is not as bold as abhi in bajoing abhi bt she is not like manjari tht I can say..she speaks when it’s going overboard unlike manju aunty who never opens her mouth..I like in yesterday’s episode she didnot hide abt her accident from abhi even when arohi clearly told her to not to tell anyone..by telling him she proved tht abhi’s importance in her life..

Originally posted by: borntorule12

Birlas find their happiness in their professional space, what's wrong in that?

When akshara and all were doing those 56 bhog thali thing, even I was like so much waste of food for one person unless everyone was going to eat it .. mimi said that akshara will go and change birlas and make them like these things 😆 I was like what the f**k ?? Why to impose your choices on someone? 🤷‍♀️

If they want to show homemakers are also important they already have a show for that called anupama in which this thing is very realistically shown. There is no need to make it a copycat version.

And how can akshara advice manjari who has been literally doing all these so many years.

This serial is all about unnecessary praise for the main lead ...even naira used to do something stupid all the time but yet she looked victim and was made to look mahan... There was a whole post in this forum about how naira kept on doing kaands like she stayed away from akshara by eloping to rishikesh, running away with her child for 5 years in Goa, blaming own kid for pushing someone, her other sister gayu was made to look evil even tho she was right in her place as there was a lot of discrimination between gayu and naira and even their kids.. k dadi always wanted kairav to win...yet naira became the victim always and it was always about unnecessary praise for naira...even tho she was just a stupid lady who kept on eloping from home at every other problem instead of finding a solution

Like just an eg- kartik blamed naira for having extra marital affair( he had doubts so he asked naira politely) and naira discovered she was pregnant at that time.. because of Kartik's blame she ran away from goenkas making entire goenkas and singhania's believe she is dead and returns after 5 years expecting her place to be the same and returns with the same notion that she is right... Tell me how is this right? I get kartik and she had issues but she could have sorted them or divorced him ..what was the need to make her own family singhanias suffer for all these years?? How can a mother keep her child away from father and father's love just because of differences between her and his father?? All these years kairav believed his father was on a secret mission...

All these FLs are highly dumb and irritating.

Yeah Birlas are happy in their own ways. There's no need to change anything but then this serial is all about rituals and customs and sanskars. I would like to mention the holi track. Birlas didn't wanted to play holi in front of their high profile doctor guests. Entered Goenkas with laal pila hara faces. That must have been so embarrassing for Birlas but then to do damage control they showed Neil and Abhimanyu playing keechad holi. So it's kinda like whitewashing Goenkas. On top of that Harsh himself deliberately fell into the mud after seeing everyone having fun. So I guess this is what will happen in future episodes. No matter how much Birlas say no to all those rituals and customs Abhimanyu and Neil will always support Akshara and then the other Birlas will start looking for fun in the rituals.

Naira used to run away from problems. Akshara too has the same tendency of running away from problems. She already has this habit of hurting one person to keep the other person happy. She hurt the Goenkas by leaving the house for Aarohi's happiness. She hurt Abhimanyu's feelings by rejecting him so that she can win Aarohi's trust. After marriage yeh kya kya karegi. 🤪😆

This is a really interesting topic! I will preface my response by saying that no ITV show is complete without the bahu completing changing her sasural, so that much is a given here and won't be any different.

When it comes to the Birlas, I think that while they do care for each other at the end of the day, their relationships are really toxic on a day to day level. Harsh loves his son, but he does not respect him nor the people that matter most to him... therefore, creating a huge barrier in their relationship. Mahima recognizes that Manjari holds the house together and also loves Abhi, but at the end of the day, she is driven by power and needs to be a step ahead of both of them. These are just a few examples.

When it comes to the rasams, the tensions between the families are really real to me and what I have witnessed in my own life when 2 new families are creating a relationship with each other. I don't think it's wrong for the Birlas to not believe in these rasams at all, but I do think that they should suck it up for Abhi's happiness, because he is clearly enjoying them and wants to participate in them. As a family, when it is your kid's wedding, I feel that for his happiness, you engage in things that you don't like.... but, on the other end, the Goenkas are quite forceful about it, which Manish called attention to in the past episode...

Originally posted by: tptwi

This is a really interesting topic! I will preface my response by saying that no ITV show is complete without the bahu completing changing her sasural, so that much is a given here and won't be any different.

When it comes to the Birlas, I think that while they do care for each other at the end of the day, their relationships are really toxic on a day to day level. Harsh loves his son, but he does not respect him nor the people that matter most to him... therefore, creating a huge barrier in their relationship. Mahima recognizes that Manjari holds the house together and also loves Abhi, but at the end of the day, she is driven by power and needs to be a step ahead of both of them. These are just a few examples.

When it comes to the rasams, the tensions between the families are really real to me and what I have witnessed in my own life when 2 new families are creating a relationship with each other. I don't think it's wrong for the Birlas to not believe in these rasams at all, but I do think that they should suck it up for Abhi's happiness, because he is clearly enjoying them and wants to participate in them. As a family, when it is your kid's wedding, I feel that for his happiness, you engage in things that you don't like.... but, on the other end, the Goenkas are quite forceful about it, which Manish called attention to in the past episode...