Dejection - Page 4

The last entire year of imlie has rubbed off on her... it's just plain circumstances which she experienced has rubbed off on her. Physically she may have moved on but She is still stuck emotionally in the adini realm...she is seeing asr through adini mindset totally now especially in this shaadi....and yeh her true nature finally giving in anyway....

asr may have a revenge version of voice to voice and gun to gun but for imlie the word revenge itself might be a mountain which is blocking her consciousness atm...her actions are plain confusing as her state of mind is atm.courtesy aru's emotional multiple disorder....

Now its literally adini subconciously brainwashed imlie vs multiple emotional disorder singh rathore ..

P.S. Why aru is not accepting his feelings can become a new topic of discussion btw...

And how can we get slow burn if we get everything once.. literally it's just 5 months of arylie approximately....

Originally posted by: mili9

Shabia, thank you for this post👍🏼. I have been hiding under a rock and doing my work for the last week. I just watched yesterday's and the day before's episode, I didn't get any warm fuzzies watching Imlie🤔 Totally yuck! ASR, of course gave me the warm fuzzies, bhar bhar ke❤️

Care free Aru is just Aur kitni Baar ye Pyar krwaye ga khud se😳

Yes, I don't understand the purpose of this track either, other than as somebody mentioned for the T family to take a holy dip🤣 and become the most self-less clan around😡 Never was able to tolerate Rupi and Aparna, still can't💔

They had these extravagant sets and celebrations, but never served us with a nice, festive feast. What good is it if you get dressed in finery and do cheap stunts😡 Will never forgive Imlie for the stupid bride swap🤬 What if she didn't hear the intentions of BM and BD. Would that be OK to marry off ASR with anybody just because........ If she said no, her concern is that patrakaar's life will be destroyed. So, is it OK to give a life sentence and destroy ASR's life instead? If the Rathore family is fine with BD as the bride, they would have done so a long time ago😡🤬Sorry, I think I gave a lot of concessions to Imlie for being the 18/19 year old and therefore being foolish toh banta hain. But not with this harkat💔🤬

What now with ASR? I agree, he is the bigger man here and backed out of forcing a marriage. But, if every act of his is looked at as some manipulation when manipulation ( T family ) actually stares at you and gives you a thappad, it is simply too much to take. I am mentioning stupid monologue of Imlie as Aryan pulled out her papers from the fire and burned his hands🤗She won't understand ASR's integrity at all. For me, integrity is what you do when no one is looking. See how he takes care of Meethi and reveres her genuinely. Stupid and idiotic Imlie is just that, stupid and idiotic😡 Is his revenge gone for good now? How does that sit with the story line?

She talks a lot about apne and Narmada and Arpita. If she comes back tomorrow to " protect" these two from BM and BD, I won't be happy.👎🏼 They don't need " protection" from her per se. It could all be solved in less than a minute by ASR if she just told him about BM, BD intentions. Unlike her, he won't ask for any proof, he has no love lost for them. He already roared at them into their place😎And, hopefully, ASR is no puppet who would just marry any Tom, Dick and Harry, just because he is decked up as the groom And let me also say this, if Narmada will get salty with her for pulling this stunt of leaving the wedding in the middle, I won't blame her too🤗

After today's episode, we know she was really running and came back begrudgingly. Now when she's back because of her Amma, she'll basically extract that revenge from Aryan. Hence the jharuu kaand

Which makes me think that revenge itself is not bad cause she's doing it herself. Aryan's revenge against BS was wrong only🤪

So, if ASR backed out of the wedding out of his own volition, what is that promo of reception with jhaadu etc.😡? BTW, if you are a janitor, do you need to cry from the roof tops that you are a janitor for attention, so you can cry and villify other people for judging you. If you respect your profession, can you simply do your duty and move on? Why do you want to do all this, just to attract unsavory attention?

This foolish girl doesn't understand when he says, Meethi's beizzati is equal to Imlie's and that in turn equals ASRs. How many people in our life would actually feel that way about us😭 And his line of " tumhaari haar mein meri jeet kabhi nahin ho sakti"❤️ He has my heart. If ASR is my family member, I would advise against his alliance with this girl💔 No two ways about it

Imlie's happiness of breaking through the "shackles" is nauseating to watch. Nobody shackled her, she always had a choice. She just didn't want that option and took this option. Now with all her tantrums, she just twisted ASR to agree to her argument unconditionally. This is because of the goodness of his heart, his inability to see her sooo sad, fulfilling her part of a silly deal which she didn't have to take in the first place🤬

I hope they focus a little on Imlie's characterization. She has a very inflated sense of self with grandiosity. She is a tantrum throwing young woman, she is able to do all the mahaan things she is doing for the Tfamiy because, ASR is enabling all the nonsense😭 If she thinks this is some great win👎🏼, I am going to scream.

No unfortunately that's how her character is being endorsed by makers. She'll never change😡 just fall in love and tada whitewashed. Today she was hell stoic. Her grudge with Aryan was so clear on her face. Nobody saw because of their happiness. And Aryan was giving her puppy eyes

I am not at all happy with what is shown so far💔Sorry, for taking so much space, my friend!

I'm glad you took this space. That's what the forum is for. Right dear friend🤗

So basically Aru is going to pay the price of that last year.

She was running away but had to come back. Her grudge about that is so visible.

We know why Aru doesn't confess. He's afraid of rejection when she clearly said that she'll never love again. It's his defense mechanism: denial. And even if he does confess, apni baat keh kar gawaye ga. Ultra she'll be more repulsed by him throwing multiple accusations

That is the point - escapism. Why I watched I suppose. But introducing the arrogant, selfish and controlling Aryan to counter the handsome, caring and unselfish Aditya, who then went downhill, was for me, and many others I expect, the complete opposite of escapism. This drove from real-life situations that I and many would want to escape from - controlling sexist bosses, bullying husbands, pushy rich families and more. The story turned from fun, drama and escapism to nightmare. After all Imlie wanted - independence, her own life on her terms, she has gained absolutely nothing more that a new forced marriage and three controlling families, her own, the Ts and now the Rathores. She will never be able to say again her achievements were her own as everyone will say she is a gold-digger marrying a wealthy man for money and position, no matter whether it is true or not. She disappoints me utterly and will be miserable now every day of her life until she can finally throw Aryan off and really walk away. It is a clever ploy, saying 'OK, you have a free choice, I will let you go.' when it is no choice at all really. Aryan knows she will have to come back as he has successfully manipulated everyone for his own totally selfish and bigoted aims. If his sister could say the accident was not Adi's fault then why can he not? She is the one who suffered, not him. Aryan is dangerous and a liar, Imlie will probably never find out about all the bad things he has done, like deleting Adi's desperate last chance phone message, and forgotten many more things, like when he ran her over and threw water over her as she walked along. This is not escapism anyone can enjoy unless Imlie punishes him and sends him to jail. She has even become a blood sacrifice, with his khun on her maang - that says something doesn't it?

I kept hoping for sense, but this serial has degenerated into absolute misery. All the actors should have downed tools and gone on strike until GM was back and the story revised to its original premise, a village girl fighting for status, with her loving husband to help her.

I am finished with this tragedy for good. I wanted something I could enjoy, now every day I just want to cry. I am currently ill with Covid as so many others are - I don't need this travesty of a story to bring me down even more.

So, alavida dosto 😭

Originally posted by: Gwiwer

I kept hoping for sense, but this serial has degenerated into absolute misery. All the actors should have downed tools and gone on strike until GM was back and the story revised to its original premise, a village girl fighting for status, with her loving husband to help her.

@bold: I understand you are a adilie fan but why should all actors strike against their employer who pays them for someone who hardly mingled with them..? Preet Kaur told they hardly bonded on set..Now why will she stop her work and go on a strike for him? It was GM's decision to quit but it was makers decision to continue the show as they cared about all the people working on set.

@Red: yes it is going to happen in future the only change is her husband is Aryan Singh Rathore now 😎 Atleast she will be saved from sautan fight and be with a man who knows what he wants.

I agree with each and every word over here... Can't stand Imlie's behavior anymore

Originally posted by: ampm06

The main thing we need to remember is this is a daily soap. It’s a form of escapism for majority of viewers. There is no more space for intelligent audiences in ITV. Gone are those days when there used to relatable / inspiring TV shows. Saying so what they are dishing right now most of us are confused or not liking it . But if you see some comments on YouTube and other platforms they seem to loving all the extra dramaaaa. Very few bother questioning the motive behind a certain plot , the obvious foolishness in certain characters.

Anyhow I always felt they are trying to turn a new leaf with this serial ever since Aryans’s entry . So in total of a little above 100 episodes ? If you consider this a whole new serial for this time line it’s not that bad . It’s just that those who have been watching it from long time and seeing Imli’s tomfoolery has been frustrating.

Where are these makers trying to go post wedding ? No clue , the jaadu devi avataar promo does not look exciting ! But I will hold back to see what the next week or two presents us . We will get a better picture of how they are planning to move ahead with Imli’s characterization. Is she going to regress or manage to take baby steps towards growth now that she will be thrusted to whole new environment.

She is young naive impressionable girl who was groomed so far. It’s not so easy to snap out of its effect. Adding to it is her inborn savior complex. It’s a slow process.

What I am hoping to see is if they will show instances and scenarios that will make Imli question her thought process so far . Only in that case I see her learning and growing .

Or will the makers simply try to shove down our throat that no she is Mahaan Imli so no matter that she does , it’s all for the greater reason at the end ? If that’s what they end up doing , guess what that’s when viewership will start tanking too !

I don’t think this will help with Dejection topic on this thread , but simply penned my two cents :)

you sum up what i am thinking tbh, as a new viewer (meaning i came for aryan in december), i can't imagine how frustrated people who have watched from the beginning must be with imlie, but this is her show, and for better or worse this is what they've gone with. i'll keep watching for aryan but even I (and i think all of us) have my limit and then it will be interesting to see what happens the rest of this year.

the only thing i can gather is that Star Plus wanted a wedding, so they got one, but not the one any of us wanted, and now the show has been reset for the third time, because now arylie have to come together again

Originally posted by: Shabia1

So basically Aru is going to pay the price of that last year.

She was running away but had to come back. Her grudge about that is so visible.

We know why Aru doesn't confess. He's afraid of rejection when she clearly said that she'll never love again. It's his defense mechanism: denial. And even if he does confess, apni baat keh kar gawaye ga. Ultra she'll be more repulsed by him throwing multiple accusations

Aryan built a fort of steel around himself, sealed in all emotions. Other than his maa and didi, he doesn't let anybody in. They pull his leg, no matter how stoic he acts in front of the world. He is after all Arpita's kid brother and his mama's boy❤️. They tease him, he denies it, but not vehemently so. In other words, he doesn't chew off their heads like he does with others. Remember the roar at BM for insulting his mom, didi😭

Anyway, not to digress, it will take a lot of time for him to accept his feelings to himself first. Because, bada ARYAN SINGH RATHORE bann ke phirta hain na? Somebody who doesn't get affected by anything, who thinks with his brain and not his heart, etc., so, he will fight with himself before letting her into his inner circle. That is why he stops himself from saying anything......

Secondly, even if he admits to himself, unless and until he is sure of Imlie's non-feelings towards patrakaar, he won't open his mouth. He might say things in a circuitous way. Jaise ki, tumhaari haar mein..... which is truly heartfelt and should melt you from insides if somebody says that to you😭 And then the next step will be to ensure that if and when Imlie feels explicit pyaar waale feelings towards, Aryan, he will have to ensure that this is not some obligation. Poor guy has too many steps and hurdles to pass. If done well, it will be really nice to watch Aryan's journey👍🏼