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Posted: 3 years ago
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Haha no this is not me saying it but dia to that kajal in the entire last week seeing her ways where it clearly looks like the woman likes to engage in ONs ..they are no proper relationships..just casual flings post her divorce with armaan.. what I found rather hilarious about this whole thing was dia was like oh no no kajal no judgement am not gonna judge you.. like they have repeatedly said that statement even though she kinda did judge her at back of her head and frankly the execution is a mess around that whole track imo caz as I said they don't look like any sort of relationships she is having and gets dumped but more like she has commitment phobia now and just enjoys casual flings and then play victim ke sab mujhe chod ke jaate hain when to dia in one conversation she has clearly stated ke armaan was not one of them and she ditched him..now we Don't know exactly what happened..but I get must be her yehi tamashe and boredom of one steady rishta..but I can't stop laughing at her self victimization to dia and rona dhona and then doing substance abuse ( I am saying that based on the scene where she is shown to have been drinking all night and sunaooing her sob story.. ) frankly she seems to be the problem then others but like to blame others.. anyway this isn't what this topic is for as always I have gotten carried away..


What my point is that dia kept saying ok no judging you it is your lifestyle it suits you it is cool with you with me but then she saw armaan ka picture and she was so quick to judge and label him as the womanizer as the one who is now taking her sister for a ride..and mind you all this is based on same piece of evidence..same pictures.. toh why this whole no judgement doesn't apply to the man and only to the woman..I mean in that very same picture kajal was in it too but you chose to tell her no judgements it is ok but armaan is the problem when the evidence in front of your eyes showed her as more of the one having too many relationships/ men in her life she said they are her memories have been part of her life not armaan.. just because he is a man and you saw him with kajal you said things to him called him ghatiya aadmi but yeh same label wasn't given to kajal why? Caz woh aurat hai and women card play kar rahi thi..it really didn't sit well with me..and it felt all the more laugh worthy to see ke dia otherwise is trying to sound cool ke it is ok but she is judging and judging the man harder then the women where in this scenario it feels like the women is the shady one..aisa kyon hai ke har baari bas mard ko hi judge karo even though evidence ho ya na ho but mard hi hamesha galat hai..could have been miss kajal using him too just like all other men in her Yaadon ka dabba and Instead of accusing armaan she could have every very well warned him too but nah ..woh behan ko karna hai caa again aurat is the forever victim and forever the bailbhuddhi somehow..*sigh*

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Sach aaj diya bahut zyaada kamzore dikh rahi thi. Haaye meim bechari type😆😆😆😆usse apni skin colour look sabse bahut faraq padta hai. Jab yeh show ki pehli promo aaya tha toh mujhe laga voh thoda khuli sochki ladki hogi. Lekin yaha toh kabhi ulta kabhi pulta hi lag rahi hai. Voh hotel scene bill aadha aadha share karna sab acha tha. Lekin ab kuch aur ban gayi. Ladka ladki meim farak na karo bolte hai. Lekin kahi baar vahi karti hai. Aaj bhi ek scene tha tume dekhkar lakta toh nahi tum books padti ho😆😆😆😆kisi ko dekhe kaise pata chalega yeh sab.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vedika97

Sach aaj diya bahut zyaada kamzore dikh rahi thi. Haaye meim bechari type😆😆😆😆usse apni skin colour look sabse bahut faraq padta hai. Jab yeh show ki pehli promo aaya tha toh mujhe laga voh thoda khuli sochki ladki hogi. Lekin yaha toh kabhi ulta kabhi pulta hi lag rahi hai. Voh hotel scene bill aadha aadha share karna sab acha tha. Lekin ab kuch aur ban gayi. Ladka ladki meim farak na karo bolte hai. Lekin kahi baar vahi karti hai. Aaj bhi ek scene tha tume dekhkar lakta toh nahi tum books padti ho😆😆😆😆kisi ko dekhe kaise pata chalega yeh sab.


uhhh this isn't about this scene... and She didn't looked weak to me.. she has been targetted since the start.. the guy in public harrassed her mocked her tried to physically abuse her just for ehr color when she had nothign to do with him she was just havign a good time in public palce.. how is she weak in that.. dia was in character and her reaction was fully understandable and realistic and in sync with the character.. she was being bullied yet again by a loser like arjun for no fault of her own he was dumping his own thrash on ehr caz he had that ego and that oph main mard and just caz this girl is less attractive or pretty ic an be trash to her.. take my bitterness on her yeah right..


there is a huge difference bewteen Weak and vulnerable.. Dia got vulnerable and shaken but she wasn;t weak which si why she answerd him back and tired to leave the spot she faced him and did not act as able even when she was being bullied and abused in public and holding her head high.. so no she is NOT weak by any means.. vulenerability in such situation is very realistic and strong se strong person can get Vulenrable..



also that tumhe dekh ke nahi lagta .. it is a very conversational thing a perception thing and that is very common and usual.. and they are trying to get to know each other guessing each other's personality hobbies triaits that has no issue IMO again..


again this is not what am saying.. my post is why is it that women are given free pass that is in case of kajal but a man is not when the same evidence was there... why is society like that and why not the same benefit of doubt is given to a man that he could be used too.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli


uhhh this isn't about this scene... and She didn't looked weak to me.. she has been targetted since the start.. the guy in public harrassed her mocked her tried to physically abuse her just for ehr color when she had nothign to do with him she was just havign a good time in public palce.. how is she weak in that.. dia was in character and her reaction was fully understandable and realistic and in sync with the character.. she was being bullied yet again by a loser like arjun for no fault of her own he was dumping his own thrash on ehr caz he had that ego and that oph main mard and just caz this girl is less attractive or pretty ic an be trash to her.. take my bitterness on her yeah right..


there is a huge difference bewteen Weak and vulnerable.. Dia got vulnerable and shaken but she wasn;t weak which si why she answerd him back and tired to leave the spot she faced him and did not act as able even when she was being bullied and abused in public and holding her head high.. so no she is NOT weak by any means.. vulenerability in such situation is very realistic and strong se strong person can get Vulenrable..



also that tumhe dekh ke nahi lagta .. it is a very conversational thing a perception thing and that is very common and usual.. and they are trying to get to know each other guessing each other's personality hobbies triaits that has no issue IMO again..


again this is not what am saying.. my post is why is it that women are given free pass that is in case of kajal but a man is not when the same evidence was there... why is society like that and why not the same benefit of doubt is given to a man that he could be used too.

Diya aur kajal ka scene maine nahi dekha hai. Issliye asj ka scene example de rahi thi. Voh scene dekhne ke baad apna pov sahi se bataungi.smiley20

Maine diya ko kamzore iss base pe kaha tha joh pehle promo meim joh diya thi ab epi meim joh diya mil rahi hai undonom meim faraq hai. Promo wali diya indirectly hi sahi uski upar uda hua galat baat usse vahi pe bina jijakte jawab de diya. Vaise diya epi meim bahut kam mil rahi hai.

Society ki soch wali baat kahum toh ek example batati hoom. Ek baar tv pe news aaya tha ki ek ladke ne 15 saal ki umsr ki laki ko kidnap kiya. Yeh pehli joh headline thi. Uske baad news aayi. Ladki ne uss ladke se khudka umar 23 bola tha. Aur voh donom ek dusre se pyaar bhi karti thi. Ladki khud uske saath apni marzi se gaya tha. Phir bhi ladki ko chod diya naam tak mention nahi kiya lekin ladke ko arrest karkke photo bhi daal di. Shaayad ladkiyom ke saath aksar bura hota hai aur bura karne wala aksar mard hi hota hai aisa sab maan ne lagi hai. Ek ladki agar zore se chillake bol diya ki usne mere saath zabardasti ki toh log usse ki pitai shuru karti hai. Lekin ulta hua toh poochenge koi ladki aisa kyun karegi? Sab logom ki soch pe depend hoti hai.

Joh mujhe samajh aaya maine vahi keh rahi hoom main galat bhi ho sakta hoom.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vedika97

Diya aur kajal ka scene maine nahi dekha hai. Issliye asj ka scene example de rahi thi. Voh scene dekhne ke baad apna pov sahi se bataungi.smiley20

Maine diya ko kamzore iss base pe kaha tha joh pehle promo meim joh diya thi ab epi meim joh diya mil rahi hai undonom meim faraq hai. Promo wali diya indirectly hi sahi uski upar uda hua galat baat usse vahi pe bina jijakte jawab de diya. Vaise diya epi meim bahut kam mil rahi hai.

Society ki soch wali baat kahum toh ek example batati hoom. Ek baar tv pe news aaya tha ki ek ladke ne 15 saal ki umsr ki laki ko kidnap kiya. Yeh pehli joh headline thi. Uske baad news aayi. Ladki ne uss ladke se khudka umar 23 bola tha. Aur voh donom ek dusre se pyaar bhi karti thi. Ladki khud uske saath apni marzi se gaya tha. Phir bhi ladki ko chod diya naam tak mention nahi kiya lekin ladke ko arrest karkke photo bhi daal di. Shaayad ladkiyom ke saath aksar bura hota hai aur bura karne wala aksar mard hi hota hai aisa sab maan ne lagi hai. Ek ladki agar zore se chillake bol diya ki usne mere saath zabardasti ki toh log usse ki pitai shuru karti hai. Lekin ulta hua toh poochenge koi ladki aisa kyun karegi? Sab logom ki soch pe depend hoti hai.

Joh mujhe samajh aaya maine vahi keh rahi hoom main galat bhi ho sakta hoom.


The promo is overall roundup..t is a journey for dia . She does fight back but she still.has stigma to get over from which will take time.. the promo you Are referring is the general show ka not this week wala..and honestly even then I personally find dia actually strong even with her vulnerabilities and insecurities she is not abla rotlu ..yehi toh problem hai ke she doesn't show her pain and hurt that often..ofcourse she gets bitter and ho jaati hai hurt but then she tries to absorb it all nd share nahinkarti ke hurt hota gai and ghussa kisi aur cheez pe nikaal deti hai like her hair or ab yeh rishte ko Haan

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Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli


The promo is overall roundup..t is a journey for dia . She does fight back but she still.has stigma to get over from which will take time.. the promo you Are referring is the general show ka not this week wala..and honestly even then I personally find dia actually strong even with her vulnerabilities and insecurities she is not abla rotlu ..yehi toh problem hai ke she doesn't show her pain and hurt that often..ofcourse she gets bitter and ho jaati hai hurt but then she tries to absorb it all nd share nahinkarti ke hurt hota gai and ghussa kisi aur cheez pe nikaal deti hai like her hair or ab yeh rishte ko Haan

I think voh jhoot hai😃 agar nahi bhi phir bhi issbaar diya hi phirse hurt hoga aur saath meim armaan palki bhi.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Haha I didn't realize you'd made a topic on this....only saw it just now😆


My two cents - I find the entire Diya-Kajal "friendship" to be a bit gimmicky in the name of "no judgement" zone.....lol Diya is being used as a prop in the storyline to justify Kajal's lifestyle choices.....lol for all the repetition of "no judgement, no judgement", I don't really find any real connection happening between the two women - their convos only consist of Kajal wallowing in her miseries and crying about the men who left her while Diya just seems to keep absorbing her life gyaans.....lol jo Kaajal bole, woh Diya ko instantly credible lag jaata hai even if she only has bits and pieces of the whole picture.


Pehle Diya judged Armaan so hard vis a vis her presumption over his past with Kajal....then the moment Kajal gave him a clean chit, it was all out of sight, out of mind for Diya😆


It's obviously easier for women to band together on such topics of being hurt or betrayed by men.....lol understandable hai why Diya gravitates to that narrative having been hurt so many times callously by men too just in a different way than however Kajal has been hurt. But Diya seems to be conflating Kajal's confusions in life with her own situation and it's not really the same......Kajal can't seem to make up her mind about what she really wants in life and mostly seems to be spiraling in loneliness and depression.....I get the sense that she has latched on to Diya as someone who easily keeps listening to her endless pitiful rona dhona of main bechaari akeli mardon ki sataayi.


The interactions are all happening on a very high level right now....like they only meet for Diya to either blindly absorb anything Kajal says to her or to set up some potential MU vis a vis Armaan.....lol.....I'm not really warming up to this so called friendship much....genuine vibe nahin hota cuz frankly Diya still hasn't really opened up to anyone in the story....bas fleeting moments hote hain and then she retreats into her shell to just go through her daily routine.

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