Family?🤔🤔🤔🤔

Hello All

I am wondering why anupamaa is putting baa, vanraj and kaavya as family and there opinions are really important rather than speaking to her mother and brother. Her kids should be happy for her rather than be the dictator of her life by this default vanraj (& baa)will be able to continue trying to be an hindrance on her life.

Why?????can't she let go....

Copying my thoughts on Family from another thread.

Family means people who love and support you unconditionally, where all are treated equally with respect. Her current definition of family and elder is broken, skewed, she gets zero respect, she is only abused and exploited. This is not family, had they shown this, I would have applauded them. Heck, if it was blood relation, I would have still understood, but what is her relation to Baa. Damn, if you happen to stay 25 years with same land lord in rented house, is this respect and adoration you will give them. That's the sad truth of this relation, Anu was never accepted or treated as DIL ever by Baa.

I wont talk about the other2, waste of time..

Of course her ex will not agree to her marriage.. and more likely than not his current wife and mom will support him … so in what world does it make sense for Anupama to seek THEIR approval? She may have moved out of the house physically months ago , but mentally and emotionally she is still stuck over there.

that’s the problem, makers are stuck on showing the female lead as a noble and sacrificing mom but they made Anupama behave so illogical that she is now pretty much putting herself absolutely last every damn time and in my opinion that doesn’t make her a good role model for anyone.

Originally posted by: HappySmiles

Of course her ex will not agree to her marriage.. and more likely than not his current wife and mom will support him … so in what world does it make sense for Anupama to seek THEIR approval? She may have moved out of the house physically months ago , but mentally and emotionally she is still stuck over there.

that’s the problem, makers are stuck on showing the female lead as a noble and sacrificing mom but they made Anupama behave so illogical that she is now pretty much putting herself absolutely last every damn time and in my opinion that doesn’t make her a good role model for anyone.

She can be noble.. but this is plain idiotic behaviour. If vanraj was so special for her then why she divorced him

Originally posted by: Apurvachanda90

How is she a Role model.. she is the worst Lady.. what message makers are going to promote ke put yourself last.. Take everyone’s permission even if they are your ex, ex Mother in law n Ex husbands wife also 😂

She can be noble.. but this is plain idiotic behaviour. If vanraj was so special for her then why she divorced him

Exactly, even today she is so well behaved with Vanraj and how rude was she to Anuj. She is the worst role model ever. I would still say Anuj go back to USA, this Anu deserves and deep inside still wanted only Vanraj as her companion.

Originally posted by: Km181

Exactly, even today she is so well behaved with Vanraj and how rude was she to Anuj. She is the worst role model ever. I would still say Anuj go back to USA, this Anu deserves and deep inside still wanted only Vanraj as her companion.