Abhimanyu the biggest jerk and Aarohi is not evil! - Page 2

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Yeah even i am bored to read about arohi and abhi lets put some mirch masala in akshu's character 😆

Hai na! Seriously! Abhimanyu and Aarohi are so interesting that people just love to discuss about them again and again and again but Akshara mein woh baat hi nahi hai. There's nothing unique in her character. We have been watching the same old sanskari, selfless, mahaan, sacrificing FL since 00s. Kuch toh special hona chahiye usmein. 😆

Ok I read the whole post, and I basically understand you aren't a fan of the character abhimanyu, But he isnt wrong completely there are people who dont believe in love but when they actually fall in love are just over the top. Abhi has had his share of struggles as well we can not deny that because of aarohis manipulative actions and aksharas family jaap he almost lost the love of his life hadnt he?

Why are we sympathizing with aarohi because of what happened today? When the same thing happened when aarohi was the bride, she never supported akshara infact when it was her ceremony and the name of akshara flew by mistake above her name she had right royally accused her hadnt she? the same thing happened with akshara and no one in the family supported her, infact we remember very clearly the goenkas were very happy and supporting aarohi at that time ...

Hasn't aarohi been accusing akshara of something for years without her fault, yes I agree her public jilting by abhi wasnt justified but you wont get roses in return when you throw stones at someone and aarohi had very well manipulated her way to marry abhi to become the power couple.

I liked this statement that I had read in the forum that aarohi loved the idea of being mrs abhimanyu birla she never loved the man herself... aarohi doesnt understand love otherwise she would have understood her mother, her sister and her brother who love her unconditionally... her love is subject to a lot of conditions for her akshara isnt worthy of her love because she is simple... and abhimanyu is worthy because he is a well educated and renowned doctor.

Originally posted by: Life_Is_Dutiful

Hai na! Seriously! Abhimanyu and Aarohi are so interesting that people just love to discuss about them again and again and again but Akshara mein woh baat hi nahi hai. There's nothing unique in her character. We have been watching the same old sanskari, selfless, mahaan, sacrificing FL since 00s. Kuch toh special hona chahiye usmein. 😆

people like akshara are very mahaan and have high tolerance level but wont stand one dokha, if something like that happens they will turn into someone like anupama overnight

Abhimanyu has flaws but the way he gets villainised for so many things when arohi is seen as a bechari when her actions have had consequences. Yes Abhimanyu should not have proposed marriage and i think he does get flak for the same! But why should he not be rude to arohi who actually plans to separate the couple. He is impulsive because obviously he senses the threat.

Is arohi really a career oriented woman, or does she use her career as a shield for not being able to value relationships. When she didn't top the exams she projected all her shit on akshara, when Abhimanyu liked akshara instead of her, she was ready to accept a loveless marriage because she wanted that power. She was using Abhimanyu as a vehicle for entry into the family, nothing else.

mahima used to taunt her for being just an intern but she then used to take all on akshara, degrading her sister's career.

Well imho i have faced lots of taunts from my seniors as a junior doctor but never tried to bribe for sitting in an exam . If arohi was actually an career oriented person she would have said FU to both abhi & akshu and instead focused on being better. But for sake of drama, she competing with akshu because akshu ko dulha mil raha hai usko nahi.

Originally posted by: Life_Is_Dutiful

Hai na! Seriously! Abhimanyu and Aarohi are so interesting that people just love to discuss about them again and again and again but Akshara mein woh baat hi nahi hai. There's nothing unique in her character. We have been watching the same old sanskari, selfless, mahaan, sacrificing FL since 00s. Kuch toh special hona chahiye usmein. 😆

This was the best 😂😂😂 first of all I watch the serial for Abhira and Aarohi both as I find her interesting. Dekho what I say is if Aarohi has to blamed for whatever she did for Akshara, what about Akshara who behaved Mahaan and took all nonsense from her. Kept rejecting Abhi and accepted her blackmails . Didn't tell fire truth. For me here both needs to balance. If you do not have self respect and allow others to control you, yes they will control you. They will win over you. If any type of abuse is bad, taking that is also not right. Every person needs to learn to stand up for them. That is why I dislike girls more who do not speak up and accept any kind of abuse or blackmails giving stupid reasons be it before or after marriage. Yesterday was her best character that came out. Supported her sister and Abhi both. Equally balanced. That's the Akshara I love.

If Akshara would have spoken from childhood and handled her sister well she had also Goenkas support. I have seen Goenkas are not like if Akshara fights with Aarohi or Aarohi fights with Akshara they care much. If she did all that for Sirat how did it suddenly disappear after confession. Yes she deserves happieness and I am proud she took right call on marriage day. That doesnt mean blaming Akshara or Abhimanyu makes Aarohi Saint. No for me all these 3 are grey characters.

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

This was the best 😂😂😂 first of all I watch the serial for Abhira and Aarohi both as I find her interesting. Dekho what I say is if Aarohi has to blamed for whatever she did for Akshara, what about Akshara who behaved Mahaan and took all nonsense from her. Kept rejecting Abhi and accepted her blackmails . Didn't tell fire truth. For me here both needs to balance. If you do not have self respect and allow others to control you, yes they will control you. They will win over you. If any type of abuse is bad, taking that is also not right. Every person needs to learn to stand up for them. That is why I dislike girls more who do not speak up and accept any kind of abuse or blackmails giving stupid reasons be it before or after marriage. Yesterday was her best character that came out. Supported her sister and Abhi both. Equally balanced. That's the Akshara I love.

If Akshara would have spoken from childhood and handled her sister well she had also Goenkas support. I have seen Goenkas are not like if Akshara fights with Aarohi or Aarohi fights with Akshara they care much. If she did all that for Sirat how did it suddenly disappear after confession. Yes she deserves happieness and I am proud she took right call on marriage day. That doesnt mean blaming Akshara or Abhimanyu makes Aarohi Saint. No for me all these 3 are grey characters.

Yes all are grey even i mentioned abhira are not saint its just that arohi is not less faulty in all this just because she is crying we can not ignore her deeds in the past 😂

Abhira has cried enough for what they have done in the past. They faced their bit of punishment for all bad things that has happend in the past and current. But now its arohi's turn.

Looking at abhi's family dynamics he must have suffered alot in childhood. Akshu stayed away from her house.

So its only arohi who was leading royal life now its her turn to pay back

What's the definition of evil ? 😕 For all we know tomorrow she might have plotted the whole kaand and show herself innocent just so that abhimanyu stops doubting her . Or akshu stops abhimanyu 🤢

If abhimanyu is blaming her , she gave him reasons . She wants to separate abhira , she admitted to herself . She is jealous of her sister and she has always been evil to her . Abhimanyu is protective towards his loved ones , be it his mom or akshu. He reacts the same way with his father who btw claims to have good intentions as a father..all through his life he couldn't see that he can get abhimanyus love if he treats manjari well. He was competing for abhi's love coz he never considered manjari as his own . It's the same with aru . When she stops competing for the love and attention, she will realize it was always there for her . For people to treat her well, she also needs to do it. It's a two way street.

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

This was the best 😂😂😂 first of all I watch the serial for Abhira and Aarohi both as I find her interesting. Dekho what I say is if Aarohi has to blamed for whatever she did for Akshara, what about Akshara who behaved Mahaan and took all nonsense from her. Kept rejecting Abhi and accepted her blackmails . Didn't tell fire truth. For me here both needs to balance. If you do not have self respect and allow others to control you, yes they will control you. They will win over you. If any type of abuse is bad, taking that is also not right. Every person needs to learn to stand up for them. That is why I dislike girls more who do not speak up and accept any kind of abuse or blackmails giving stupid reasons be it before or after marriage. Yesterday was her best character that came out. Supported her sister and Abhi both. Equally balanced. That's the Akshara I love.

If Akshara would have spoken from childhood and handled her sister well she had also Goenkas support. I have seen Goenkas are not like if Akshara fights with Aarohi or Aarohi fights with Akshara they care much. If she did all that for Sirat how did it suddenly disappear after confession. Yes she deserves happieness and I am proud she took right call on marriage day. That doesnt mean blaming Akshara or Abhimanyu makes Aarohi Saint. No for me all these 3 are grey characters.

So so true. It's not right to blame just one person. All 3 of them are responsible. No one is a saint here. In fact I feel Akshara too has been equally at fault but nobody makes long long posts on her because she's so dull and boring. Somewhere Akshara's unnecessary sacrifice, staying silent, encouraging Aarohi to bully her in the name of sister love, lying to Abhimanyu that she had left the medical camp when he was fighting for his life inside the fire room, etc. created more problems than what Abhimanyu and Aarohi did.

I noticed one thing in the current episodes. Akshara is kinda being insensitive to Aarohi. "Abhimanyu is ur jija", "Fulfill ur duties as a saali", "Aaru see my wedding card" her behavior was not right. That gal is still trying to move on from the humiliation she faced on the wedding day. Akshara should give her time and space. She can't expect Aarohi to forget all that so soon. She needs time...that's why I feel Aarohi should leave Udaipur for her own good as well as Abhira's good. Her jealousy and anger is not just affecting Abhira but herself too.

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

This was the best 😂😂😂 first of all I watch the serial for Abhira and Aarohi both as I find her interesting. Dekho what I say is if Aarohi has to blamed for whatever she did for Akshara, what about Akshara who behaved Mahaan and took all nonsense from her. Kept rejecting Abhi and accepted her blackmails . Didn't tell fire truth. For me here both needs to balance. If you do not have self respect and allow others to control you, yes they will control you. They will win over you. If any type of abuse is bad, taking that is also not right. Every person needs to learn to stand up for them. That is why I dislike girls more who do not speak up and accept any kind of abuse or blackmails giving stupid reasons be it before or after marriage. Yesterday was her best character that came out. Supported her sister and Abhi both. Equally balanced. That's the Akshara I love.

If Akshara would have spoken from childhood and handled her sister well she had also Goenkas support. I have seen Goenkas are not like if Akshara fights with Aarohi or Aarohi fights with Akshara they care much. If she did all that for Sirat how did it suddenly disappear after confession. Yes she deserves happieness and I am proud she took right call on marriage day. That doesnt mean blaming Akshara or Abhimanyu makes Aarohi Saint. No for me all these 3 are grey characters.

No all three arent grey, according to me abhimanyu and aarohi have certain shades of grey in them while akshara isnt grey all she wishes is her families happiness and love, she is pretty strong with her decisions and sticks to them which has been proven time and again, lets take incidents as example when she rejected abhimanyu she stuck to it, she never made any advances from her side towards abhimanyu she only backed out when abhi threatened her with a suicide otherwise she was in full mood to convince abhi to marry aarohi... now that she took a decision to stick with abhi she is strong and firm with it.

Abhi is only grey to people who are bad towards the people he loves his mother, family and niel and now akshu while aarohi is downright grey even with her family. she only uses people for her benefit and her family being the family puts up with it.... but the minute abhi knew the truth he pulled the strings. Everyone in the family knows about aarohis jealous nature and anger issues and to the levels she can stoop but they put up with it.. Yet again when akshu finds a little bit of happiness aarohi fumes, she always wants akshu to be a level lower than her which doesnt happen

akshu and abhi both have their heart in the right place while aarohi doesnt her intentions arent completely malicious but they are close enough

All he did was using aarohi .. he never wanted to marry because he thought she saved him, he wanted to marry her after hearing Akshara's words as how aarohi is the right match, so to take revenge he decided to use aarohi For some reason, I didn't put those things together consciously. I got lost in the crowd that believed he was entirely for his mom, but yeah the timing. His anger when he crushed the rose, then ran straight home to say I'll marry whoever you choose. It was motivated as revenge. His taunting Akshara right after the decision was made, the song "jinke aage ji..."; it wasn't entirely a sacrifice. He wanted to hurt her and that's human. He barely went through with it cause you can see his stand wilter in front of her.

People said he was being loyal to akshara even after being married to Aarohi...that's the most weird mentality of people in forum here... You should be loyal to the person you are marrying and not to a girl whom you met on a 3 day trip and you are obsessed with...

That reminds me of the premise of a Pakistani drama pehli si Mohabbat where two star-crossed lovers are separated and even after marriage to other people, they couldn't let go of their feelings. The spouse of the male lead was in love with her husband, they consummated their marriage and had a daughter, yet for many years she had to watch her husband be in love with another. It's a painful situation, emotional cheating even though he made it clear to her why he was in this marriage. She said throughout their marriage, he was incomplete because he left a huge part of himself with his former mehbooba. At the end of the show, it showed the two star-crossed lovers finding closure and moving forward independently which I found beautiful. I doubt itv would have a similar ending where it shows people moving on from their first love but I think it would be great to see.

Maybe Akshara having another male opposite her where he understands her in ways Abhi wishes he could, no marriage drama though. I think introducing a confidante of Akshara’s, male whose not a part of her family, would allow Abhira to explore different shades of their relationship and become more well rounded people.