Abhimanyu the biggest jerk and Aarohi is not evil! - Page 3

Originally posted by: Life_Is_Dutiful

So so true. It's not right to blame just one person. All 3 of them are responsible. No one is a saint here. In fact I feel Akshara too has been equally at fault but nobody makes long long posts on her because she's so dull and boring. Somewhere Akshara's unnecessary sacrifice, staying silent, encouraging Aarohi to bully her in the name of sister love, lying to Abhimanyu that she had left the medical camp when he was fighting for his life inside the fire room, etc. created more problems than what Abhimanyu and Aarohi did.

I noticed one thing in the current episodes. Akshara is kinda being insensitive to Aarohi. "Abhimanyu is ur jija", "Fulfill ur duties as a saali", "Aaru see my wedding card" her behavior was not right. That gal is still trying to move on from the humiliation she faced on the wedding day. Akshara should give her time and space. She can't expect Aarohi to forget all that so soon. She needs time...that's why I feel Aarohi should leave Udaipur for her own good as well as Abhira's good. Her jealousy and anger is not just affecting Abhira but herself too.

Haa nice post. I didn't knew there is one more person who thinks exactly like me here. Will tag you going forward in my posts now 😊😊😊

Originally posted by: Baarish_Sim

All he did was using aarohi .. he never wanted to marry because he thought she saved him, he wanted to marry her after hearing Akshara's words as how aarohi is the right match, so to take revenge he decided to use aarohi For some reason, I didn't put those things together consciously. I got lost in the crowd that believed he was entirely for his mom, but yeah the timing. His anger when he crushed the rose, then ran straight home to say I'll marry whoever you choose. It was motivated as revenge. His taunting Akshara right after the decision was made, the song "jinke aage ji..."; it wasn't entirely a sacrifice. He wanted to hurt her and that's human. He barely went through with it cause you can see his stand wilter in front of her.

People said he was being loyal to akshara even after being married to Aarohi...that's the most weird mentality of people in forum here... You should be loyal to the person you are marrying and not to a girl whom you met on a 3 day trip and you are obsessed with...

That reminds me of the premise of a Pakistani drama pehli si Mohabbat where two star-crossed lovers are separated and even after marriage to other people, they couldn't let go of their feelings. The spouse of the male lead was in love with her husband, they consummated their marriage and had a daughter, yet for many years she had to watch her husband be in love with another. It's a painful situation, emotional cheating even though he made it clear to her why he was in this marriage. She said throughout their marriage, he was incomplete because he left a huge part of himself with his former mehbooba. At the end of the show, it showed the two star-crossed lovers finding closure and moving forward independently which I found beautiful. I doubt itv would have a similar ending where it shows people moving on from their first love but I think it would be great to see.

Maybe Akshara having another male opposite her where he understands her in ways Abhi wishes he could, no marriage drama though. I think introducing a confidante of Akshara’s, male whose not a part of her family, would allow Abhira to explore different shades of their relationship and become more well rounded people.

There are many movies which is good in this case like hum dil de chuke sanam is one of the classic movie where she gets married because of family pressure but she told him she loves some one else and ajay devgan character took a decision to unite them which melt her heart towards her and she chose ajay over sameer.

But the in this show the main problem is that arohi knew from the beginning both love each other. Even he kind of told her she will only get his name nothing else which girl on the earth will agree for such marriage 😆 unless she hardly cares for her marriage or relationship. Arohi's character is written in such a way she will never show this behaviour.

If arohi would have tried uniting abhira with her own will which would have showed abhi how much she loves him and if akshu again rejects him for anymore reason i would have completely supported arohi as that would have been potrayed as akshu's mistake as she always choses her family over abhi and her loves and arohi tried every possible thing to give happiness to ml.

We have never seen her trying or giving a chance for abhira. If that's wierd mentality then yes i am wierd 😊 i really believe abhi will still continue loving akshu even after marriage as sooner or later he will come to know akshu did sacrificed herself for aru. 😊 or if he would have got that photo post that marriege he would have cursed arohi every day for all this mess 😊

When gen 3 started, I absolutely adored Abhi’s character - suave, smart, kind, principled. Akshu to me was boring as hell and I didn’t like Aarohi mainly coz she was Sirat’s 🤢 daughter.

After following the show, Akshu is still boring, Aaru’s characteristics are interesting - with various shades, whereas Abhi has fallen. After rejection from Akshu and till Manish accepted him, he behaved like a goon, obsessive, jerk.

And today in the temple , his reaction was way over the top! Like he is threatening Aru - that “if you were not in a temple, i don’t know what I would’ve done with you”. Disgusting! I mean what does that mean? What he’d do? Violence? Or what is so unimaginable in the way he’d punish her?
There is a way to scold/blame/doubt her like the Goenkas did but threatening her in that tone is just pathetic. How was Kairav (who is very protective of his sisters) okay with that tone and dialogues?

Originally posted by: Baarish_Sim

People who are so much in favour of this Arohi's character let me remind you she did fraud of buying a medical seat

This is a scam and those are in medical field can surely understand that how much wrong it is.

Arohi is extremely selfish, impulsive and self centered girl. Forget about her sister, she doesn't care anything about her other family members too

For Kairav and Aneesha too she gets jealous and told to manish about them.

She could hide the fact for some time for altleast for her brother's sake who love both sisters equally.

She expect Akshu to hide major things about her from family and others but herself couldn't due to her own insecurities.

She is extremely pathetic.

Originally posted by: Sense9

When gen 3 started, I absolutely adored Abhi’s character - suave, smart, kind, principled. Akshu to me was boring as hell and I didn’t like Aarohi mainly coz she was Sirat’s 🤢 daughter.

After following the show, Akshu is still boring, Aaru’s characteristics are interesting - with various shades, whereas Abhi has fallen. After rejection from Akshu and till Manish accepted him, he behaved like a goon, obsessive, jerk.

And today in the temple , his reaction was way over the top! Like he is threatening Aru - that “if you were not in a temple, i don’t know what I would’ve done with you”. Disgusting! I mean what does that mean? What he’d do? Violence? Or what is so unimaginable in the way he’d punish her?
There is a way to scold/blame/doubt her like the Goenkas did but threatening her in that tone is just pathetic. How was Kairav (who is very protective of his sisters) okay with that tone and dialogues?