Molkki Chatting Corner #49 - Page 107

Originally posted by: pallavi_p28

Murder of English

Both of you stand together separately

All of you stand in straight circle😄

# Bosslady

I get very perturbed by such murder of EnglishWoh baat aur hai, ki apne mother toungue ka murder main khud hi kar deti hoon😭

Originally posted by: pallavi_p28

Murder of English

Both of you stand together separately

All of you stand in straight circle😄

# Bosslady

Sargu tag se hashtag bann gayi hai 🤣

Originally posted by: Nezuko

Pehle toh maine BDMS ko bdsm padha

Mera dimag Wahi ghum gaya

Nezu meri behen 🤗

THANK GOD I am not the only one who misread🤪

Aur main soch bhi rahi hoon ki yeh Sappu ne 'S' aur 'M' ko ulta kar diya🤣

Originally posted by: kenika

Accha aaj ek badi ajeeb si yaa fir yuu kahu filmy si situation mere saamne aayi hai..... Please aap sab batana ki iske andar kya karna chahiye ab..

Actually mera ek friend hai..uski bahut jaldi engagement hone wali thi.ladki BDMS kar rahi hai..aur hostel mai rehti hai....ladki bahut acchi thi

Matlab she claim that she love him.. Dedh saal se unka relationship hai... Arrange marriage thi vaise.. Par dono acche se ek dusre ko jaante samjhte the..bahut acchi banti thi dono ki...ghumne jaana.. Call pe baatein sab hota tha..aur kafi close the matlab..

Par valentine week mai vo ladki mere friend ko cheat karte paayi gayi...🤪

Pakdi kaise gayi ye bahut interesting baat hai par yaha bahut lambi ho jaayegi vo baat..🤣😛

Aur interesting baat to ye hai ki usne affair sirf 4 din kiya... Aur 4 dino mai hii pakdi gayi...🤣🤣🤣

Pehle to usne victim card khelne ki bhi koshish ki dar ke maare...Par mere friend ne uska hii sach sabko bata diya...

Ab jab sabko pata chal gaya ki ladki ladke ko cheat kar rahi hai..ladki ke ghar walon ko bhi..

To unhone sabse maafi maangi ladki ko ghar le gaye vo..khub maara bhi..

Par ab ladki kehti hai ki usse galti ho gayi... Vo behak gayi thi...pata nahi usne vo sab kyu kiya..vo sab kiye ki maafi maang rahi hai aur keh rahi hai ki usse maaf kar diya jaaye aur ek aur chance diya jaaye..

Par ladke ke ghar walon ko lagta hai ki kya pata ye jhooth bol rahi ho usne pehle bhi ye kiya ho.. Aur agar nahi bhi kiya ho to kya gurantee hai ki aage ye aisa nahi karegi..

Vaise ladki vaisi hai nahi... Usne pehle kabhi ye kiya nahi hai...matalab sources se pata lagaya to yahi baat samne aayi ki ladki sach keh rahi hai.. Usne bas ek hii baar ye kiya hai..

Vaise sabse interesting ye hai ki ladka ladki ko maaf karne ke liye taiyaar hai.. Vo kehta hai ki galti ho jaati hai maaf kar dena chahiye... But ab confused bhi hai ki ek baar trust tut chuka hai.. Dubara karna mushkil hai..🙄

To aap logo ko kya lagta hai ladke ko kya karna chahiye usko ladki ko maaf karke rishta fix kar lena chahiye ya fir iss rishte ko khatam kar dena chahiye..

Galtiyaan to ho sakti hai na kisi se bhi to maaf kar dena chahiye ki kya pata aage jaake bhi ye aisa kare aisa soch ke ye rishta tod dena chahiye..

Ladki ke gharwalon ki bahut buri haalat hai.. Vo to itne sharminda hai..

To aap logo ko kya lagta hai kya karna chahiye..😝

Sorry ye bahut lamba ho gaya par mujhe seriously janna hai kya kahenge aap iss par..😊

It is hard to give a suggestion based on hearing one side of the story, plus everyone's circumstances are different. But some things(obvious ones) to keep in mind -

- This is a problem to be solved only by the 2 people involved. Others in the family can suggest, but not coerce.

- Trust is one of the corner stones of marriage. They both can ask themselves some questions to gauge this - Does the boy really believe that the girl is telling the truth that this was a 1 time slip? Likewise, the girl can ask herself how she can live with this dent being poked at for the rest of her life?

- The point " agar nahi bhi kiya ho to kya gurantee hai ki aage nahi karegi." this can be applied to any individual. Think about it, what is the guarntee that the boy wont do something like this in the future? He maybe conditioned not to do it, and in all likelihood he may not. But there is no 100% guarantee that he wont. People change with time, (s)he can too.

- Most importantly, if at all the boy forgives her and move forward with the marriage, one thing he must do is never ever bring this up about her in any context. He has to make a promise to himself to forget it. There is no point in opening old wounds.

btw, I am interested to know what is your opinion about this? What would you do in this situation?

Originally posted by: pallavi_p28

Jab ladke ne ladki ko maaf kar diya

To sab thik hai.

Baat aage badhni chahiye. Galati ho jati hai

Yes even i feel.. But agar ladke ki family yeh sab bhool nahi sakte toh phir aage jaake problem hogi.

Aur ladka abhi toh maaf kar raha hai lekin aage jaake agar usne phir se ladki ko taunt kiya ya pareshaan kiya toh kya hoga...

Ladki ko agar lagta hai ki ladka genuine hai aur maaf kar raha hai toh she should be with him now.

Dekho shaadi se pehle aur baad mein kaafi difference hota hai... Pehle sab accha hi dikhtaa hai baad mein difficulty pata chalti hai aur adjustment comes into picture..

Parents ( in laws)ka nature bhi bada maayne rakhta hai ... Toh yeh sab baaton ka dhyaan rakhkar ladki should take the decision.

I read Sapna's post first thing in the morning with my coffee! My head is spinning.

sapna, is this the friend who you discussed Ramayan with?

Originally posted by: kenika

aayu se to bahut kuch sikha ja sakta hai.. Sabse bada to time management..😊

Matalab engineering bhi kar lii job kar rahe hai.. Aur ek saath itni chije dekh bhi lete hai...👏

Sikha do yaar time manegment..😆

Kitne ghate hote hai aapke din mai..🤔

Areee...Itni taarif karke mujhe rulaogi kya😭😭🤧🤧🤧

Aisa kuch nahi hai....Yeh toh abhi abhi itna dekhna shuru kiya....Baaki pehle toh bohot restrictions the mere pe😈

Originally posted by: pallavi_p28

Ek aur, ek aur...

Police wale ne darwaaza khatkhataya..

Lady- kaun

Ji hum police hai. Aapke husband ka accident ho gya hai. Unke uper se truck gujar gai. Wo ekdum paapad ban gaye hai

Lady- to darwaza kholne ki kya jaroorat hai, niche se hi sarka do🤣

Yeh lady ka pakka affair chal raha hoga😎🤣

Originally posted by: Nezuko

Pehle toh maine BDMS ko bdsm padha

Mera dimag Wahi ghum gaya

Same !!😬😬

Ab realize ho raha hai mere dimag main kitna kachra bhara hai🥺😆

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

Nezu meri behen 🤗

THANK GOD I am not the only one who misread🤪

Aur main soch bhi rahi hoon ki yeh Sappu ne 'S' aur 'M' ko ulta kar diya🤣

Mere ko laga ladka bhut shareef and ladki ka interest 😗😗😗

Khair koi nai