Originally posted by: chinnu_kaku
we talk,we fight just like other couples do.its not that i am in abusive marriage.the thing is both of our ideologies mismatch.there is huge difference in our thought pattern itself.compatability issues you know.every man in this world have a vanraj hidden within themselves.in parenting itself there will be huge difference.both of us cannot separate,we both talk about divorce in anger,kids are the ones who are keeping us together.he has never starved me of anything or interferes in my dressing sense.its like u know my father used to be a control freak this guys doesnt even care where i go! he has that ego issues.let it be me or my saas we take decision against his wish and go ahead and that decision turns out a big failure ,he wont support us,his will say "u didnt listen to me, suffer".those days men have that thinking,listen to me,do what i say ,that attitude is there.if i fall sick he wont panick,he will be like when u didnt fall sick ? ignoring me,no care.as a husband he has given me food and shelter,shouldnt ask for more.cannot correct his mistake,if we say,he pinpoint past mistakes.he doesnt do anyhousehold work.my saas doesnt say anything.the list goes on.he knows how to shut someone.he wont tell your mistake on the spot,but will wait for the time to pinpoint that.these people will give their heart and sould to outsiders,but when we need help they behave thick skinned.
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