Aryan-Imlie/ AryLie Discussion Thread 26 🧿 - Page 78

Originally posted by: mltr16

@bold: she called our Aru......that??

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Chooja means a hen's male child.

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Arre berozgar patrakar is an a-grade narcissist. Pyar woh kisi se nahi kar sakta. Ab jab Imlie ke paas usse behtar career aur boyfriend hai toh he will go like all typical two-timing husbands:

"Main bhatak gaya tha ab ghar wapas aa gaya blah blah blah."

Yahi toh dikhaya tha aaj.

He's begrudgingly falling back for MC because usse Imlie nahi mili aur yeh single toh nahi reh sakta.

Agat MC rapist na hoti toh kaafi entertaining b-grade filmon ki tarah.

So you don't at all think that he genuinely could have been concerned for Malini? Keeping aside the fact that I hate her guts, she has stood by AKT in every way (in some cases, laid down beside AKT). Assuming he doesn't still want to believe that he was raped on purpose, I dont see why its out of the realm of possibility that he could be softening towards her again. Imlie ka na hona is obviously a catalyst. But still, genuine feeling ho bhi sakti hai, no?

Originally posted by: egle

So you don't at all think that he genuinely could have been concerned for Malini? Keeping aside the fact that I hate her guts, she has stood by AKT in every way (in some cases, laid down beside AKT). Assuming he doesn't still want to believe that he was raped on purpose, I dont see why its out of the realm of possibility that he could be softening towards her again. Imlie ka na hona is obviously a catalyst. But still, genuine feeling ho bhi sakti hai, no?

When I say he can't love anyone, it meant that his concern is always conditional on how much the opposite person does for him. His 'concern' is not unconditional like Aru. He won't negate himself for the other person.

Originally posted by: egle

So you don't at all think that he genuinely could have been concerned for Malini? Keeping aside the fact that I hate her guts, she has stood by AKT in every way (in some cases, laid down beside AKT). Assuming he doesn't still want to believe that he was raped on purpose, I dont see why its out of the realm of possibility that he could be softening towards her again. Imlie ka na hona is obviously a catalyst. But still, genuine feeling ho bhi sakti hai, no?

As far as i understand adi character uski genuine feelings are always below the convenient option.

He has always failed/shied away from tough decisions.

Atm it could be genuine feelings but that extends as far as he's not faced with another difficult choice, he'll flip faster than a tossed coin in that case.

Me and my feelings over everyone and everything else.

Originally posted by: Deltablues

When I say he can't love anyone, it meant that his concern is always conditional on how much the opposite person does for him. His 'concern' is not unconditional like Aru. He won't negate himself for the other person.

Ah now that I can get behind. He's always been the receiver first. He's never taken the first step so yes, I see your point.

There is no "toot ke pyaar" with him. It's "todh ke pyaar".

Originally posted by: SundariP

As far as i understand adi character uski genuine feelings are always below the convenient option.

He has always failed/shied away from tough decisions.

Atm it could be genuine feelings but that extends as far as he's not faced with another difficult choice, he'll flip faster than a tossed coin in that case.

Me and my feelings over everyone and everything else.

I cant believe I'm saying this but to play Devil's advocate, wasn't he (when GM was still AKT) the one to try to convince Imlie that they should admit the truth about their marriage? It was fairly soon after he realized that he loves Imlie (i'm ignoring the whole mess where he should have said something before he married Malini in the first place)

Aditya has taken such a wrong turn over the last few months that its become hard to give him credit even if its due. I have no sympathy for the AKT now. He's made his choices (or lack thereof) quite clear.

Originally posted by: libran90

Arre Aditya is as Delulu as DarinDiDi, usko apne se jyaada kuch dikhta hi nahi hai. Uss burbak ko lagta hai since Aryan is not as perfect and holier than thou so Imlie will leave him. Ek baat batao, even if she does, what makes you think that she will come back to you moron. Hadh hai. Ye to saala Malini ke tarah kshaatir bhi nahi hai. Kya hoga iss aadmi ka aur kab khatm hoga iska prakop

@bold: exactly. Behuda aadmi🤢

I have been watching this show from almost beginning, when Aditya brings her home after the initial forced marriage … their relationship never felt right to begin with …. And it’s just not about the wedding under pressure , it’s the character AKT, holier than thou attitude🙄🙄 He has overblown ego , granted who does not have ego but uska tho funda has always been like ‘My way or the highway’ … even when he used fight for Imli against Anu or his own family in the later episodes, To me it felt because it did not fit the way he thought about her or the certain situation…. About him falling in love with Imli despite being married to Malini , this may sound impolite but IMO he just liked the newness he felt with her 🤷🏻‍♀️, she used to almost worship him , go all the way to do anything for him and his family without any expectations from him , all that and after being in long term relationship with one person , you get used to them , you tend to know lots of their habits even many times guess their responses before they do ! Ask anyone who’s been married for long time … I can almost always gauge my husband’s reaction and his mood before he expresses it ! And initial spark / or what you call ‘honeymoon phase ‘ slowly dims down … this is when the actual strength of a relationship comes to test!! And I always felt Aditya failed there miserably, IMO he is responsible for Malini going down this precipice …

Even after marrying her second time I think there was a episode where he told Imli , to just come to him and only be with him / leave her job or something ( to me it translates as be subservient to me) and he will talk to Malini and make everything all right ! I was like you Fu**er 🤪 How can anyone call this guy a hero ???

The only thing going for this character was the original guy’s acting caliber … he used to pull it off … but the new fella … lord ! He is already falling flat on his face … it seems like he turning into loser negative character as days past but … kya bezzathi hoti rehethi hai uski aaj kal …

And betcha even if there is PF of Malini , she will reveal the extent she went for her undying love for him ,while Imli is the butterfly set out to look for greener pastures aka Aryan, And AKT will be like - Atleast Malini ne yeh sab kuch sirf mere liye kiya hai … vo kisi aur ki taraf deekti bhi nahi hai …crap ….🤢🤢🤢

Seriously all Imli has to realize is she needs to buzz off T’s lives … then Malini won’t leave the house with AKT, she has even said as much to her …. While some the T’s are the reason to pull back Imli , the bottom line is Imli I think needs to feel vindicated… all of them agree with her and give some form of ‘emotional punishment’ to Malini , but that ain’t happening once again , because they know it all but the baby she is having is their jackpot … even yesterday episode , they were all immediately up and about when they heard she is not keeping well .. in turn the baby … bas ghar ka chiraag chaahiye, typical Indian household mentality… there have been atrocious dialogues from Aparna , after the courtroom scene where she asks her husband to rejoice because they are gonna be grandparents , seriously lady I am gonna puke 🤢, do you realize what sort of union that grand child of yours is coming from and you are rejoicing? It’s not the child’s fault it’s completely innocent, but what it’s gonna get as it’s family is filled with absolute Jackasses ! 🙄🙄

Woah I can really Raaaannntttt….. 🤭

Originally posted by: egle

Ah now that I can get behind. He's always been the receiver first. He's never taken the first step so yes, I see your point.

There is no "toot ke pyaar" with him. It's "todh ke pyaar".

Exactly......it's like ki woh pyaar se hi insaan ko andar se thod ke rakh dega......which to some seems very organic .🤪

Originally posted by: egle

I cant believe I'm saying this but to play Devil's advocate, wasn't he (when GM was still AKT) the one to try to convince Imlie that they should admit the truth about their marriage? It was fairly soon after he realized that he loves Imlie (i'm ignoring the whole mess where he should have said something before he married Malini in the first place)

Aditya has taken such a wrong turn over the last few months that its become hard to give him credit even if its due. I have no sympathy for the AKT now. He's made his choices (or lack thereof) quite clear.

Yes he was. And that's didn't come out as taking the right decision rather again came out as me and my feelings are supreme.

Because he fell in love with imlie (that too was like unexplained, in-organic imo) he used the marriage excuse to justify that emotional cheating he did with his legal wife, best frraaand and 7-yr gf.

The right time for declaring his marriage would be before marrying malini getting a respectful annulment with imlie then marrying malini... And I'm saying this because he has this morally upright, speaker of truth mental as well as societal image.

Image is not everything, actions speak louder than words.

It's not hard for me to believe the downward arc because to me he's always come across as selfish and arrogant, big head, inflated ego, words-only-no-action person. And I'm saying this as a neutral audience over the year (my opinion got colored only after Aryan)

But not to mention i don't have good adi moments.

#1 getting meeti-SK married

#2 supporting imlie's education

#3 declaring himself as imlie's husband in front of family in Nishant's marriage (though from Nishant's pov i hate this, because adilie totally stole their thunder on their big day... Hate this)

But they are so few and far that they come across superficial at best and makes me believe it's more to re-enforce his societal image of acchha aadmi rather than inherent goodness.

Originally posted by: SundariP

Yes he was. And that's didn't come out as taking the right decision rather again came out as me and my feelings are supreme.

Because he fell in love with imlie (that too was like unexplained, in-organic imo) he used the marriage excuse to justify that emotional cheating he did with his legal wife, best frraaand and 7-yr gf.

The right time for declaring his marriage would be before marrying malini getting a respectful annulment with imlie then marrying malini... And I'm saying this because he has this morally upright, speaker of truth mental as well as societal image.

Image is not everything, actions speak louder than words.

It's not hard for me to believe the downward arc because to me he's always come across as selfish and arrogant, big head, inflated ego, words-only-no-action person. And I'm saying this as a neutral audience over the year (my opinion got colored only after Aryan)

But not to mention i don't have good adi moments.

#1 getting meeti-SK married

#2 supporting imlie's education

#3 declaring himself as imlie's husband in front of family in Nishant's marriage (though from Nishant's pov i hate this, because adilie totally stole their thunder on their big day... Hate this)

But they are so few and far that they come across superficial at best and makes me believe it's more to re-enforce his societal image of acchha aadmi rather than inherent goodness.

The whole falling in love with Imlie was weirdly quick and not believable, yes. Their whole relationship never sat quite right with me either.

I agree, a lot of his actions are driven by the need to be *seen* as a morally upright man, rather than an inherent goodness to simply show that through actions. A downfall for a character with such ego would usually be a pleasure to watch (and I'm not saying it isnt). Maybe I'm just trying to find a way in which his humanity can be redeemed. Its an off day for me when I am thinking about AKT rather than ASR.

Thanks Pooja, you've explained your POV very well.