To be with someone you love or who loves you....

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Posted: 3 years ago
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if ever in that situation then go ahead and choose the latter is how I sum up today's episode 😊


The two dynamics: Abhay-Deepika and Sia-Wasim are all in the same boat in their own way. We all dream for the ideal romance and marriage - All thanks to growing up with Yashraj and Dharma movies where all these movies advocate to doing ANYTHING to be with the one you love but is reality really found in such stories - maybe for a few blessed souls but for the majority its otherwise.


I remember as a kid loving Kuch kuch hota hai but as an adult rebuking it (I still revisit it in pieces for the iconic jodi and songs but thats it). I was waiting for something more raw...something not so simplistic and then came Jab We Met :):) It was the first mainstream hindi movie which busted your pyaar ek baar hota hai bullshit and kinda catalyzed the trend of normalizing a realistic take on relationships, romance and marriage.


Today's scenes of Abhay-Deepika and Sia-Wasim took me back to Aditya and Geet. When you unconditionally love someone, all you want is to see them happy and do everything in your capacity to make that happen. There is respect and pride in everything they do, however different they could be from you - you accept them, you hang out, as their mere company completes everything. That's what I saw in Abhay and Wasim today - there is absolutely no expectation of anything in return, they are aware that the person in front of them is into someone else but being for them and with them makes them happy...and that's all that matters :):)


So why not choose the person who loves you, if he/she is giving you everything you deserve: Love, respect, equality, time, compassion and no judgement. I hope Deepika and Sia break their shackles of wanting an idealistic Yashraj romance when in reality koi Raj nahi aane wala...but guess what aapka wala Aditya itna bura bhi nahi hai 😉


Let me know your thoughts guys :)

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I have nothing more to add..U just summed it up perfectly! Even I felt the Aditya Kashyap vibes from Abhay today..Let's see whether the Aditya's here gets their Geet's or not..❤️

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: DEBOLINA96

I have nothing more to add..U just summed it up perfectly! Even I felt the Aditya Kashyap vibes from Abhay today..Let's see whether the Aditya's here gets their Geet's or not..❤️

Since today's episode is about hope...I am exercising just that with you right now ❤️

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Posted: 3 years ago
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a well written post 😊

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Friendship is the base of every relationship, and specially in true love..The day Abhay became her friend, he leaved his ego, possessiveness and madness, and learnt to care for her happiness and normalcy, and thats how a person evolves in feelings and Abhay will be a greater person, if he learns that friendship is the biggest form of love..and being happy and normal in life can only make you positive and being loved by other person and not by doing silly things...


And I want Abhay to win in every form of phase of life, because he knows how to struggle and care for others..

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anuprerna_fan

Friendship is the base of every relationship, and specially in true love..The day Abhay became her friend, he leaved his ego, possessiveness and madness, and learnt to care for her happiness and normalcy, and thats how a person evolves in feelings and Abhay will be a greater person, if he learns that friendship is the biggest form of love..and being happy and normal in life can only make you positive and being loved by other person and not by doing silly things...


And I want Abhay to win in every form of phase of life, because he knows how to struggle and care for others..


Sahi hai. If there's any lesson to take from KKHH, it's that "love is friendship". Even in Jab We Met, Aditya first learned to be Geet's friend and support her unconditionally. Then she realized his true value. I hope something similar happens here with AbDeep.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Beautifully penned post by you, dear! 👏

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Posted: 3 years ago
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👏👏👏

Bilkul Sahi baat hai

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Posted: 3 years ago
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While most focus on AbDeep, I like that you were able to focus on Wasim's predicament with Sia too here❤️


I hope it takes time but both of them if possible find their ways to each other and if not, they come to share a good friendship which we already see budding 🤗

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: DEBOLINA96

I have nothing more to add..U just summed it up perfectly! Even I felt the Aditya Kashyap vibes from Abhay today..Let's see whether the Aditya's here gets their Geet's or not..❤️


True i ditto remember teh scene when Aditya comes to take Geet from the hostel in Simla and she also says same thing ki ye mat samazhana ki ab tumhara chance hai.. i loved how he responded, samazh gaya, yaad rakhunga


after watching the precap on friday, i thought Abhay might respond the same way :D:D:D

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