Why no reprimanding Malvika?

Malvika's behaviour with Vanraj isn't 'mann ka saaf bacho jaisa' behaviour. It's freakin inappropriate. And that's coming from me, a person who continues to hug and kiss her married guy friends.

Also, IIRC Vanraj has never ever come on to her. It's always Malvika doing that. Yet, Vanraj keeps getting reprimanded to stay in his limits and not a word is uttered to the woman. Kya logic hai ye? An adult behaving like that isn't cute or funny, yo?

I second you

Vanraj kare to character dheela mukku kare to raas leela...ye kaha ka nyaay hai my lord🤡

Dono k dono hi🤢

And plzz i'm not taking the crap that v manipulated her and blah blah bcz for god's sake she is not a fu***** child

Agree, how much ever strange it feels to say, but isame Vanraaj ki koi galati nahi hai...Ab tak!

Malvika is such a vague character that in attempt to keep her unpredictable and flexible, they forgot to give her any traits. Someone who has been abuse survivor, still suffers from its trauma and knows that Vanraj treated Anu in the most cruel way possible as wife, how can she seek comfort in Vanraj, that do akele together is just 🤬

But these makers have habit of blaming the one not at fault, warna drama kaha se layenge, may be they are trying to creat sympathy for Vanraj so that people can somehow be ok with his change of personality

Choti bacchi mukku depression ki patient hai and sab depression patient aise he act karte hai jaise mukku karti hai ! 😆

Wow 4th standard fail writer ko depression ke bare mai kuch bhi pata nahi hai and depression patients ke illness ka bhi mazak uda rahi hai aise wahiyat actions dikha kar 🤢

.Mukkus behaviour is strange. She has been acting weirdly taking liberty with all. We always blame that the woman should know her limits. I feel there has to be well defined boundaries that both genders must define and respect. For instance When Kavya was getting uncomfortably close Anuj stood up and asked her to move to her seat. Ladla on the other hand with his stories of pain and loneliness operating with an agenda gives people discomfort. He speaks of a very comfortable relationship he has that gives a creepy feeling.

Someone needs to talk to Mukku about her boundaries as her behaviour seems to be a sort of defiancedefiance and that is not the way to go about handling matters.

I never said vanraj is doodh ka dhula...wo to hai hi character less

I just said ki mukku is no doodh ki dhuli too in this matter (I'm not calling her characterless but yeah she is pure dumb)

I would have tolerated this freindship shit if she did not know about vanraj's past but abhi to she knows everything

It's like doing naagin dance with a snake and later complaining when it bites🤡

There is a fine line between being innocent and dumb and mukku needs to define the boundaries

Originally posted by: S.n.e.h

Agree, how much ever strange it feels to say, but isame Vanraaj ki koi galati nahi hai...Ab tak!

Malvika is such a vague character that in attempt to keep her unpredictable and flexible, they forgot to give her any traits.

You hit the bull's eye! Till now Malvika's only trait is having no filter about other people's lives & personal space. That's literally it.

It makes no sense. She travelled the world alone for 10 years. Shouldn't she be extremely culturally aware & worldly? Ya foreign home stays mein bhi logo ke husbands se chipakti thi & family affairs mein taang adaati thi? 🤪

Originally posted by: moonwearer

.Mukkus behaviour is strange. She has been acting weirdly taking liberty with all. We always blame that the woman should know her limits. I feel there has to be well defined boundaries that both genders must define and respect. For instance When Kavya was getting uncomfortably close Anuj stood up and asked her to move to her seat. Ladla on the other hand with his stories of pain and loneliness operating with an agenda gives people discomfort. He speaks of a very comfortable relationship he has that gives a creepy feeling.

Someone needs to talk to Mukku about her boundaries as her behaviour seems to be a sort of defiancedefiance and that is not the way to go about handling matters.

Anuj Kavya dynamic was exactly reverse, Anuj was at superior place and kavya was the one desparate to get in his good books. Anuj had clear upper hand in the situation to dictate boundries.

Between Vanraj Malavika, it's Malavika who is at superior place and Vanraj has not initiated anything...Yet... beyond formal courtesy of asking if you are ok, I would ask that to my boss if he is OK if I know the boss has been through any issue, the rest of conversation and interaction is driven by Malavika, and people tend to zelofy such behaviour from superiors as drawing a line to superiors can be taken as offense or impolite behavior and that would affect them directly. So when someone who can toss your career from one direction to other is being extra friendly one just tries to go along the flow.

I get your point that both genders need to draw boundaries, I agree, but in real time the call remains with Superiors in most cases.

I think they were trying to say that they don't mean to shame Malvika.. But women need to continue to draw a line even in a modern, feminist world.

Men too can get uncomfortable with needless proximity, physical and emotional. And like you said, Vanraj isn't in a position to draw a line. Switch Mukku-Raj's genders, and Malvika's behaviour would be extremely exploitative.

We're all saying the same thing.