All men of dhadkan are just 🤢 - Page 3

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

Relationship between parent and child and spouses are two different things. a man or woman can be a worst partner but can be a great parent. Vinayak might have left for another woman, but he deserved a chance with abhay- though the FBs show he was a controlling person who wanted his boy to toughen up and 'be a man', so maybe he would not have been a great dad either.

him taking the stetoscope dont mean inviting V to his life. He probably let go of the misconception as a kid who thought his whole life that his father left him, the child.

all characters here are faulty and thats refreshing. it opens a lot of opportunity to discuss and analyze as viewers. If it was 1D- V is a villain, D as a mother india, Sia as the jealous girl, how it would be different than another serial? just giving a show a different background like medicine, army or police dont make it different

I just wrote a response echoing similar thoughts but this is beautifully put!!!!

I think every character is flawed here irrespective of their gender. Humans are like this only, nobody is perfect and its unfair to label them complete black or white.

Vikrant is wrong in imposing himself on deepika, blaming her for whatever wrong happened in his life without taking responsibility of his own actions.

Similarly Abhay is wrong, he is very judgmental and makes opinion on others without knowing their side. He already judged deepika twice, labeled her opportunist , character assassinate her just because he saw her with PC and vikrant😳.

Vinayak might be lying to Abhay when Girja is not in a position to defend herself . Who knows😳

Sia holding personal grudges in professional setting is wrong, she refused to call abhay in OT instead of ignoring her personal problem for a moment. Calling him cheater all the way, name calling people , first she used pet word for abhay and ansari now using derogatory languages for both, asking personal questions to her senior doctor that's too much.

Deepika is wrong in hiding Vikrant truth to PC. she wanted to help vikrant but she could have done it by taking pc in confidence , why handling everything alone. PC deserves to know , at least respect the man who fought for you.

People are layered, have different shades other than black or white , they are struggling with human emotions but at the same time its always good to take responsibility of your behavior and actions .

Originally posted by: ShinyMishka

I agree it's wrong to make children suffer because of a break up. However, if Abhay's memories are anything to go by Vinayak was very toxic as a father, and he doesn't seem to have changed much. It's easy to blame Girija for separating a father and son, but how hard did Vinayak try to maintain a relationship with Abhay? We have courts and laws... or he could've simply tried harder to convince Girija. He didn't care to see how his son was living? How can we even know the truth as Girija is not in a state to defend herself. I do appreciate that the show is showing that everyone is flawed, however, some people are not as much deserving of sympathy.

Originally posted by: SONIA441

I think you couldn't get through my whole post. I did talk about this one too....here you go.

Why Vinayak didn't try harder - This could be for 2 reasons:

1) He believed he caused Girija enough remorse and didn't want to make her life more miserable. We all know who would have won if he went to court.

2) He was never emotionally attached to Abhay, he was merely his provider. Hence when it came to choosing between his love and his responsibility, he chose his love. Men in India are brought up to be providers, its the mother you cares for you emotionally. As previously said, Vinayak is a typical entitled male in our society. He wanting to provide for Abhay was his guilt of not doing his "role" as a father. He and Vikrant are honestly not every different. Many people on the forum believe that Vikrant wouldn't approach Deepika if he had a kid with Aditti - I disagree. Vikrant's problem is he never gave his marriage a genuine chance - hence when he came in contact with Deepika he has lost his marbles. When you just want one thing - you run after it to make it happen. Even if in the process you lose other things but I am sure Vikrant would equally be guilty if his child had to suffer the consequences of his actions.