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Posted: 3 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: Swetha-Sai

How did Abhay tell wrong to ViPika? He is correct 👏 Finally, someone gave a reality check to Deepika

Are ViPika not having EMA behind Aditi’s back? ViPika hugging in rehab and inside Deepika’s house.. What if Aditi were to witness those hugs Is ViPika relationship not illegitimate coz V is married? What if ViPika have a kid? 😆 Will that kid be legitimate coz ViPika are not married?

I totally agree with your comment but that doesn't prove Abhay is right... He don't know any of this, he only saw them together and assumed they have affair... And this is not first time he even assumed PC and Deepika have affair... This mindset of his should change .
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saichintalli

I totally agree with your comment but that doesn't prove Abhay is right... He don't know any of this, he only saw them together and assumed they have affair... And this is not first time he even assumed PC and Deepika have affair... This mindset of his should change .


I'm confused by Abhay. Ok, so the first time he accused Deepika he didn't know her and he was full of resentment about his dad's second wife. For D-V he's seen and heard a lot though... of course it can be taken out of context, but then he's shown sympathizing with his dad, who did in fact have an affair. Whatever it was, he did have a relationship outside marriage (as far as I could gather, but then it was from Girija's mouth so I don't know how far that relationship went). So, why not clear with Deepika if she's actually having an affiair or what's going on... I don't know anymore.


Edit: I have to say that Deepika also blindly believed that Abhay is a cheater without actually knowing what happened. So neither are being rational.

Edited by ShinyMishka - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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I disagree Abhay did not judge Dipika just because he saw her and PC together at night .It's because of the situations and the rumour of PC-Dipika affair in hospital.

In this case also ViPika are lowkey having EMA. Anyone in his situation would think that.

Also It's not like Dipika doesn't judge .she easily normalised "men like these" for Abhay . tagged him cheat after Sia's story .did not even bother to know Abhay's side of story . He calls him liar and chilling with master liar at home .

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Please guys dont go by the promo ..first go by the entire episode and then make analysis.. These days promos are very much misleading...that cause buzz among fans...so avoid going by promos...

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saichintalli

I agree with you for Deepika and Siya yaar, Siya asking morgiwala to choose is wrong... And Deepika , she would have done similar thing for doctors like PC or Abhay if they are in Vikrant position, but at some points she is loosing control over her feelings, that's little problematic , like hugging him in rehab and all...I would have said she is ignoring her morals if she allowed Vikrant to treat patients even after knowing truth, but she is not, she is trying to protect his career which is also wrong but as I said she would have done same for Abhay or PC.

Girija, according to Vinayak story, he only asked her for Abhay right after break up, i.e only once.... Is she completely wrong reacting like that, I would have blamed her if Vinayak tried after that also still she is not allowing him


Why was it wrong for Deepika to hug Vikrant at the rehab?? No matter what happened she always have cared for him. She was the one to bring him at this rehab without knowing how this could have played out for him. She felt sorry and bad for throwing him in the lion’s den unknowingly, and seeing his state it was normal for her to hug him! It’s was a humane thing to do ! Doesn’t mean she is playing against her morals or by hugging she automatically becomes the “other woman.”

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saichintalli

yaar I agree Vinayak don't want to leave Abhay but that doesn't change the truth he cheated on his wife and left them for other lady... And what girija shouldn't have kept Vinayak away from Abhay , but according to Vinayak story he tried to talk to her at the starting that is when she got to know about their relationship, what else can we expect, if he ever tried later to meet Abhay or to find about his where abouts , I would have agreed with you...

Coming to Abhay I agree one can't stay angry with parents for ever but isn't it too fast, when Vinayak told he never want to leave him , he didn't think twice about how he left his mother... And charector assassination of Deepika , agar ek ladki kisike Saath night road PE dhiki tho ( Deepika -pc) then they have affair, if she got a job then she got it because of affair, if she rejects your feeling , it's because she have affair, like seriously 😳😳...

I don't like this at all yaar, whether Deepika is with or without Vikrant, she have full right to reject Abhay feeling, for that passing such comments is wrong, straight away wrong.

Well he did meet Vinayak after how many years, almost 19 I guess, all this while he never saw him and as a child he did yearn to be loved by both his parents. He is literally alone right now, no friends, just the neighbours are there to help him with his mother, so it's natural that he wouldn't want to push away his father at this point especially when Vinayak is like he always wanted to look out for him and take care of him while blaming Girija for not letting him do so, how could he stay over something that wasn't even decided by him. Yes he cheated on Girija and left her for another woman by divorcing her however he wasn't ready to neglect them unlike other men who just want to rid themselves of their responsibilities towards their children. But yeah it's possible this Vinayak could also be lying.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Relationship between parent and child and spouses are two different things. a man or woman can be a worst partner but can be a great parent. Vinayak might have left for another woman, but he deserved a chance with abhay- though the FBs show he was a controlling person who wanted his boy to toughen up and 'be a man', so maybe he would not have been a great dad either.



him taking the stetoscope dont mean inviting V to his life. He probably let go of the misconception as a kid who thought his whole life that his father left him, the child.


all characters here are faulty and thats refreshing. it opens a lot of opportunity to discuss and analyze as viewers. If it was 1D- V is a villain, D as a mother india, Sia as the jealous girl, how it would be different than another serial? just giving a show a different background like medicine, army or police dont make it different

Edited by Haal-e-Dil - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: rouble_lover


Why was it wrong for Deepika to hug Vikrant at the rehab?? No matter what happened she always have cared for him. She was the one to bring him at this rehab without knowing how this could have played out for him. She felt sorry and bad for throwing him in the lion’s den unknowingly, and seeing his state it was normal for her to hug him! It’s was a humane thing to do ! Doesn’t mean she is playing against her morals or by hugging she automatically becomes the “other woman.”

not that hug the first one when she hugs him on steps.... Anyway I don't feel she is wrong there, her emotions overclouded at the moment it's happens for a lot..
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Posted: 3 years ago
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I think Abhay got a closure which he needed.

It's not like he will be having tea with his da and chatting 😆

Well, seeing how they made Dipika and Vikrant have a sort of EMA, I'm not too sure😆

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShinyMishka


I agree it's wrong to make children suffer because of a break up. However, if Abhay's memories are anything to go by Vinayak was very toxic as a father, and he doesn't seem to have changed much. It's easy to blame Girija for separating a father and son, but how hard did Vinayak try to maintain a relationship with Abhay? We have courts and laws... or he could've simply tried harder to convince Girija. He didn't care to see how his son was living? How can we even know the truth as Girija is not in a state to defend herself. I do appreciate that the show is showing that everyone is flawed, however, some people are not as much deserving of sympathy.


Hey you have raised valid points here and I would like to explain myself better so that you can see where I am coming from.


Firstly Vinayak is flawed - He is an entitled male child of our society, he's had an extra marital affair, not been very mature and responsible with his breakup which has suffered irreparable consequences. To your point, the FBs do show him to be a toxic parent, but that doesn't give Girija the clean chit - thats all I am saying. If Vinayak decided to stay with Girija, she would have allowed Abhay to endure that bad parenting. Thus my point that if she couldn't have Vinayak, she will let no one have him and this was her way of revenge and dealing with her hurt - which is wrong on any child! She prevented Abhay from having an equal chance with his other parents - thats what was proven from yesterday's episode bringing me to my next point....

Can we trust Vinayak - Maybe we shouldn't and i wouldn't if he wasn't my parent and if he didn't define a very integral part of my identity but for Abhay - he is! Abhay has all his life held a grudge against him for deserting him. There is a reason he calls him his "ex" father and not his mother's "ex" husband. Yesterday Abhay got to know that there is a possibility that the narrative he was fed for the last 18 years was flawed and all he did was acknowledge that maturely. And honestly what option does he have, he can never completely know the truth. Is he really expected to hold onto a grudge (which could be for wrong reasons) for the rest of his life? He isn't being all melodramatic and saying I love you dad and all and he isn't pissed off at his mum. All he is doing is letting go of a grudge he held all his life - its hard to hold onto grudges, especially against parents - its tiring and consuming. All he did was lighten his shoulders.

Why Vinayak didn't try harder - This could be for 2 reasons:

1) He believed he caused Girija enough remorse and didn't want to make her life more miserable. We all know who would have won if he went to court.

2) He was never emotionally attached to Abhay, he was merely his provider. Hence when it came to choosing between his love and his responsibility, he chose his love. Men in India are brought up to be providers, its the mother you cares for you emotionally. As previously said, Vinayak is a typical entitled male in our society. He wanting to provide for Abhay was his guilt of not doing his "role" as a father. He and Vikrant are honestly not every different. Many people on the forum believe that Vikrant wouldn't approach Deepika if he had a kid with Aditti - I disagree. Vikrant's problem is he never gave his marriage a genuine chance - hence when he came in contact with Deepika he has lost his marbles. When you just want one thing - you run after it to make it happen. Even if in the process you lose other things but I am sure Vikrant would equally be guilty if his child had to suffer the consequences of his actions.

Also as you grow older, you become the more sensitive version of yourself - you realize the gaps in your life and can have regrets. I have always wondered why everyone is talking about the "beta" transfer of legacy, why can't it be a girl? But that's Vinayak - he is archaic and believes in bloodline getting carried forward. He can't take failures but this his biggest failure - that he has a son and he can't really transfer his legacy. He understands this isn't a fair punishment but has accepted it...but that doesn't mean he can't get emotional seeing his son all grown up....becoming such a competitive surgeon ( a secret dream maybe!)

Lastly I am NOT sympathetic towards Vinayak but that doesn't mean I can't be objective and support him in his redemption story! I will do the same Vikrant has his :)


I know this is long....but I hope I have gotten closer to you hearing me :)

Cheers!

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