Dear Makers, Thank you for making a mockery out of abuse survivors! - Page 10

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Posted: 4 years ago
#91

Originally posted by: RainFire125


I agree Ayushi, but since this is fiction, the writing or nuances needs to be more clear. It is left to our assumptions and anyone can assume anything. You are telling a story and you are leaving upto the audience to assume. MAny plots in the past episodes - i have actually supported as i saw the nuances and i wrote abt it. Today they literally made blunders!!

I also know tat V will do that big a kaand that we all are assuming or thinking. He will just do things related to business. This is my strong feeling. I am more pissed at Anu's dialog than V being there frankly!! What you mother said, I assumed it much before but audience think what they see and as a story teller you have to show what you want them to understand!!

Bold- you are absolutely right here. They need to be clear. It was a mess today

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Posted: 4 years ago
#92

Originally posted by: ayushijindal

Why makers wont understand we as anupama fNs dont hate SP. I personally very much like SP's acting. Its him acting Vanraj this way, we viewers love to hate him on screen that is his acting. But still makers are🤯


the Other factor is why cant people be happy to play what they have signed up for???? We have classsic villians like Amjad Khan, Prem Chopra, Shakti Kapoor who we admire on screen and off screen as well!! They are such class bad men on screen!! Infact these poeple are very much needed to glorify the good men on screen.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ayushijindal

I totally understand. Relax my dear( what may I call you)

What i read Anu today she meant about physical violence but she has flashbacks of mental and emotional too. These kind of people are shameless. He knows they know his reality but there was no legal action taken which boost him or rather I would say he thought they accepted him being good which he is pretended am assuming. This happens. Yesterday I shared, the so called husband is moving like a boss so shamelesely as if nothinh wrong happened in his eyes and llterally he thought he did nothing wrong this is natural. This is the same with vanraj. When he thought he is right then this wont affect him what the other person think.

my name is reetika🤗

you are right yr

but pata h kya subah tak main phr bhi normal thi because episode nahi dekha tha but ye pics dekhkar para chad gaya

sorry yr

thodi der mein shant hokar tumheri baat samajhne ki try karungi🤗

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Posted: 4 years ago
#94

Originally posted by: Kras1

my name is reetika🤗

you are right yr

but pata h kya subah tak main phr bhi normal thi because episode nahi dekha tha but ye pics dekhkar para chad gaya

sorry yr

thodi der mein shant hokar tumheri baat samajhne ki try karungi🤗

Hey reetika big hug to you🤗

Relax take deep breath. As G said makers are not clear with their actions today they served. They left things to assumptions

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Posted: 4 years ago
#95

Originally posted by: ayushijindal

Me and my mom was just discussing this. I was so angry but she made me see through the reality. This actually calm me down. She said there is no doubt that Vanraj is evil, he was, is and will. But like him in real life also these kind of people wont regret, they dont have any ounce of guilt even. They are the so called good people in front. They got affected only for their daughters sisters but not their wives till. These are those people who did and doing the same but rebuke the others for the same. They lend help but wont learn lesson for themselves. That is why violence happens and women face lots of difficulties to prove. These kind of people never leave a chance to interfere but dont want any for themselves. Sad but true. My mom said makers trying to show the reality. She said tell me the one person who accepted and guilty of doing violence, not any. It is just that it is a show and we as viewers want to see what is right but reality is not that. Agar aisa hota na k aise log guilty hote to violence hota hi ni



Reposting my thoughts on this topic too


Agree....

Your mom is talking about Vanraj, which is true..

What Vanraj is doing perfectly fits his character arc.

But what about Anuj and Anupama...any sensible person in real life will either break the relationship or maintain some distance...

Why did makers brutally killed Anuj character here too..

why didn't he asked Vanraj to leave the place right away..

even if he had made those faces, it doesn't help. This was time for him to act, today he had power, his house, his family...so far issues were Shah and Anuj was outsider but not today...

Anupama was anyways useless, I am done enough of supporting her or giving her benefit of doubt... even after seeing Anuj she doesn't understand how wrong Vanraj is, no one can't help..her flashback today also didn't tell her and wow..hats off lady you sharing your pain with your abuser.. salute you...

Anupama has herself put blind fold her eyes and keeps repeating achcha insaan..as if by her words she has the power to heal and change him too.

More than baa at times I feel she is the responsible today for encouraging Vanraj. I could have understood before Anuj, before she left that house..but man, this lady never stops.

Go and marry this TrashRaj again, you two are truly made for each other...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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You know Sunny....this is the harsh reality of domestic and mental abuse...One person's abuser tries to act like a supporter in someone else's life.

I've seen this happen...Men will abuse, hit, violate their wife, whereas they'll stand as supporters for other women at workplace or in their friend circle and talk about how domestic violence is bad... that's the level of hypocrisy we live in today's world. In a lot of cases the abusers justify the abuse cos they think they are perfect and the other person deserved it.

Men who manipulate their wives/partners and force them to leave their jobs to make them dependent are the same ones who 'support' careers of a female friend who wants to pursue a career. Such ppl, they will do all sorts of nonsense at home, but will portray an image of a gentleman to the world.

Vanraj's entry in such a sensitive episode was not needed, but that's what happens in real life too....we all know women who who through mental and physical abuse, but for someone else the abusers are 'normal' cos of the image they portray to others outside of the closed doors of their homes.

Edited by U_nicorn - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#97

Wow. These picnic picture are released by PH..

Perfect way to tell viewer's shut up, we know what we are doing. The characters are our puppets and so are you.. take this lollipop and be quiet now...

Edited by Km181 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#98

Originally posted by: Km181

Wow. These picnic picture are released by PH..

Perfect way to tell viewer's shut up, we know what we are doing. The characters are our puppets and so are you.. take this lollipop and be quiet now...

Koi lollipop ka asr nhi hone wala h dude... We r not puppet.. Hamare pass brahmashtra.hai ..remote ...

Edited by QueeN456 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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The pic where Vanraj is holding Mukku and dancing tomorrow is making all this worse. There were and will be so many tracks to white wash him but why ths? Why a domestic violence track? And tomorrow we are back to lighter episodes basically tatah bye bye to social message and such a significant track. Am so disappointed with the writing for Anuj, anu and most imp that assraj😡😡🤬🤬

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Posted: 4 years ago

Physical abuse...here you go...Anupama ke saath aisa nahi hua...


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