Bade Achhe Lagte Hain 2 EDT #6 - Page 57

Originally posted by: smile10000

There's a reply from creative team of the show regarding the promo

https://twitter.com/aee_babuchak/status/1480190405790486534?s=20

Is this reply suppose to mean that they will have a happy ending in a twisted manner. Because with all the glimpses and BTS we have been shown I cannot foresee a happy ending in the near future, maybe in the long run but birthday track can't be the happy ending to all this BS we are being fed right now.

It's not just because of the promo, but from the time Ram-Priya got married, we have been shown regressiveness on part of Ram.

There is no dispute about Ram being a good and kind hearted person, but that’s not enough in marriage. Priya also has been shown as stubborn and managing things on their own, but when needed she has always supported and stood up for Ram.

Now we have to watch all the s**t, for them to realize their feelings. It feels to me there are too many people involved to make or break this marriage, but the couple in question is not working together for the relationship. So, who ever is strong from the Make-Break team will be successful in their venture, no thanks to the couple.🤣

Is this the “mature love story” we were going to watch?

@Bana @ajacob31 I feel so happy to see I was not the only one who felt this way😃👍🏼 I kept getting frustrated alone as I dont have anyone who watches this show and is not 50+ 😆 So there was no scope of having such discussions....I should have come here earlier.. Hope tomorrow the makers dont ruin Ram for us...Makers just say everything was a dream that vedika saw I'll accept it...😆

Originally posted by: ajacob31

It's not just because of the promo, but from the time Ram-Priya got married, we have been shown regressiveness on part of Ram.

There is no dispute about Ram being a good and kind hearted person, but that’s not enough in marriage. Priya also has been shown as stubborn and managing things on their own, but when needed she has always supported and stood up for Ram.

Now we have to watch all the s**t, for them to realize their feelings. It feels to me there are too many people involved to make or break this marriage, but the couple in question is not working together for the relationship. So, who ever is strong from the Make-Break team will be successful in their venture, no thanks to the couple.🤣

Is this the “mature love story” we were going to watch?

I have been feeling this lately myself. It was suppose to be a new age soft love story to appeal to the younger online audience.

But all the BS they are trying to pass as progressive thoughts are making me want to give up on this show too.

I understand everyone is pissed off at Ram for the promo. But why so much anger/hatred towards Ram suddenly? Lets wait till the episode to jump our guns on Ram. I don't think Ram intends to humiliate Priya in anyway.

For all we know he may actually have been told it was all done by Vedika and he won't have a reason to believe otherwise unless someone tells him that. He doesn't know if Priya would plan a party for him. I don't think he will give credit to Vedika knowing Priya has done all this. Regarding dance, I just hate it🤢 but again we don't know what exactly transpired. I will wait for the episode to give my judgement. Moreover why is it considered humiliation. Would we react the same if Brinda was there instead of Vedika?? We would have adored it. For Priya both are Ram's friends

No one loves Ram because he is mahaan or something. Most people like him because of his nature. He has been sweet to Priya even when she was quite rude to him from the beginning. She always goes into her shell. How he is to know what is going inside her head? Yes he didn't stand up for her during annullment. But did she ever even remotely indicate that she wants to stay in this marriage? I am not blaming Priya but just saying that both were wrong. Their problem has been their lack of communication. They make all the conversations in their head rather than to each other.

In Akki scenario, yes he should have spoken up. I agree. That was a big mistake. He did speak up but too late and too little. But then again he has mostly forgived people all the time. He was never harsh to Priya when she got Shivina married off secretly. It was a huge mess up from her side.

He himself got Mr. Sood released even when he tried to murder him. Not justifying Ram but it is his nature. He is mostly like that to everyone. Just as Priya is a bit khadoos by nature. Only recently she is softening up. He would really don't know if she would plan a lavish party for him. It is something one cannot expect from her when she is all about bachat😆 I feel he will come to know later and apologize for it.

I emphasize that my thoughts are not just based on the promo. If you check my posts I have been having this opinion about Ram from the beginning.

I am not saying anything about the promo yet. It could be misleading. But from the progress they have shown in the past week, I had some hopes.

But it seems it’s a long road for Ram to redeem his past/future(may be) misbehaviors.

I cannot digest the fact that he bailed out Sood Sr. after knowing that he was involved in the prawn fiasco. Knowing that he cancelled Shivina’s-Akki marriage because of the impending dangers she could have, didn’t he think that bailing Sood would actually make things worse in future, he could plan other things .He was also disrespecting Priya’s decision. Another person I cannot understand is Meera, she did karwa chauth rituals with Sood. Wasn’t she disrespecting her daughter’s decision?

Priya keeps silence since she doesn’t want people to pass snide remarks for her including Ram. Doing this she is hurting herself and nobody understands this.

There are so many things in the show that I cannot digest. But it definitely opens up good discussions even if the plots in the show seems so unreal.

Originally posted by: bhshre95

I understand everyone is pissed off at Ram for the promo. But why so much anger/hatred towards Ram suddenly? Lets wait till the episode to jump our guns on Ram. I don't think Ram intends to humiliate Priya in anyway.

For all we know he may actually have been told it was all done by Vedika and he won't have a reason to believe otherwise unless someone tells him that. He doesn't know if Priya would plan a party for him. I don't think he will give credit to Vedika knowing Priya has done all this. Regarding dance, I just hate it🤢 but again we don't know what exactly transpired. I will wait for the episode to give my judgement. Moreover why is it considered humiliation. Would we react the same if Brinda was there instead of Vedika?? We would have adored it. For Priya both are Ram's friends

No one loves Ram because he is mahaan or something. Most people like him because of his nature. He has been sweet to Priya even when she was quite rude to him from the beginning. She always goes into her shell. How he is to know what is going inside her head? Yes he didn't stand up for her during annullment. But did she ever even remotely indicate that she wants to stay in this marriage? I am not blaming Priya but just saying that both were wrong. Their problem has been their lack of communication. They make all the conversations in their head rather than to each other.

In Akki scenario, yes he should have spoken up. I agree. That was a big mistake. He did speak up but too late and too little. But then again he has mostly forgived people all the time. He was never harsh to Priya when she got Shivina married off secretly. It was a huge mess up from her side.

He himself got Mr. Sood released even when he tried to murder him. Not justifying Ram but it is his nature. He is mostly like that to everyone. Just as Priya is a bit khadoos by nature. Only recently she is softening up. He would really don't know if she would plan a lavish party for him. It is something one cannot expect from her when she is all about bachat😆 I feel he will come to know later and apologize for it.

Originally posted by: ajacob31

I emphasize that my thoughts are not just based on the promo. If you check my posts I have been having this opinion about Ram from the beginning.

I am not saying anything about the promo yet. It could be misleading. But from the progress they have shown in the past week, I had some hopes.

But it seems it’s a long road for Ram to redeem his past/future(may be) misbehaviors.

I cannot digest the fact that he bailed out Sood Sr. after knowing that he was involved in the prawn fiasco. Knowing that he cancelled Shivina’s-Akki marriage because of the impending dangers she could have, didn’t he think that bailing Sood would actually make things worse in future, he could plan other things . Another person I cannot understand is Meera, she did karwa chauth rituals with Sood. Wasn’t she disrespecting her daughter’s decision?

There are so many things in the show that I cannot digest. But it definitely opens up good discussions even if the plots in the show seems so unreal.

I didn't appreciated it too. Ram first cancelling the wedding because of priya's step family then bringing him to his home without discussing such sensitive matter to Priya. It doesn't show support it shows stupidity.

All the karwa chauth rituals for/with a person who left you for a son is something I don't support.

I feel meera's character is the most regressive character on the show.

She is a single mother to 4 daughters , her character should be more powerful, strong and independent but all she does is sob around most of the time.

That’s why I say Ram is a flip-flop🤣

He ignores Vedika when she was limping in front of him and concentrated on Priya, because he was happy with Priya that week. He was giving more time and indulging Priya.

Now he is unhappy/angry at Priya(not sure why the trigger is), he is close dancing with Vedika. This is a delicate situation since Vedika is Ram’s ex and he should be more aware of the complications this would bring in his marriage.

So, Ram’s behavior is based on the current climatic conditions.🤣

This is not a mature love story but a story among teenagers.But while dancing with Vedu, Ram is only looking at Priya and her reactions 😆