Bade Achhe Lagte Hain 2 EDT #6 - Page 56

Yes, Ram always disappoints. But if you see Ram keeps saying that if there is anything that will happen to his family, he can't be like Priya, she even got her dad arrested for a husband with whom her marriage was getting annulled. Ram is weak here. Remember he got angry during the wedding due to the car accident, Akki incident etc. For him, family comes above Priya. He has to get over that. There is a long way to go.

Something has triggered Ram for him behaving this way. Maybe he came to know that Priya is following up on the Akki incident behind his back. She never gave him a chance to clarify why he stopped the investigation. I bet the dance between Ram and Priya is a dream sequence, he dreams about Priya while dancing with Vedika. Priya going down her knees will come after the party. She is taunting him that she knows the truth and she is ready to leave him so that he can be with his first love.

I don't see Brinda at this entire party. Did she skip the party? Did she do something to defeat Vedika?

Originally posted by: Winteriscoming

This is the first time I am posting something on the forum becoz I really needed to vent...God I am so pissed with Ram!! If this dancing with Vedu to get back at Priya happens Ram is ruined for me forever...

I guess I expected a little too much from an ITV male lead.. Its always the male lead who humiliates the female lead then everything is forgiven cuz "true lobh"🤢

The bar for male leads so low just dont be worse than the villains thats it.. any other toxic and problematic behaviour will be completely forgiven...

Ram has been getting on my nerves lately 😡this will be the 3rd strike the first being his spectacular mute performance during akki incidence...2nd being the below the belt comment about her mothers divorce...

This dance will be the final nail in the coffin. You don't gain trust by shouting in a megaphone and demanding the person to trust you ,One earns it by their actions...If this happens he will prove everything that priya used to say from the beginning...

And frankly I reaccessed my opinion on Ram as everytime he has helped Priya, he could do it becoz he was "The Ram Kapoor", the Groom who didnt leave her at alter, the great son in law who chose give respect to his middle class divorcee mother in law(which is the bare min), the great open minded would be husband who didn't judge her on having a past(which 90% of adults on the planet have) ,Burning the prenup but not before making her feel like a gold digger and hurting her self respect...👏basically he was always at position of power...And how could we forget the greatest thing an Itv male lead can do -not forcing himself on the female lead.. seriously the bar is so low it is the floor...🤡

And only time he had to something in the position of plain human Ram he just stared like a blobfish during akki incidence....How the hell does he think Priya will get confidence to trust him when from the first meeting it has always been priya who has been judged,questioned and humiliated when self respect is most important thing she cherishes...Ram is slowly going into the category of "Good guys"..

And anyone who thinks priya is unemotional she is plenty emotional for the people she loves..she shows anger,care sadness, protectiveness,understanding etc I mean how much more emotions do people want? On top of that she has strong mind,practical and is smart...People just want to see Itv female dancing around trees with a Joker like smile permanently plastered on face and the man saving her in every situation....This jealousy track is super regressive they in their thirties not teens..

Phew I am done...no one around me watches this show really needed to vent...Now I just hope the writers prove me completely wrong i really want continue watching this I will be so freaking happy to be proven wrong plz plz....otherwise bye bye Ram kunal was the better choice🤪

Winter u shd have come here much much earlier!!! U hit the nail on the head in such an articulate manner!! With the much needed calling of a spade a spade. Thank u!

In mind also no explanation other than a febrile fit can justify this “Vedu” relapse. I don’t know how I am going to like Ram after this. Priya would have been much happier with Kunal than the great Ram Kapoor who has the life skills of an 18 year old.

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

Something has triggered Ram for him behaving this way. Maybe he came to know that Priya is following up on the Akki incident behind his back. She never gave him a chance to clarify why he stopped the investigation.

And why should she not?? It is her blessed brother! And Ram once again, like with the Shivi wedding cancellation decision, did not inform or explain to Priya. He had his chances - while stuffing his face with ghee upma in quarantine. His good intention of protecting her or helping her brother does not absolve him of basic spousal duty to inform. He did not tell Priya to drop the case too.

By the same token, it was terribly wrong for Priya to ask Adi to make the papers to return her 5% - she may have the right to decide but basic courtesy in a marriage requires that u inform the spouse before u act on your decision.

These 2 juveniles don’t deserve to be married.

I am not married and don't intend to. But basic problem between Ram and Priya is that they assume a lot about each other and make decisions for each other. They don't communicate too. If I was in Ram's position, I would never talk about exes unless my partner asks or shows some interest. Your past doesn't define you unless the past comes back to your life. So in this case, Ram should have already told Priya that Vedika is his ex when he asked her if she is OK. One more thing is that Priya is shown to be smart and she should have seen the difference between Brinda/Ram relationship vs Vedika/Ram relationship. Anyone could guess that they were exes :)

Coming to Akki's incident, Ram knows that Shivi is not aware, also Akki asked Ram to stop the investigation. So he respects Akki's decision. Stupid Akki should have informed Priya too. All of a sudden Ram jiju become more important.

There's a reply from creative team of the show regarding the promo

https://twitter.com/aee_babuchak/status/1480190405790486534?s=20

Originally posted by: ajacob31

After watching the promo, the first reaction I have is “To Heck with Ram’.

Whatever the reasons maybe, the promo scene looks very regressive to me. 😡

While Neeraj cannot talk or stand in the same place as Priya, Ram can freely flaunt his love/friendship(whatever, I don’t even know what it is anymore) for Vedika. Looks like the b’day special episodes will turnout like Karwa Chaut 🤣

EK, you are giving us more good reasons to not watch this show.

I can’t stand Ram’s flip flop nature anymore. I am going to get a lot of slippers and rotten tomatoes for this. 🤣- Why don’t you pair Priya with Kunal? Kunal has been understanding and supportive about Priya always.

Priya will be realising that soon. I think it is a good track to write the prompt 6 given by oye_nakhrewali.

If Ram is trying to make Priya jealous by dancing with Vedika, I have only one thing to say- “Grow up Ram!. Show some maturity. You are not in college anyore”

He is effing 38, for God’s sake!!

I am happy to see there are more people who think Kunal is a better person than Ram.

I feel that the episodes r gonna surprise us😆

Let's give Ram some benefit of doubt. If the relationship goes back o square one, we can all stop watching BALH :D

Originally posted by: ajacob31

If Ram is trying to make Priya jealous by dancing with Vedika, I have only one thing to say- “Grow up Ram!. Show some maturity. You are not in college anyore”

He is effing 38, for God’s sake!!

I am happy to see there are more people who think Kunal is a better person than Ram.