Jija saali romance - Page 9

Originally posted by: Prettywitty

Isn’t it about honoring the commitment rather than the rituals? Abhi brought a proposal for Arohi that was accepted - that’s a commitment. Aren’t the rituals a symbol of this commitment? Isn’t the affirmation the important thing here or is it ok for prospective brides and grooms to run around pataoing each other’s siblings till the saat pheras are done?

Talking about commitment, what do you think about commitment given by akshara to Arohi ?? She sacrificed her love only to her not so deserving younger sister's dillusional demand. Akshara's word to her sister has made so many lives unhappy. So honouring a commitment is always right kya ? Cringy was when a dejected man proposed marriage to arohi to save his mother's life, she said yes within seconds, knowing quite well that her sister loves him and she only is the reason behind their sadness.

I only want to know one thing, are we watching the show to see abhira together or only to comment otherwise when everything that was wrong is being undone. Hope you are not an abrohi shipper 😉 If you are am happy am still rooting for two right people, at the right place, FINALLY expressing themselves which will eventually set almost everything right ! 🤗

Originally posted by: atulya1

Talking about commitment, what do you think about commitment given by akshara to Arohi ?? She sacrificed her love only to her not so deserving younger sister's dillusional demand. Akshara's word to her sister has made so many lives unhappy. So honouring a commitment is always right kya ? Cringy was when a dejected man proposed marriage to arohi to save his mother's life, she said yes within seconds, knowing quite well that her sister loves him and she only is the reason behind their sadness.

I only want to know one thing, are we watching the show to see abhira together or only to comment otherwise when everything that was wrong is being undone. Hope you are not an abrohi shipper 😉 If you are am happy am still rooting for two right people, at the right place, FINALLY expressing themselves which will eventually set almost everything right ! 🤗

Actually I wrote a whole post on this yesterday (bold) - you can check it out if you want.

Yes in my book honoring a commitment is always right as long as the commitment exists - if a person wants to go against the terms of the commitment, by all means break it first so all parties are aware of the situation. Both Abhi and Akshara are not keeping their commitments (Abhi is just more aggressive about it).

Let Abhi romance Akshu openly in front of Arohi so she knows exactly what’s she’s signing up for - if she’s ok with that, then to me there’s no moral grey area. It’s an open relationship, people have them. What I didn’t get about your post was whether you’re ok with this because the engagement ritual is not done yet? If it was done, would you still be ok with it or then does it become infidelity?

(I’m watching the show against my better judgement just to ogle Harshad Chopda - I’m shameless that way 🤣 but that doesn’t mean I’ll take all the bullshit that’s being served without some snark…)

Originally posted by: atulya1

Talking about commitment, what do you think about commitment given by akshara to Arohi ?? She sacrificed her love only to her not so deserving younger sister's dillusional demand. Akshara's word to her sister has made so many lives unhappy. So honouring a commitment is always right kya ? Cringy was when a dejected man proposed marriage to arohi to save his mother's life, she said yes within seconds, knowing quite well that her sister loves him and she only is the reason behind their sadness.

I only want to know one thing, are we watching the show to see abhira together or only to comment otherwise when everything that was wrong is being undone. Hope you are not an abrohi shipper 😉 If you are am happy am still rooting for two right people, at the right place, FINALLY expressing themselves which will eventually set almost everything right ! 🤗

True that..honoring the commitment ! Like manjari is committed to harsh. True commitment is based on love , respect and consent , and no ritual is needed for it..yes we need to respect social boundaries ... abhimanyu neither confessed love to arohi nor married to her. The girl or the boy can say no at the last moment , they r allowed to do so then how is it commitment ?

Abhimanyu arohi marriage proposal isn't even a commitment. It's It's tradeoff with diff meanings for both the parties. Harsh, manjRi want to throw their son into a loveless relationship knowingly ..arohi wants a topper husband . .Why is all the morality reserved for abhimanyu and akshu ?

Originally posted by: _charu_

True that..honoring the commitment ! Like manjari is committed to harsh. True commitment is based on love , respect and consent , and no ritual is needed for it..yes we need to respect social boundaries ... abhimanyu neither confessed love to arohi nor married to her. The girl or the boy can say no at the last moment , they r allowed to do so then how is it commitment ?

Abhimanyu arohi marriage proposal isn't even a commitment. It's It's tradeoff with diff meanings for both the parties. Harsh, manjRi want to throw their son into a loveless relationship knowingly ..arohi wants a topper husband . .Why is all the morality reserved for abhimanyu and akshu ?

then he should have told BADE PAPA look i want an open relationship with both of your daughters because my mom and I can't agree on which one to anoint as BAHU

not SAATH NIBHAANA KA VADA AND ALL 🤣

and if commitment is meaningless why is he even doing this nakhra baazi for his mom's health he should just get a GIRLFRIEND and do SHAADI DRESS UP

all the characters are in the GUTTER but the ones who keep shouting they have TAMEEZ are the most irritating

Originally posted by: apacs

then he should have told BADE PAPA look i want an open relationship with both of your daughters because my mom and I can't agree on which one to anoint as BAHU

not SAATH NIBHAANA KA VADA AND ALL 🤣

and if commitment is meaningless why is he even doing this nakhra baazi for his mom's health he should just get a GIRLFRIEND and do SHAADI DRESS UP

all the characters are in the GUTTER but the ones who keep shouting they have TAMEEZ are the most irritating

Perfectly stated!

The moral responsibility is with Abhi and Akshu because they are the only ones making insincere promises and commitments. Arohi at least made it clear she only cares about herself, family and anything else can go to hell. She has no morals but she’s upfront about it.

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

Okay I do agree, Abhi has those Kabir Singh/Devdas traits where they are overly obessed with their love interest to the extent that even hitting them is accepted because the girl does not complain. I'm not going to defend Abhi there because it is what it is. He is obessed with Akshara and he needs to learn to trust her. I still wouldn't go in the direction of psycho/stalker because I feel that's insensitive. Akshara is not living in fear.

But I cannot agree with Arohi and Abhi angle. If they were a normal arranged marriage couple then yeah I'd anyday side with Arohi because all this would be wrong. However, I just cannot put a curtain to arohi's actions. All the deceiving and emotional blackmail makes me support Abhira because cut Arohi from their life, they would never be in this situation. I can only support Arohi if she had not lied her way into this. You reap what you sow.

This is involuntary intoxication. Just like dreams, they couldn't have controlled it so it is a tad bit unfair to hold them liable in this instant.

Akshara might not be living with fear. But she is uncomfortable. I felt the disgust and discomfort when she said, "mat karo aise, please" when he scared away the intern.

I am not saying I agree with whatever Aarohi is doing either. She is bad, not doubt. But she clearly says to him that she will make sure things will change and she will find a place in his heart and will earn the hak to call him Abhi. He should have told her then and there itself that he won't be giving her the chance to do that because he will be busy ogling and touching her sister. Should have told Manish, that this is a marriage for the sake of it, and he won't be fulfilling any of the marital relations or the duties of a husband. But he said apart for pyaar, sab kuch honge iss shaadi mein.

I would say he wasn't clear to Aarohi in their business transaction about the stipulations. 😆

What is this involuntary intoxication? If Abhi and Aarohi got drunk involuntarily and do this shit, while he was in a committed relationship with Akshara, will that be okay? Or anyone who is in a committed relationship doing this, is okay?

My problem is the moral high ground Abhi and Akshara seems to be taking. Oh, we are too good, the people we love come first. If the people you love comes first, then have better self control. Or just stop giving bhaashan to everyone else. Their moral righteousness is what is annoying to the core.

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

Akshara might not be living with fear. But she is uncomfortable. I felt the disgust and discomfort when she said, "mat karo aise, please" when he scared away the intern.

I am not saying I agree with whatever Aarohi is doing either. She is bad, not doubt. But she clearly says to him that she will make sure things will change and she will find a place in his heart and will earn the hak to call him Abhi. He should have told her then and there itself that he won't be giving her the chance to do that because he will be busy ogling and touching her sister. Should have told Manish, that this is a marriage for the sake of it, and he won't be fulfilling any of the marital relations or the duties of a husband. But he said apart for pyaar, sab kuch honge iss shaadi mein.

I would say he wasn't clear to Aarohi in their business transaction about the stipulations. 😆

What is this involuntary intoxication? If Abhi and Aarohi got drunk involuntarily and do this shit, while he was in a committed relationship with Akshara, will that be okay? Or anyone who is in a committed relationship doing this, is okay?

My problem is the moral high ground Abhi and Akshara seems to be taking. Oh, we are too good, the people we love come first. If the people you love comes first, then have better self control. Or just stop giving bhaashan to everyone else. Their moral righteousness is what is annoying to the core.

Agreed, but the same standards must be applied to tyaag ki devi Akshara Mahaan as well...😒

Why holding Abhi alone to account, while in fact Akshara is equally to be blamed in doing nain matakka with Abhi 😆

Originally posted by: HahaHeheHuhu9

Agreed, but the same standards must be applied to tyaag ki devi Akshara Mahaan as well...😒

Why holding Abhi alone to account, while in fact Akshara is equally to be blamed in doing nain matakka with Abhi 😆

Lol. Did you even read my post? When have I let Akshara be scot free? 🤣

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

Lol. Did you even read my post? When have I let Akshara be scot free? 🤣

Hahaha tab theek hai 🤣

But majority of the criticism is generally seen only for Abhi on the forum.

If he's cheating, he can't be doing it alone right? The other person (Akshara) here is equally responsible for the cheating. But since she is insufferable and self-righteous, along with crying every other day, she seldom gets called out by everyone.

I guess I am able to enjoy the show because aarohi doesn’t exist for me. I always skip her scenes. I am very much against infidelity (I can write pages on that topic) but aarohi is one character doesn’t exist for me 😂😂 I just can’t seem to get to watch her.

Aur mein itna dimaag nahi lagaati show mein specially in these shows. Till the track is nice watch uske baad Tata bye bye - apna logic ekdum clear hai 😂😂