Jija saali romance - Page 5

Originally posted by: meenakkl

What they did in vedika track

Did karthick marry Vedika and romances Naira hai Kya

But it's usual in all ITV shows

Third angle track is always like this

Right from

Arnav Lavanya Kushi

Standard ITV tracks🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

Let me just clear first of all, I am not moral policing. I just cannot stand their freaking hypocrisy. The problem arises because they show Abhi and Akshara as the morally right good people who are always acting like samajdhaar and giving bhaashan to everyone else. Like they are the goody two shoes but goes on and do this nonsense. For all the seedhi baat, no bakwaas, he is full of bakwaas right now. Making true Kairav's words about two timing the sisters.

Also, let's not justify their actions by citing emotions and drunken state, because that's what most cheaters do. Lol.

We all know Abhi is not perfect. Day one se we know yeh daal mein kuch kala hain. Even today, he openly admits that he cannot try to be "normal" so I dont think hes being a hypocrite. Hes probably the only character on this show that has always been honest.

About Akshara, I feel she is trying her best but its clearly not working. Again, I personally do not see how hugging someone is cheating so I cant see the nonsense.

How is it two timing? He never even gives time to Arohi and she does not even mind.

@Bold but we know they are drunk, they are not lying. And if this is cheating then okay tell Arohi to have some self respect and back off, stop being such a despo. I will support Arohi if she dumps Abhi. She is not getting my sympthay so easily.

Originally posted by: ishqdinoorhai9

Okay ek baar ko I agree with everyone ... Why is Akshara given a free pass?

All I hear is Abhimanyu cheating, I hear Manjiri called names like dummy and all (I totally get it the actress over do the emotional scenes and it gets irritating)... Heck, even Kairav is called names like what was he supposed to do? Go and tell Abhimanyu that Akshu loves him when she herself does not do that?

Let's get to Manjiri first (bado se shuruwat karte hai), she fell ill, she wanted Aarohi as her nahi because according to her, it will solve the problems she is having in her marriage and will make it better... Of course because Birlas are a fam of doctors and Aarohi is one. Akshara wants Abhimanyu and Aarohi to get married so that her relationship with Aarohi gets better. Where is the love for Abhimanyu?

Manjiri and Kairav are called names... I get it they are dumb but Manjiri can't call and ask for Akshara hand when the latter first refused to speak and then openly rejected her son. Now can she? Kairav was an idiot of a brother to send Akshu to Pune and cut off her contacts but once she came back he did not even once questioned. He even probed her to listen to her heart voice... What he can do now? He even tried to have a conversation with her but if Akshu remains to zip her mouth and never speaks, he can't do anything.

And lastly, I totally get the problem of jija-saali (honewale) problem but why only jija ji is called names? Does not Akshara have a hand in it? Nothing at all?

And many times I have seen, he needs proof to believe his 'true love'. Let's decide first, what do we want... Mythological show or realistic show? Because for god sake, that man was unconscious and was gotten out of life and death situation. Yet just when he wakes up his first question is where is Akshara and what did Aarohi said... Aarohi who also happens to be Akshara sister? She left. Nd the very same sister said to Akshara that Abhimanyu left. They believed. Why? Abhi because she was Akshara sister and when we left we tell to our family members. Akshara because Aarohi was with Abhimanyu. Yet, after every believe, he called Akshara and what did she said? She covered up her sister lie? How was that right? That is morally right?

Yet after that believe, he defended her in the park. Helped her with her panic attack and once going to give her the rose and what did he got in return? Rejection? What more he has to endure?

He loved his mother, he was ready to marry anyone, Aarohi was chosen as the prospective bride, his mother was happy, he accepted it. He was angry at Akshu but for that he accepted to marry anyone. Aarohi is the choice because first his sir chose it and it made his I'll mother happy.

If Akshara is sacrifice and the epitome of goodness and deserve better, why does Abhimanyu turned to be the cheater?

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

true ..I agree with the part where abhimanyu says he can't stop canoodling with akshara and his dialog in yesterday's episode makes it clear what his intentions are..he clearly said that ' its not a doctor's oath that I can't break' ..this dialog says it all..that he isn't going to stay loyal to arohi and will continue coming closer to akshara because he can't control..that's the TRUTH that arohi & akshara both don't realize.. thankfully abhira is endgame or else the kind of desperation abhimanyu has for akshara it would have led to an extra marital affair if abhi arohi got married...akshara was JUST talking to a man and abhimanyu couldn't handle it..he got enraged..and when akshara questioned him he simply said he tried to move on but he can't..akshara is arohi's elder sister if arohi's marriage is fixed then akshara also has to get married at some point ..and there's no way abhimanyu will allow someone else to enter akshara's life. He'd go crazy and might even kill both himself and akshara for that..abhimanyu's love is obsessive and problematic ..it is what it is..he can never be sane or moral when it comes to akshara..throughout the Christmas party he was watching akshara and following her around creepily..So it is best if abhimanyu and arohi's alliance breaks soon..not only for abhira but it is best for arohi also or else she'll have a torturous married life. Arohi needs to focus on her MD & forget the man who's obsessed with her sister. Period

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

@blue-nobody has given Akshara a free pass,the criticism is for both, it's just that abhimanyu makes it more evident to criticize him by his actions, so much that sometimes some ppl forget to mention that Akshara is equally the culprit for not stopping him for his advances!!👍🏼

That does not change the fact that she is equally the culprit if not more. And that people are selectively bashing only one character where as both the character are dumb

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

We all know Abhi is not perfect. Day one se we know yeh daal mein kuch kala hain. Even today, he openly admits that he cannot try to be "normal" so I dont think hes being a hypocrite. Hes probably the only character on this show that has always been honest.

About Akshara, I feel she is trying her best but its clearly not working. Again, I personally do not see how hugging someone is cheating so I cant see the nonsense.

How is it two timing? He never even gives time to Arohi and she does not even mind.

@Bold but we know they are drunk, they are not lying. And if this is cheating then okay tell Arohi to have some self respect and back off, stop being such a despo. I will support Arohi if she dumps Abhi. She is not getting my sympthay so easily.

He can't be normal. Fine. But how does it work keep harassing a girl who said no to him. How is it okay scaring away her colleagues while having conversations? Isn't that the most platonic thing? He can't stand it. But they can hug, when he is supposed to marry someone else. And I agree hugging is not cheating. But AbhiRa hug is not platonic. I don't know why we are pretending it is.

It is two timing because he is literally engaged to marry Aarohi. 🥲

The problem is not lying. Not saying lying is okay. The problem is blaming one's adultery on alcohol. A lot of people find that excuse. I am not against drinking. But drunken or not, ones responsibilities of their actions do not reduce or go away.

I found both the hugs as reassuring hugs, not romantic. Both the time abhimanyu didn't even try to hold her close or gripping, he was asking her to calm down. He was wondering what's happening with her, trying to understand her situation. I could see he never tried to take advantage though he clearly had been dreaming of holding her close. It can happen between any set of two people in this kinda circumstances, even strangers. Feelings yes, but I couldn't see romance. So why not this kind of expression of emotions between these guys, who make two minuses a plus when put together. Good they are breaking the boundaries they have put around them.

Moreover Arohi is only going after abhimanyu as her zidd not love. Abrohi are not even officially engaged. Akshara prays that abhi never gets to see arohi's heart as she also acknowledges arohi has been doing wrong in order to snatch Abhi from her.

We all want abhira together, don't we?? Are we watching the show to see Arohi get her way, No! Why sympathies with an evil person then??

If now things are finally falling into place, why should not let the leads express themselves before they officially put the wrong pairing together.

Originally posted by: ishqdinoorhai9

That does not change the fact that she is equally the culprit if not more. And that people are selectively bashing only one character where as both the character are dumb

Originally posted by: Prettywitty

Abhi has free will, he’s a grown man. And Arohi has not asked him even once to marry her. He asked her. She did a better job of acting professional around him than he has done.

You’re defining feelings for another person is infidelity (which I agree, it is emotional cheating). But you don’t think grabbing Akshu and following her around is cheating. So I guess we just have to agree to disagree.

That's what provocation is. The victim of provocation does not need to be asked, they are compelled to react based on events and in Abhi's case, such events have happened. Arohi has committed fraud and that alone is enough to show Abhi is not wrong. You cannot build relationships based on lies.

Yes emotional indefinitely is definitely happening but how do they stop this?

@Bold It is in normal situation but I don't see Arohi and Abhi as a legit couple. It just doesnt make sense to me.

I’ll try one last time to clear the opposing point of view.

Arohi does not know Abhi is initiating physical contact with her sister. In the “normal” scene, Abhi straight up lied to Arohi when she came into his office, and said he and Akshu were just talking. He doesn’t not romance Askhu openly in front of Arohi. He told Arohi he will not love her, he did not say he will continue to pursue Akshara trying to get her to confess her love. Regardless of how Arohi is as a person, this is totally against the so-called transparent honest nature Abhi claims to have.

Hugging a person is not cheating - hugging a person for whom you have romantic feelings when you’re committing to another person is. And Abhi has purposely initiated physical contact many times with intention. I mean he told Akshu that he will make her yearn for him (tadap jao gi). He’s telling her he will seduce her into admitting her feelings while he’s preparing to get married to her sister! How would the Goebkas and Arohi feel if he had added all that to his disclaimery proposal - if the answer was still yes, then ok it’s an open relationship.

And if being drunk justifies physical contact with another person as not infidelity, then wow lots of men will use that free pass

(I think Akshra is also fanning the flames passively but Abhi is actively being dishonest)